Spicing it up in the bedroom

[nervje]

All these geared out super alphas in here talking about dominating their women, slapping asses and choking them. Throwing them around. Has any of you actually tried to talk to them? to get to know their needs and wants? Perhaps even sat in a dark corner stroking it while a 6'3" black guy with a 12" monster cock plows her while slapping her ass and choking her? Maybe the shrimp dick gang aint getting it done. Lmao. Just playing fellas. Dont get anally wounded.

Lmao, but tbh, (in a relationship) its important to be open and talk about it.
I would want my girl to tell me if she doesnt like getting choked and shit.
Id also want my girl to tell me she DOES like it, if she likes it and i didnt try.
I fucked her to 5 orgasms yesterday and going to fuck her for more later at night

 

[HIGHRISK]

Lmao, but tbh, (in a relationship) its important to be open and talk about it.
I would want my girl to tell me if she doesnt like getting choked and shit.
Id also want my girl to tell me she DOES like it, if she likes it and i didnt try.
I fucked her to 5 orgasms yesterday and going to fuck her for more later at night

So how’s it going? Better ,worse or the same?

 

[maxmuscle01]

All these geared out super alphas in here talking about dominating their women, slapping asses and choking them. Throwing them around. Has any of you actually tried to talk to them? to get to know their needs and wants? Perhaps even sat in a dark corner stroking it while a 6'3" black guy with a 12" monster cock plows her while slapping her ass and choking her? Maybe the shrimp dick gang aint getting it done. Lmao. Just playing fellas. Dont get anally wounded.

Lmao! Butt hurt gets a new meaning. Lol

Max

 

[The Terminator]

Maybe she’s a more dominant woman that wants to dominate you..I love the aggressive women that wanna take over in the bed sometimes, like shove me down and ride my cock or aggressively ride my face. Not many out there like this tho. It’s fun to be the dominant one but sometimes it’s fun to sit back and let it happen lol

If you are truly give this woman several orgasms a night then there would be no need to spice things up for her. Women are very good at faking and men are very good at falling for it. It’s not some recen t occurrence, it’s likely been happening for millennia’s and there are evolutionary explanations for why it happens.

 

[nervje]

So how’s it going? Better ,worse or the same?

Well its never been bad you know, its just i cant really believe the fact a grown ass woman only wants to fuck 1 position with me (which would be me being on top), hence why i am trying new things.

But shes open minded about this and wants to do new stuff with me as we can talk openly about it and i told her i wanna try freaky stuff.

Shes still claiming to come a few times during sex and I guess i have to believe her.
Its some orgasms where im sure she did come, some where its not obvious but i gotta take her word for it.
Shes the type of woman (from what she told me) to get up and leave if she doesnt like the sex or at least tell the dude that he sucked and she also told me shes done it a few times before, and thats something i actually believe is true, shes this kind of person yea. I can imagine her do that shit so i guess when she says she likes it, she really does.

Maybe its the few circumstances, like me being 14 years younger, or her being a woman and having her slutty phase behind, where she obviously met plenty of dicks, that make it so unbelievable for me, like why would i be her best fuck or the only one she likes missionary with.
But she swears on it for almost half a year now so i gotta take her word for it.

 

[The Terminator]

Well its never been bad you know, its just i cant really believe the fact a grown ass woman only wants to fuck 1 position with me (which would be me being on top), hence why i am trying new things.

But shes open minded about this and wants to do new stuff with me as we can talk openly about it and i told her i wanna try freaky stuff.

Shes still claiming to come a few times during sex and I guess i have to believe her.
Its some orgasms where im sure she did come, some where its not obvious but i gotta take her word for it.
Shes the type of woman (from what she told me) to get up and leave if she doesnt like the sex or at least tell the dude that he sucked and she also told me shes done it a few times before, and thats something i actually believe is true, shes this kind of person yea. I can imagine her do that shit so i guess when she says she likes it, she really does.

Maybe its the few circumstances, like me being 14 years younger, or her being a woman and having her slutty phase behind, where she obviously met plenty of dicks, that make it so unbelievable for me, like why would i be her best fuck or the only one she likes missionary with.
But she swears on it for almost half a year now so i gotta take her word for it.

Unlike men who peak in their teenage years women peak sexually in their mid 30s. Now there could be a lack of experience due to age.

Btw one evolutionary reason women will fake an orgasm is to secure their place as the primary mate..

 

[HIGHRISK]

Well its never been bad you know, its just i cant really believe the fact a grown ass woman only wants to fuck 1 position with me (which would be me being on top), hence why i am trying new things.

But shes open minded about this and wants to do new stuff with me as we can talk openly about it and i told her i wanna try freaky stuff.

Shes still claiming to come a few times during sex and I guess i have to believe her.
Its some orgasms where im sure she did come, some where its not obvious but i gotta take her word for it.
Shes the type of woman (from what she told me) to get up and leave if she doesnt like the sex or at least tell the dude that he sucked and she also told me shes done it a few times before, and thats something i actually believe is true, shes this kind of person yea. I can imagine her do that shit so i guess when she says she likes it, she really does.

