Tinder, and your successes with it!

How do successful marriages work? My girl and I are young, I mean, we both want to get married but of course neither of us know what the Hell were getting into. She's a solid 10/10 in my mind, she's looking to get her phD, great body and unique sense of humor like mine... sometimes I worry that I'm not ready to just stick with her, and sometimes I wonder if she feels the same. It's a really shitty feeling, ya know? The uncertainty I guess.

We instantly hit it off, we get along great, we're almost the same person. It surprised the shit out of me like it was too good to be true but it is true. Idk man... how do I continue it and not fuck off? I know the obvious things like
not cheat, give her the D every day, pay bills, etc.. I'm talking about what I'm going to run into if I go and marry this girl. What am I looking at here? I'm asking all of you now I guess lol

I'm telling y'all, she's something else..you guys can get pussy all day, but I promise you once you find something like this it throws everything out the window for you. At least that's what happened to me. I got stories toobut this chick ihas changed me so much and I just realised that. falling in love is wild

It sounds like you've found someone pretty special. You've been together long enough and invested enough time and effort to know this thing is going in a good direction.

The question you need to ask yourself is whether it's worth it to you to give all that up just so you can date other girls. Is banging a bunch of girls worth you having to start all over with someone else at some point in the future? Only you can answer that but keep in mind there are no guarantees that you'll find another one like her, and in my experience, the special ones like her don't come along everyday. Some people spend a lifetime looking for that and still never find it.

Sometimes people get lucky and they just click. Like the old saying goes, don't look a gift horse in the mouth, just hop on and see where the ride takes you. It could lead to a place that exceeds your wildest dreams. Best of luck.
 
It sounds like you've found someone pretty special. You've been together long enough and invested enough time and effort to know this thing is going in a good direction.

The question you need to ask yourself is whether it's worth it to you to give all that up just so you can date other girls. Is banging a bunch of girls worth you having to start all over with someone else at some point in the future? Only you can answer that but keep in mind there are no guarantees that you'll find another one like her, and in my experience, the special ones like her don't come along everyday. Some people spend a lifetime looking for that and still never find it.

Sometimes people get lucky and they just click. Like the old saying goes, don't look a gift horse in the mouth, just hop on and see where the ride takes you. It could lead to a place that exceeds your wildest dreams. Best of luck.

You're right. I'm gonna get her a ring and ask her to marry me this winter.
 
It sounds like you've found someone pretty special. You've been together long enough and invested enough time and effort to know this thing is going in a good direction.

The question you need to ask yourself is whether it's worth it to you to give all that up just so you can date other girls. Is banging a bunch of girls worth you having to start all over with someone else at some point in the future? Only you can answer that but keep in mind there are no guarantees that you'll find another one like her, and in my experience, the special ones like her don't come along everyday. Some people spend a lifetime looking for that and still never find it.

Sometimes people get lucky and they just click. Like the old saying goes, don't look a gift horse in the mouth, just hop on and see where the ride takes you. It could lead to a place that exceeds your wildest dreams. Best of luck.

Holy shit?!?!?! Trukker AND CBS hiit relationship advice in the same thread no less? The fuck is going on here, this isn't the meso I know..... :p
 
Solid advice for sure. Been marrried 15 years here.

Think many get married and think a white picket fence shoots up and everything will be just lovely.

I think another key to marriage is learning to morph. I hear people in a relationships all the time say " they aren't the same person anymore" or "they changed" no shit! After 15 years or so people change views, morph into something else with age and the two of you must adapt to those changes and grow and support each other.

And all the other stuff trucker said
 
And when you come home to her each night smile when you see her. Even if it's been a shitty ass day, smile when you see her. Make her fell that no matter what, she's the one person that can brighten your day and make things better. It's a small thing I know, but it helps makes her fell wanted and needed.
 
Idk about Tinder and all that stuff, but I do know that marriage takes work and communication. Even if it is hard. You need to be able to communicate exactly how you are feeling to your wife/husband especially if it is something that is really bothering you. Sometimes texting is easier for some people. I'm on my third marriage. The first one i was just too young. The second, we should have been divorced after 10 years but hung on for a grand total of 25 (he was emotionally abuse, drug addict at one point, neglected me terribly). Now #3--i think this one will last. Both #2 and the current one tell me I am the "perfect wife", but what matters is actions, not just words. If you appreciate a lady, show her in every way. If you aren't getting what you need as far as space, love, sex, whatever, let her know. Talk or text either way, but get it out there! And remember, both people need to remember that sex is not love and vica versa. that said, sex with someone you truly love is super awesome. ANd for pete's sake if you go for sex outside your marriage or even in a swinging situation USE A FUCKING CONDOM!!! My ex gave me something that fortunately I could get rid of with medication but WHAT IF I COULDN'T????
 
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