When enough, is enough?

[TRT]

Wish I could post a picture of her but she doesn't wanna be on here and I can't say I blame her. So I've been dating this Columbian woman for about 9 1/2 months now and everything has went very smooth. She is VERY beautiful. I seriously lucked out and not to mention she works out. Score!
Guys obviously hit on her all the time. It's like clock work. It's amusing most of the time and we both laugh it off. Some of the shit guys say is unreal. Haha

So the issue is when is enough, is enough? I have guys who start to get physical and I can tell from a distance that she does not feel comfortable (obviously). She manages to handle it herself most of the time. When should I be stepping in? I'm asking for opinions because the moment they lay a finger on her I see she gets uncomfortable like she's helpless and I just snap. I take A LOT of BS from people daily. I have a ton of patience but not with that. I get tunnel vision very quickly. I've almost gotten my ass beat twice now cause there's been more then one dude both times.

Now, Im not a big guy like mands or Torro xl but I definitely look like a bodybuilder @ 170lbs. Point is the moment I confront someone there's gonna be a fight. I don't back down and me not being a big guy their not going to be intimidated. I'm trying to avoid this. If there's any advice I can be given it would be greatly appreciated.
I'd like to hear some experience from members since I see pics of their girlfriends and I'm sure the same thing happens...or they just walk up. Problem solved. Lol

 

[Docd187123]

Wish I could post a picture of her but she doesn't wanna be on here and I can't say I blame her. So I've been dating this Columbian woman for about 9 1/2 months now and everything has went very smooth. She is VERY beautiful. I seriously lucked out and not to mention she works out. Score!
Guys obviously hit on her all the time. It's like clock work. It's amusing most of the time and we both laugh it off. Some of the shit guys say is unreal. Haha

So the issue is when is enough, is enough? I have guys who start to get physical and I can tell from a distance that she does not feel comfortable (obviously). She manages to handle it herself most of the time. When should I be stepping in? I'm asking for opinions because the moment they lay a finger on her I see she gets uncomfortable like she's helpless and I just snap. I take A LOT of BS from people daily. I have a ton of patience but not with that. I get tunnel vision very quickly. I've almost gotten my ass beat twice now cause there's been more then one dude both times.

Now, Im not a big guy like mands or Torro xl but I definitely look like a bodybuilder @ 170lbs. Point is the moment I confront someone there's gonna be a fight. I don't back down and me not being a big guy their not going to be intimidated. I'm trying to avoid this. If there's any advice I can be given it would be greatly appreciated.
I'd like to hear some experience from members since I see pics of their girlfriends and I'm sure the same thing happens...or they just walk up. Problem solved. Lol

I had to deal with this with an ex. We were at a club and some random guy threw a few thousand dollars on the table and told her its hers if she goes home with him that night. My ex restrained me from flipping out. She calmly took the money and told the guy no amount of money would make up for his small Dick and threw the money into the crowd lol. Guy was on hands and knees trying To get it back when I "accidentally" spilled a few drinks on him and kneed the fucker in his face. Other shit happened too but that one always sticks out.

You've got to be calm and assertive. Size doesn't matter. Your tone and looking like a crazy savage (like trukker when someone takes his steak away) will discourage most from doing anything. You help her when she asks for it or when she gets over her head and needs the help. Or you wait for them to swing first, knock their lights out, and then claim self defense lolol

 

[ickyrica]

If another man ever put a finger on my wife I would break him mercilessly. Instantly.

 

[Dw725]

Wish I could post a picture of her but she doesn't wanna be on here and I can't say I blame her. So I've been dating this Columbian woman for about 9 1/2 months now and everything has went very smooth. She is VERY beautiful. I seriously lucked out and not to mention she works out. Score!
Guys obviously hit on her all the time. It's like clock work. It's amusing most of the time and we both laugh it off. Some of the shit guys say is unreal. Haha

So the issue is when is enough, is enough? I have guys who start to get physical and I can tell from a distance that she does not feel comfortable (obviously). She manages to handle it herself most of the time. When should I be stepping in? I'm asking for opinions because the moment they lay a finger on her I see she gets uncomfortable like she's helpless and I just snap. I take A LOT of BS from people daily. I have a ton of patience but not with that. I get tunnel vision very quickly. I've almost gotten my ass beat twice now cause there's been more then one dude both times.