Maybe its the few circumstances, like me being 14 years younger, or her being a woman and having her slutty phase behind, where she obviously met plenty of dicks, that make it so unbelievable for me, like why would i be her best fuck or the only one she likes missionary with.
But she swears on it for almost half a year now so i gotta take her word for it.

I also find it hard to believe she only wants it missionary. Have you tried folding her legs up and trying to break her pelvis? Maybe she’ll want you to try something different if it hurts? Idk man not being funny. I just can’t imagine only one position ever. It would drive me mentally crazy and well probably start look elsewhere. Sex and communication have to be the most important part of your relationship. It can’t exist without both IMO.

 

[The Terminator]

I also find it hard to believe she only wants it missionary. Have you tried folding her legs up and trying to break her pelvis? Maybe she’ll want you to try something different if it hurts? Idk man not being funny. I just can’t imagine only one position ever. It would drive me mentally crazy and well probably start look elsewhere. Sex and communication have to be the most important part of your relationship. It can’t exist without both IMO.

And typically women will get bored with the same thing done repeatedly quicker than men.

 

[iceman440]

Unlike men who peak in their teenage years women peak sexually in their mid 30s. Now there could be a lack of experience due to age.

Btw one evolutionary reason women will fake an orgasm is to secure their place as the primary mate..

Hah, suck it evolution. I didn’t fall for that

 

[MikeIronTyson]

Maybe she’s a more dominant woman that wants to dominate you..I love the aggressive women that wanna take over in the bed sometimes, like shove me down and ride my cock or aggressively ride my face. Not many out there like this tho. It’s fun to be the dominant one but sometimes it’s fun to sit back and let it happen lol

If you are truly give this woman several orgasms a night then there would be no need to spice things up for her. Women are very good at faking and men are very good at falling for it. It’s not some recen t occurrence, it’s likely been happening for millennia’s and there are evolutionary explanations for why it happens.

I’ll second the dominance thing, my wife and I switch the dominance thing a couple times during our sex. We both get a turn and both enjoy reciprocating.

 

[Tinytim]

Get a gram of blow

 

[johntt44]

Maybe she’s a more dominant woman that wants to dominate you..I love the aggressive women that wanna take over in the bed sometimes, like shove me down and ride my cock or aggressively ride my face. Not many out there like this tho. It’s fun to be the dominant one but sometimes it’s fun to sit back and let it happen lol

If you are truly give this woman several orgasms a night then there would be no need to spice things up for her. Women are very good at faking and men are very good at falling for it. It’s not some recen t occurrence, it’s likely been happening for millennia’s and there are evolutionary explanations for why it happens.

When I was in my 30s, I had 2 jobs. One was moving peoples houses. I'd get home, take a shower and literally pass out. My wife was so horny she'd let me sleep a couple hours and then come sit on my face like a snorkel. One time she had some stubble and I told her that I dreamt I was attacked by a sea urchin. Oh, and I fuckin' loved it!

 

[MCFC]

Well its never been bad you know, its just i cant really believe the fact a grown ass woman only wants to fuck 1 position with me (which would be me being on top), hence why i am trying new things.

But shes open minded about this and wants to do new stuff with me as we can talk openly about it and i told her i wanna try freaky stuff.

Shes still claiming to come a few times during sex and I guess i have to believe her.
Its some orgasms where im sure she did come, some where its not obvious but i gotta take her word for it.
Shes the type of woman (from what she told me) to get up and leave if she doesnt like the sex or at least tell the dude that he sucked and she also told me shes done it a few times before, and thats something i actually believe is true, shes this kind of person yea. I can imagine her do that shit so i guess when she says she likes it, she really does.

Maybe its the few circumstances, like me being 14 years younger, or her being a woman and having her slutty phase behind, where she obviously met plenty of dicks, that make it so unbelievable for me, like why would i be her best fuck or the only one she likes missionary with.
But she swears on it for almost half a year now so i gotta take her word for it.

Have you asked her WHY she only likes missionary? Hell she just may be too insecure with her own body that she just doesn't want you see any other angles...thinking it MAY turn YOU off instead.

Women are fucking strange like that bro. You gotta think outside the box shit if you try to figure them out. Quit giving her sex everytime she wants it, Have her workout with you for a short while, get her a tan or ANYTHING that may boost her self esteem and watch her turn freak nasty on you in the bedroom.

Of course I don't know if this is in fact the reason but damn sure a possibility with any woman. Hell its probably nothing at all to do with you.

 

[nervje]

Have you asked her WHY she only likes missionary? Hell she just may be too insecure with her own body that she just doesn't want you see any other angles...thinking it MAY turn YOU off instead.

