Wanting What You Cant Have

[Sven_Northman]

Yep,, it seems women get bored if your into them too much.
Just quit calling and see where that leads.

OP,,,
It’s obvious you are caught up in your emotions. Don’t trust them fuckers, they drag your ass thru hell.
Lol.

I admit to getting caught up in my emotions. I'll tell you this though. I have learned a lot since I started dating her. I've become much stronger emotionally. it was either that or lose her. Because at first I was a little bit needy with her. She put me in my place quick. I've learned to let little things go that used to really bug the crap out of me. I'm so much more calm about everything. And let me tell you it's a pretty damn good feeling. but I'm human and I do have emotions. I pay attention to them but I try real hard to not let them overwhelm me. When something happens I don't react immediately. I think about it from both sides before I speak or act.

 

[Mac11wildcat]

I don’t agree. Part now. You know you want nothing more and the relationship has already become unequal. Break it off now and be fresh and anchor free.

 

[Sven_Northman]

You asked her to be fuck buddies! Why are you complaining now?
Because now your attached to her and her pussy. How can you dump someone that s not yours? Man up or move on!!

I have to say I was a bit more eloquent in my proposal to her about this. Just to be clear before we broke apart she had told me about her ex boyfriend that she had an arrangement with where they would just get together for sex.
That night when I went to pick up my stuff my ego got in the way and all I said to her was "hey remember that arrangement you had with your ex? would you be interested?" And she said yes. She was shocked I wasnt sad and upset. Rather I was smiling and happy. I think that threw her off balance quite a bit at that time.

 

[LeoTC]

Don't let the vagina fool you.

If there's not a commitment and a ring on the finger, you don't owe anyone anything.

Find someone that appreciates you and wants more than a fuck buddy. Fuck buddies are a dime a dozen.

 

[Urgentfury12]

Women are snakes, they will do whatever suits them best, They use words and pussy like weapons. Always remember this and respect yourself.

 

[QueenBee]

Women are snakes, they will do whatever suits them best, They use words and pussy like weapons. Always remember this and respect yourself.

Hey now.

 

[Urgentfury12]

Hey now.

99.999999%

 

[MisterSuperGod]

Tell her to kick rocks. Come chill with me. We'll go bowling. @Mac11wildcat is onboard too. We'll make it a boy's night out... Did that sound gay? How about a gentleman's excursion?

 

[Sk8man101]

When you dump her give her my number.

 

[T-Bagger]

Tell her to kick rocks. Come chill with me. We'll go bowling. @Mac11wildcat is onboard too. We'll make it a boy's night out... Did that sound gay? How about a gentleman's excursion?

I have a feeling “bowling” means something else to you that @Mac11wildcat may not be fully aware of. You’ve mentioned it enough for me to be cautious.... balls and phallic shaped objects...

 

[Mac11wildcat]

I have a feeling “bowling” means something else to you that @Mac11wildcat may not be fully aware of. You’ve mentioned it enough for me to be cautious.... balls and phallic shaped objects...

You and master.on oughtta have a date the way you both default to muscley dudes with their dicks out.

Fuck it, let’s go bowling.

 

[T-Bagger]

You and master.on oughtta have a date the way you both default to muscley dudes with their dicks out.

Fuck it, let’s go bowling.

LMAO, I’ve known (not in the biblical sense) @MisterSuperGod longer than you bro. I know when he’s up to no good.

 

[Sven_Northman]

Tell her to kick rocks. Come chill with me. We'll go bowling. @Mac11wildcat is onboard too. We'll make it a boy's night out... Did that sound gay? How about a gentleman's excursion?

If you ever make it out to Cali I'm down. No homo.

 

[Genghis K.]

Tell her you want to experiment, maybe she could incorporate one of her friends. What do you have to lose?

 

[Sven_Northman]

Tell her you want to experiment, maybe she could incorporate one of her friends. What do you have to lose?

Lol. I've tried that a few times.

 

[rpbb]

Lol. I've tried that a few times.

Did you figure out what your going to do. Sounds like you're addicted to her pussy. Makes it tough. That's why I learned not to do the fwb thing years ago. Always gets out of balance for one of the people involved

 

[brutus79]

I admit to getting caught up in my emotions. I'll tell you this though. I have learned a lot since I started dating her. I've become much stronger emotionally. it was either that or lose her. Because at first I was a little bit needy with her. She put me in my place quick. I've learned to let little things go that used to really bug the crap out of me. I'm so much more calm about everything. And let me tell you it's a pretty damn good feeling. but I'm human and I do have emotions. I pay attention to them but I try real hard to not let them overwhelm me. When something happens I don't react immediately. I think about it from both sides before I speak or act.

Don't toot your own horn too much. You are on an internet chat room asking advice about how to deal with someone you are supposedly having sex with, which means you are in a bit of emotional trouble you seem unwilling to admit. Regardless of the arrangement and the official story you seem intent on pushing here I have bad news- you fell in love. Anyone so bent on "respect" as you are pretending to be here would have stopped calling the first time she blew you off- but instead you just "don't know" why you keep your disappointment private and keep eating shit... news flash. She has you wrapped. Someone who is just ass can be blocked without another word spoken- and instead you are agonizing about an approach and how and when you should cut it off? Lol. You are in trouble.

 

[nervje]

Id go over, and fuck her brains out one last time (usw anything that helps you with that, you know that last crazily good fuck she will always remember. Do viagra or whatever).
Then after you nut, you pack your shit and tell you youre done with her (maybe make it seem like youve got another, better chick going now).

It will at least make her think about her past choices with you and mindfuck her a bit.

And then just dont respond to her shit anymore

 

[johntt44]

Don't toot your own horn too much. You are on an internet chat room asking advice about how to deal with someone you are supposedly having sex with, which means you are in a bit of emotional trouble you seem unwilling to admit. Regardless of the arrangement and the official story you seem intent on pushing here I have bad news- you fell in love. Anyone so bent on "respect" as you are pretending to be here would have stopped calling the first time she blew you off- but instead you just "don't know" why you keep your disappointment private and keep eating shit... news flash. She has you wrapped. Someone who is just ass can be blocked without another word spoken- and instead you are agonizing about an approach and how and when you should cut it off? Lol. You are in trouble.

This is sage advice^. Why get attached to someone who is just for sex? Especially someone who doesnt return the affection? You knew this going in and still fell for her? I'm not faulting you just saying you probably shouldn't be in this kind of relationship again. It's not for everyone. I dont think I could do it either so dont feel bad but I know this beforehand so I wouldnt do it. I always like to have a little skin in the game...

 

[rpbb]

guess he gave up on his own thread