Most generally, when you go to have sex with a women, how do you proceed? Do you actually ask them anything like “are you comfortable?”or “do you want to have sex?” Etc. Or do you let things progress slowly going off the females body language? Leaving things unspoken.
I always thought option two was the correct method. Asking anything just always seemed odd. If we were alone, she was cool getting in the bed and taking her clothes off and we were both equal participants, my thinking has always been it’s obvious they wanted to have sex.
My buddy has been seeing my cousin. From what I can gather they’ve been talking a couple months and been out on more than a handful of dates. I’ve stayed out of it entirely but received a call from them both last night late and I didn’t pick up. Well this morning I’ve got calls from other relatives and I get nervous.
Seems after all this time they’ve only ever kissed and had been at his place watching tv. No discussion about sex had ever taken place so my boy didn’t know my cousin had been raped and I guess was hesitant around sex. So both of them say he kissed her and then started grabbing her thighs n stuff. Laying in bed watching movies. Then he goes to unzip her pants she’s not about it and he stops. That is both of their account.
Now my cousin and my uncle are up in arms wanting this friend physically harmed. Saying he had tried to take advantage of my cousin. I m fucking baffled. It’s a shitty spot to be in. Should I be upset? I don’t exactly feel like he did anything wrong. But I don’t want to piss off the family either.
I always thought option two was the correct method. Asking anything just always seemed odd. If we were alone, she was cool getting in the bed and taking her clothes off and we were both equal participants, my thinking has always been it’s obvious they wanted to have sex.
My buddy has been seeing my cousin. From what I can gather they’ve been talking a couple months and been out on more than a handful of dates. I’ve stayed out of it entirely but received a call from them both last night late and I didn’t pick up. Well this morning I’ve got calls from other relatives and I get nervous.
Seems after all this time they’ve only ever kissed and had been at his place watching tv. No discussion about sex had ever taken place so my boy didn’t know my cousin had been raped and I guess was hesitant around sex. So both of them say he kissed her and then started grabbing her thighs n stuff. Laying in bed watching movies. Then he goes to unzip her pants she’s not about it and he stops. That is both of their account.
Now my cousin and my uncle are up in arms wanting this friend physically harmed. Saying he had tried to take advantage of my cousin. I m fucking baffled. It’s a shitty spot to be in. Should I be upset? I don’t exactly feel like he did anything wrong. But I don’t want to piss off the family either.