Now, Im not a big guy like mands or Torro xl but I definitely look like a bodybuilder @ 170lbs. Point is the moment I confront someone there's gonna be a fight. I don't back down and me not being a big guy their not going to be intimidated. I'm trying to avoid this. If there's any advice I can be given it would be greatly appreciated.
I'd like to hear some experience from members since I see pics of their girlfriends and I'm sure the same thing happens...or they just walk up. Problem solved. Lol

Welcome to the world have having a hot gf.
I've gotten way more calm and collected over the years of dating different girls. I could give tons of stories and examples , but I'll be short. 99% of the time , you should not have to get involved physically. Grown men get locked up for fighting. It's on the girl to make clear she isn't available.
The only way I'd get involved is if there was some sort of repeat offender. The type that doesn't take no for an answer. Never had this happen.

 

[RodgerThat]

Welcome to the world have having a hot gf.
I've gotten way more calm and collected over the years of dating different girls. I could give tons of stories and examples , but I'll be short. 99% of the time , you should not have to get involved physically. Grown men get locked up for fighting. It's on the girl to make clear she isn't available.
The only way I'd get involved is if there was some sort of repeat offender. The type that doesn't take no for an answer. Never had this happen.

I'm with ya here man I've always had girls that constantly get hit on by others. Usually I just let my girl sort it out and tell them off, they are always good about it cause they don't have wide eyes when they are treated like a queen at home. The only time I've ever done anything was when someone grabbed my girls arm and pulled her away from me to dance with her and she struggled to try and hold onto me so I walked up to the guy tapped him on the shoulder and put my hand out to shake his to introduce myself then broke his hand by rolling his pinky medicarpel back and crushing with full force, the guy was on his knees begging for me to let go within a second. Unfortunately it drew a ton of attention to me and we had to GTFO real quick after that, but moral of the story is don't touch a guys girl if he can double overhand 495 on a deadlift

 

[TRT]

I'm with ya here man I've always had girls that constantly get hit on by others. Usually I just let my girl sort it out and tell them off, they are always good about it cause they don't have wide eyes when they are treated like a queen at home. The only time I've ever done anything was when someone grabbed my girls arm and pulled her away from me to dance with her and she struggled to try and hold onto me so I walked up to the guy tapped him on the shoulder and put my hand out to shake his to introduce myself then broke his hand by rolling his pinky medicarpel back and crushing with full force, the guy was on his knees begging for me to let go within a second. Unfortunately it drew a ton of attention to me and we had to GTFO real quick after that, but moral of the story is don't touch a guys girl if he can double overhand 495 on a deadlift

That last part got me good. Haha I can double over hand 315. Belt only.

Thank you for responses and I enjoy the stories. It kinda helps me map out what I would do if the situation takes a turn for better or worse.

Regardless of my size I've been told on numerous occasions that I'm very intimidating. Few friends tried to get me to be a bouncer at a night club and I just laughed. Ha even with that people still try me.

I also asked about this because I realize we are grown men. No need to go to jail for fighting. I've got a ton of fighting experience and after 10 years of it you out grow it I guess or it gets old. I'm all for going hands on but avoid it at all cost. Plus, nobody walks away unharmed. Both parties get hurt.

 

[RodgerThat]

I also asked about this because I realize we are grown men. No need to go to jail for fighting. I've got a ton of fighting experience and after 10 years of it you out grow it I guess or it gets old. I'm all for going hands on but avoid it at all cost. Plus, nobody walks away unharmed. Both parties get hurt.

naw doesn't always have to be both parties getting hurt, like my pops always said "if I'm gonna get in a fight it's gonna be a 3 hit fight, I hit you, you hit the floor and the ambulance hits the lights and comes full speed to get your ass"

 

[Professor Karman]

My wife works out a college gym ( I teach there) and has guys hit on her sometimes. When she tells them she is old enough to be their mother (she is 41) that usually gets them off her ass..

 

[RodgerThat]

My wife works out a college gym ( I teach there) and has guys hit on her sometimes. When she tells them she is old enough to be their mother (she is 41) that usually gets them off her ass..

