Go to gym to get girls.. but ditch girl for gym.

Ryan11

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We all have our reasons to gym. Mine helps me feel better emotionally along with being able to pick up girls easier. Though I often find myself in situations where I have to choose between hitting the gym or hanging out with a few girls who blatantly ask to fuck.. They ask me to come "make them feel better" or to "go see a movie then spend the night" and so on... I 100% of the time in the past 4 months have chose the gym. I go at 930pm, so I always have to make these decisions because they want to hangout around night time. I can't change my gym schedule but even if.. I'm a horny guy not gonna lie and love sex. So why am I choosing the gym over girls so frequently when getting girls is in my top 2 reasons I work out?
 
I'm 22 5"10 and Like 186-189

recent pics: http://prntscr.com/jk63kz
& : http://prntscr.com/jk640f

We all have our reasons to gym. Mine helps me feel better emotionally along with being able to pick up girls easier. Though I often find myself in situations where I have to choose between hitting the gym or hanging out with a few girls who blatantly ask to fuck.. They ask me to come "make them feel better" or to "go see a movie then spend the night" and so on... I 100% of the time in the past 4 months have chose the gym. I go at 930pm, so I always have to make these decisions because they want to hangout around night time. I can't change my gym schedule but even if.. I'm a horny guy not gonna lie and love sex. So why am I choosing the gym over girls so frequently when getting girls is in my top 2 reasons I work out?
Why can't you change your schedule? You say you don't work and don't leave the house. So what more important shit do you have to do throughout the day?

You have debilitating anxiety and depression. But all of the sudden you are Don Juan and are beating off chics left and right lol. Come on man.
 
Because banging hoes one after another brings no fulfillment to your life. And clearly going to the gym is bringing you fulfillment.

You are young. Banging girls one after another is somewhat of a phase we all go through until you realize that there are a few girls out there who are rare but special. Once you start finding those girls is when you will find yourself choosing them over the gym.

You sound pretty normal to me man! Keep doing what you KNOW makes you happy. Not what you think should make you happy.
 
Banging rando girls is crazy fun but not very satisfying.
Working out is somewhat fun but very satisfying.
You're probably making the choice subconsciously cause one of these fulfills you more than the other.
 
Man one day when you’re older and your dick stops working, like not even viagra helps you have to inject ed meds straight into your dick to get a boner, and you’re ugly and too injured or too old to workout to the point that hookers won’t take your $ you’re gonna regret not fuckin these girls, might as well take advantage of it while it lasts.
 
Why can't you change your schedule? You say you don't work and don't leave the house. So what more important shit do you have to do throughout the day?

You have debilitating anxiety and depression. But all of the sudden you are Don Juan and are beating off chics left and right lol. Come on man.

You're really negative. All I ask is questions to see if people can relate and you gotta be a dick always. If you really want to know my whole story.. I was abused physically and verbally my whole childhood. Put into witness protection at a young age and had to change my name when I was going into grade 1. I suffered from a lot of problems due to the past and never got treated properly for it. On top of that.. The past 6 year I've lived in another abusive household, verbally abusive (not physical). I'm not allowed to go upstairs or leave my room without being screamed at and I'm 22. It has been like that since I was 16. I'm not allowed to go make food or anything. I have to cook food when my moms boyfriend leaves and keep in Tupperware in my room. Or my mom has to sneak me food downstairs. Imagine getting screamed at multiple times a week in your own home for doing nothing at all. If I turn on the downstairs tv, yelled at.. If I talk or flush the toilet past 11pm on weekends... yelled at. Not even allowed to buy my own internet or phone because he wants me to suffer that much... I get my power in my room turned off in (my families) house. It's not even his house.. Living here is hard. Ya'll can say "suck it up" but I had a rough childhood and the past has effected me a lot mentally. I hate when people yell / or any loud noises.. and my "fight or flight" senses go off when I even think about leaving my room. I have not had a family dinner in 7 years, I don't know what it's like to have a father figure in my life, I can go on and on..


I have not moved out because I can't reliably hold a job at certain hours for 5 days a week to get on my own two feet. I worked part time a year ago and a few years before that.. but I can't walk past my moms boyfriend 10 times a week going to and from my full time job because I can't handle getting yelled at 10 times a week for months and months until I can afford to move out. I couldn't even do it for 4-6 times a week when I worked part time. I always quit my jobs because I was too scared to walk past him. I am literally trapped in my room... Yes I sound like a bitch or whatever you think.. But honestly you don't know how I feel. The place i live feels more like a house, not a "home". I don't feel welcome or safe. I would love for it to be as simple as you make things seem out to be... but in my life there are always constant struggles that I'm overcoming. I am getting better and doing me.. which is all that matters. To answer your question though, I have to wait till he leaves for work to go to the gym so i can't change my schedule...

