Wife getting pissed I can't try to have children right now due to training.

[GymRat79]

Guys the wife is fine with me training. I was just bitching about it a few days ago but we have worked things out and to be honest it was more me than her. She said to me "Why would you think I don't support you training for this show?"

I guess it was all in my head.

 

[wedorecover]

Some can

She thinks I can't get her pregnant taking gear. I think I'll try tonight just to make her quiet. I don't care if she is pregnant while prepping for a show. The show is in 15 weeks and she wouldn't be due till May. The thing with her is that she says how confused she is about me going back and forth on having children. Part of me wants to have them, the other part of me wants to just focus on training and shows while I am young enough to be competitive. If any other members on here have been through something similar please post about it here.

She also compares all the time about how I was when we first met. Back then I loved the gym but I didn't have plans of competing. Now I do and she says my mindset is different. It rubs her the wrong way.

some can't brother I couldn't luckily I already have 3 kids we tired to get the 4 th didn't happen I even came off and tried still didn't happen we gave up I got back on good luck

 

[GymRat79]

By the way I told my wife that we are going to have children. I put lots of pressure on myself so I was being hard on the situation. Overreacted and then made an ass out of myself. I apologize to each and every one of you as my hormones are a little crazy at the moment at times.

 

[grey]

a little crazy at the moment

No worries. It happens. Glad you have it in a better spot now.

 

[GymRat79]

No worries. It happens. Glad you have it in a better spot now.

Yes I am too. Thank you btw!

 

[johntt44]

Guys the wife is fine with me training. I was just bitching about it a few days ago but we have worked things out and to be honest it was more me than her. She said to me "Why would you think I don't support you training for this show?"

I guess it was all in my head.

I'm happy everything worked out. Sorry if I was harsh but family comes first. Good luck with your show!

 

[GymRat79]

I'm happy everything worked out. Sorry if I was harsh but family comes first. Good luck with your show!

Thank you, I am 16 weeks out! And family does come first. To be honest with you this morning I went upstairs to read the news and have my breakfast. My wife was sleeping in so after I had breakfast I went back downstairs and made love to her. Hopefully we find out soon that she is pregnant with our first child.

 

[rutman]

I'd shoot a load in her every night for the next 15 weeks....she'll be pregnant before you step on stage.

 

[grey]

I'd shoot a load in her every night for the next 15 weeks....she'll be pregnant before you step on stage.

I was moved by your words to generate a poem in their honor:

@rutman

Ode To Loads:

My love for Loads of load is so great,
my heart melts for Her 'til the dusk of day.
The night Screws when Her's away,
Shoots, Jizzes 'til day's dawn.

Her beauty is great,
Wondering mind 'til Her sees,
Fucking is all I do,
While waiting for the moment, for Her to say "I do."


I'll see myself out.

 

[rutman]

Shakespeare would be jealous....[emoji869]

 

[rated_rko]

I would try and get her pregnant while on but it might have to wait she has to be patient

 

[Switcher]

Enjoy the wife being fertile and wanting it. Menopause WILL occur.

 

[Fattest_animal]

Promise to knock her up after the show? Seems like the better compromise to me, no?

She won't bother you until the show is over and she will get what she wants; a baby. Can't blame her though, at 38 time is ticking...

 

[Fattest_animal]

And I'm sure that when you'll see that ugly little creature for the first time you won't regret it! You've just created your gym partner.

 

[GymRat79]

And I'm sure that when you'll see that ugly little creature for the first time you won't regret it! You've just created your gym partner.

Every family has their own bloodline. Over generations new talents develop and genetics play a part. I am the first person in my families history who will compete. There haven't been any other people in my family who really had the genetics to do so. I think my father would have when he was younger if he would have gotten interested in bodybuilding though and adopted a healthy lifestyle. But he preferred to be a business man instead and start his own company. Which as been in business close to 30 years now. He likes to live his life eating what he wants to and having a few beers on a hot summer day by his pool. Having a little belly doesn't really bother him. Anyone who has been around my father always has a fun time since he loves to entertain people. He also is very loyal and supports me when he feels its deserved. For example he just reserved 3 rooms for me and my guests coming up to watch me at my show in a few months. That saved me about 600 bucks and he also is helping me out with taking care of what I owe my posing coach.

Maybe one day my son or daughter will follow and be even better in the gym and fitness. It may cause a history of great competitive bodybuilders down the line for my family. Thats a cool thought.

 

[14Red88]

So my wife is 38.

She is getting ancy to have children. Right now I am training for my first show and I have told her that I need to focus on the show at hand and nothing else. She keeps saying "You could have waited to enter a show until I got pregnant."

I am currently on a gear cycle also which I asked her if she would have a problem with it before I started and she said "no." That was the agreement.

Its stressing me out and I dont' want this to interfere with my show prep.

What would you do if you were me? File for Divorce? Threaten you will leave? Tell her "Sorry babe but you are not as important as this show to me right now."

Cause I want to do well and that takes 100 % commitment. Even over your wife and family.

 

[14Red88]

Where your actions brother what's more important your wife or your body simple as that what are your priorities. I have 3 kids and they are my world I would not want it any other way and my wife is amazing but to keep it real with you if she told me to stop going to the gym and stop doing what I do or she was leaving me I'll be doing push ups in the living room for the rest of my life.