So you're saying they got on her ass first though? You got a freaky woman man

 

[Professor Karman]

So you're saying they got on her ass first though? You got a freaky woman man

Lol..touche. Of course this is all second hand information from her since we have to work out at different times (we have a 2 year old) so for all I know she told them that after she banged them in the locker room

 

[gr8whitetrukker]

Unfortunately mental toughness beats physical toughness any damn day of the week. Some one who is mentally tough is leader of men and is respected and some times feared. Its the way you handle your words and the way you come off. Dont gotta be crazy or huge. The sign of a pro

 

[gr8whitetrukker]

I'm with ya here man I've always had girls that constantly get hit on by others. Usually I just let my girl sort it out and tell them off, they are always good about it cause they don't have wide eyes when they are treated like a queen at home. The only time I've ever done anything was when someone grabbed my girls arm and pulled her away from me to dance with her and she struggled to try and hold onto me so I walked up to the guy tapped him on the shoulder and put my hand out to shake his to introduce myself then broke his hand by rolling his pinky medicarpel back and crushing with full force, the guy was on his knees begging for me to let go within a second. Unfortunately it drew a ton of attention to me and we had to GTFO real quick after that, but moral of the story is don't touch a guys girl if he can double overhand 495 on a deadlift

Thats a good move. Very easy to do and the lil pinky dont stand a chance under any conditions. The overhand right is the most overplayed move by amateurs. Anyone whos seen it before is ready for it and is counting on it.
I still have yet to see a throat punch not drop anybody. I dont even care if your crazy or high on bath salts. If you cant fucking breathe you cant fight. Fight to kill or dont fight at all. Kinda puts it in to perspective and i think rightly so

 

[Sdryx]

Your girlfriends have all had guys hit on them since they were 13! Girls instinctively know how to deal with guys they are not interested in as it is a skill they have had to develop since childhood. Something most guys will never understand.

You don't need to step in. You are just being jealous and can look weak in front of a female. Seriously, they have been protecting themselves since childhood without you.

You look like the man when you don't lose your cool while she gets hit on because she will see CONFIDENCE! And if she flirts away, then you let her go because she's not for you.

You don't intervene unless your girl needs your help or someone touches her inappropriately. Then you go in, fuck that dude up, then you take your girl home and fuck her brains out.

 

[TRT]

Your girlfriends have all had guys hit on them since they were 13! Girls instinctively know how to deal with guys they are not interested in as it is a skill they have had to develop since childhood. Something most guys will never understand.

You don't need to step in. You are just being jealous and can look weak in front of a female. Seriously, they have been protecting themselves since childhood without you.

You look like the man when you don't lose your cool while she gets hit on because she will see CONFIDENCE! And if she flirts away, then you let her go because she's not for you.

You don't intervene unless your girl needs your help or someone touches her inappropriately. Then you go in, fuck that dude up, then you take your girl home and fuck her brains out.

I've had friends ask why I do not do anything when guys hit on her. Doesn't bother me it's the physical touching that sets me off. She gets that look like shes about to cry. And like I said I wanna snap.
I think the first time there was unnecessary touching I was making a beeline for this guy in a public place. I was really gonna fuck him up and fight dirty until this little boy stepped out in front of me and I almost fell trying to avoid him.
The most recent time I had to talk myself down. So I pretended to be some other random guy and started flirting with her. I used the trick I did when I first met her.

"Excuse me miss. Could you help me? My hands are full and I need my cell phone out my back pocket." She agrees and takes it out. Before she could give it to me I said "okay. so if you would be so kind as to put your number in there that would be great."
Needless to say I got the girl both times. She laughed just as hard the second time knowing what was coming.
May not go that well the next time.

 

[CuriousGeorge247]

Have her wear a wedding ring at the gym.

If you see a dude hitting her, hollar over and say. "Hey babe, did you find a man who is rich to take care of you and the 5 kids?"

That should run em off, lol.

Bit what you should really do is talk to your woman about it amd ask if theres is anything she wants or how she wants you to handle the situation. If not you may go homicidal on some dude some day because she means that much to you. [emoji6]

 

[TRT]

Have her wear a wedding ring at the gym.

If you see a dude hitting her, hollar over and say. "Hey babe, did you find a man who is rich to take care of you and the 5 kids?"