Please don't be so quickly to judge people. I came on this site to be involved in a community, feel wanted for once, and to exchange experiences with others. Not to get put down when I post a simple question man.
 
Banging rando girls is crazy fun but not very satisfying.
Working out is somewhat fun but very satisfying.
You're probably making the choice subconsciously cause one of these fulfills you more than the other.
Because banging hoes one after another brings no fulfillment to your life. And clearly going to the gym is bringing you fulfillment.

You are young. Banging girls one after another is somewhat of a phase we all go through until you realize that there are a few girls out there who are rare but special. Once you start finding those girls is when you will find yourself choosing them over the gym.

You sound pretty normal to me man! Keep doing what you KNOW makes you happy. Not what you think should make you happy.
Because a girl is replaceble if you dont't fuck her you will fuck another one, but if you start losing workouts....!

Maybe this is accurate

 
I understand your problem for sure.
What is it with your mom’s boyfriend? Sounds like a psycopath guy.
What happen if you knock him down? Or if you yell back at him?
I understand it’s not easy
 
You're really negative. All I ask is questions to see if people can relate and you gotta be a dick always. If you really want to know my whole story.. I was abused physically and verbally my whole childhood. Put into witness protection at a young age and had to change my name when I was going into grade 1. I suffered from a lot of problems due to the past and never got treated properly for it. On top of that.. The past 6 year I've lived in another abusive household, verbally abusive (not physical). I'm not allowed to go upstairs or leave my room without being screamed at and I'm 22. It has been like that since I was 16. I'm not allowed to go make food or anything. I have to cook food when my moms boyfriend leaves and keep in Tupperware in my room. Or my mom has to sneak me food downstairs. Imagine getting screamed at multiple times a week in your own home for doing nothing at all. If I turn on the downstairs tv, yelled at.. If I talk or flush the toilet past 11pm on weekends... yelled at. Not even allowed to buy my own internet or phone because he wants me to suffer that much... I get my power in my room turned off in (my families) house. It's not even his house.. Living here is hard. Ya'll can say "suck it up" but I had a rough childhood and the past has effected me a lot mentally. I hate when people yell / or any loud noises.. and my "fight or flight" senses go off when I even think about leaving my room. I have not had a family dinner in 7 years, I don't know what it's like to have a father figure in my life, I can go on and on..


I have not moved out because I can't reliably hold a job at certain hours for 5 days a week to get on my own two feet. I worked part time a year ago and a few years before that.. but I can't walk past my moms boyfriend 10 times a week going to and from my full time job because I can't handle getting yelled at 10 times a week for months and months until I can afford to move out. I couldn't even do it for 4-6 times a week when I worked part time. I always quit my jobs because I was too scared to walk past him. I am literally trapped in my room... Yes I sound like a bitch or whatever you think.. But honestly you don't know how I feel. The place i live feels more like a house, not a "home". I don't feel welcome or safe. I would love for it to be as simple as you make things seem out to be... but in my life there are always constant struggles that I'm overcoming. I am getting better and doing me.. which is all that matters. To answer your question though, I have to wait till he leaves for work to go to the gym so i can't change my schedule...

Please don't be so quickly to judge people. I came on this site to be involved in a community, feel wanted for once, and to exchange experiences with others. Not to get put down when I post a simple question man.

If true, that's a shitty situation. But with all this talk about being locked in your room and such, i find it hard to believe you're out running around tapping all these easy bitches.

This whole thread was just a bad idea. But anyhow, good luck to you, sir.
 
How do you even get gear when u live at home with a parent or step parent, whayever, that is as controlling as u claim?

Scared to walk by the guy to get to work, but will recieve drugs in the mailbox? Or stash in house?

I'm calling bullshit.
 
Sounds like your a victim. Suck it up. Life's hard . People lie . 99.9% of people aren't your friend . That said stop worrying . Focus . Relax. Go work out . Don't do drugs .
 
Sounds like your a victim. Suck it up. Life's hard . People lie . 99.9% of people aren't your friend . That said stop worrying . Focus . Relax. Go work out . Don't do drugs .
And throat punch the fuck out of your stepdad repeatedly. It will solve all your problems.
 
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