That should run em off, lol.

Bit what you should really do is talk to your woman about it amd ask if theres is anything she wants or how she wants you to handle the situation. If not you may go homicidal on some dude some day because she means that much to you. [emoji6]

I spoke to her about it. The physical touching is a no, no and if I can tell prior then I'm gtg. I know when she's had enough she looks for my eye contact.

I like to pretend I don't know her at the gym. So we can talk to each other like as if we're strangers. Makes shower sex after the gym more interesting. Haha
It's nice too cause if I need a flat bench on a Monday she can get it for me no matter how busy it is.

 

[colossus25]

I've had this happen to me on only a handful of occasions. Like i wouldn't be near my girl and some dickhead would try and talk to her. I'd be a liar if i said i didn't let the rage take over on more than one occasion. They have all backed down instantly because im not a small guy but one did get brave. I was at Ft. Lauderdale beach and this drunk dumbass thought it would be cool to grab my girls ass. I didnt even say anything just pushed him so hard he fell and knocked over some tables. He got back up and charged me when my years of bouncing took over and i beat him into a concussion. Rescue was called and i ended up in cuffs until the cops (who were unusually cool af) found out why i gave homeboy a concussion and let me go. They were joking around and said that guy deserved to be taken out thinking he stood a chance against me lol. They put three pairs of handcuffs on me and joked around saying i was gonna bust out of them. I was huge and on tren at the time lol. Anyways always stand up for your lady bro, she'll fuck the shit out of you after.

 

[TRT]

I've had this happen to me on only a handful of occasions. Like i wouldn't be near my girl and some dickhead would try and talk to her. I'd be a liar if i said i didn't let the rage take over on more than one occasion. They have all backed down instantly because im not a small guy but one did get brave. I was at Ft. Lauderdale beach and this drunk dumbass thought it would be cool to grab my girls ass. I didnt even say anything just pushed him so hard he fell and knocked over some tables. He got back up and charged me when my years of bouncing took over and i beat him into a concussion. Rescue was called and i ended up in cuffs until the cops (who were unusually cool af) found out why i gave homeboy a concussion and let me go. They were joking around and said that guy deserved to be taken out thinking he stood a chance against me lol. They put three pairs of handcuffs on me and joked around saying i was gonna bust out of them. I was huge and on tren at the time lol. Anyways always stand up for your lady bro, she'll fuck the shit out of you after.

Ya the beach. That's another place I always thought I'd have trouble at but not much. Just a couple drunks. It's always packed on Sundays. Gf likes to wear a thing one-piece sometimes. Guys really just point and whisper. Now the girls on the other hand I gotta beat off with a stick. Lol jk

 

[colossus25]

Ya the beach. That's another place I always thought I'd have trouble at but not much. Just a couple drunks. It's always packed on Sundays. Gf likes to wear a thing one-piece sometimes. Guys really just point and whisper. Now the girls on the other hand I gotta beat off with a stick. Lol jk

Lmao bro it was spring break, every frat boy in the eastern united states was there. Her and i both got dragged to the beach for my boys birthday. She hates going because of me and how much attention i would get. I really didn't see that coming but what can i expect? She has a fat juicy ass and it was hanging out of her bikini like an ape on a tree. Its like a drunk frat bitch boy's wet dream until he had the uppercut of destiny lay him out cold. I swear i thought i killed him. I kept asking if he was alright and the Leos just laughed saying he was going to be fine.

 

[TRT]

Lmao bro it was spring break, every frat boy in the eastern united states was there. Her and i both got dragged to the beach for my boys birthday. She hates going because of me and how much attention i would get. I really didn't see that coming but what can i expect? She has a fat juicy ass and it was hanging out of her bikini like an ape on a tree. Its like a drunk frat bitch boy's wet dream until he had the uppercut of destiny lay him out cold. I swear i thought i killed him. I kept asking if he was alright and the Leos just laughed saying he was going to be fine.

Upper cuts man, those are nasty. I would have been scared to when it comes from a guy as big as you are. Holy shit. Got a video of that? Ha

Ok so that was the worst environment you could have been in. I'm not gonna say where we are but it's busy here at the beach almost all year round. Spring break we always find a private beach. It's like an Oz fest concert there.