Women are fucking strange like that bro. You gotta think outside the box shit if you try to figure them out. Quit giving her sex everytime she wants it, Have her workout with you for a short while, get her a tan or ANYTHING that may boost her self esteem and watch her turn freak nasty on you in the bedroom.

Of course I don't know if this is in fact the reason but damn sure a possibility with any woman. Hell its probably nothing at all to do with you.

She wants it because apparently she never really had orgasms this way before me.

No she isnt shy with her body hah, exactly the opposite.

She just loves laying therr and getting pounded by me apparently

 

[TX_Hempknight]

She wants it because apparently she never really had orgasms this way before me.

No she isnt shy with her body hah, exactly the opposite.

She just loves laying therr and getting pounded by me apparently

Thats just laziness. Sorry, but thats what I see.

 

[nervje]

Finally had her eat my balls and dick yesterday.
Usually blowjobs didnt really last long until we stopped em and fucked, but yesterday she took her time with me as i told her i want her to keep sucking and licking my balls (for the first time)
When i sticked it in her pussy, i couldnt really last long anymore which has never really been there because it was good.

Afterwards, she asked me if id like my asshole licked next time, because shes obviously done it before me and she wants me to have a crazy orgasm.
She also kinda wants me to let her put her finger inside me so she can massage my prostate, but im kinda unsure about it.

Any thoughts?

Im kinda pissed, since for all the time weve been together sex was kinda boring and normal compared to last time (well for me it was great, not sure if she enjoyed it either hahah).

She also suddenly told me shed like her ass eaten when i eat her pussy and suddenly she also told me she likes her asshole fingered and shit, stuff she used to tell me she doesnt like (anal) suddenly turns her on

 

[nervje]

Well fuck i have to post again here


Fellas im honestly pissed off
She showed me yesterday that theres a dirty side to her and it fucking pisses me off, she obviously had nasty ass sex with her previous partners before me, but with me its "enough if i just fuck her".

It gives me the kind of feeling like.. Hard for me to word/express on how i feel...
She did it for her previous dudes obviously and doesnt do it for me until i ask her obviously, but i dont want to have to ask for shit, i want her to come and surprise me with dirty ass shit. Im getting angry thinking about her enjoying nasty shit with her previous dudes(well everyones got a last obviously) but what fucking sucks is, that i want her to be as slutty for me too, without asking.

Bitch tells me she enjoys outdoor sex but wont even do shit with me outside our flat if i dont ask her or try to convince her.
It fucking sucks my dudes and i dont know how to cope with that.

Im just a 25 year old dude trying to live his (sexual) life jesus fuck

 

[weighted chinup]

Finally had her eat my balls and dick yesterday.
Usually blowjobs didnt really last long until we stopped em and fucked, but yesterday she took her time with me as i told her i want her to keep sucking and licking my balls (for the first time)
When i sticked it in her pussy, i couldnt really last long anymore which has never really been there because it was good.

Afterwards, she asked me if id like my asshole licked next time, because shes obviously done it before me and she wants me to have a crazy orgasm.
She also kinda wants me to let her put her finger inside me so she can massage my prostate, but im kinda unsure about it.

Any thoughts?

Im kinda pissed, since for all the time weve been together sex was kinda boring and normal compared to last time (well for me it was great, not sure if she enjoyed it either hahah).

She also suddenly told me shed like her ass eaten when i eat her pussy and suddenly she also told me she likes her asshole fingered and shit, stuff she used to tell me she doesnt like (anal) suddenly turns her on

Well fuck i have to post again here


Fellas im honestly pissed off
She showed me yesterday that theres a dirty side to her and it fucking pisses me off, she obviously had nasty ass sex with her previous partners before me, but with me its "enough if i just fuck her".

It gives me the kind of feeling like.. Hard for me to word/express on how i feel...
She did it for her previous dudes obviously and doesnt do it for me until i ask her obviously, but i dont want to have to ask for shit, i want her to come and surprise me with dirty ass shit. Im getting angry thinking about her enjoying nasty shit with her previous dudes(well everyones got a last obviously) but what fucking sucks is, that i want her to be as slutty for me too, without asking.

Bitch tells me she enjoys outdoor sex but wont even do shit with me outside our flat if i dont ask her or try to convince her.
It fucking sucks my dudes and i dont know how to cope with that.

Im just a 25 year old dude trying to live his (sexual) life jesus fuck

At 25 years old, you should recognize how destructive this thought process is by now.

So the problem is that now she wants to do that shit with you, that she didn't want to before?

2 possibilities:

Here's your best case scenario: she needed time to get comfortable with you sexually enough before sharing her kinks or fantasies. This is not unreasonable. This shouldn't even bother you.

Here's your worst case scenario: maybe, for whatever reason, she doesn't have the desire to do these things with you? Maybe you don't do it for her when it comes to freaky shit.

This is probably not the case but it's absolutely where your head is at right now, so lets take it further.

Let's assume this is the case. Why would it matter? Is the relationship not meaningful and fulfilling? Sounds like it is, so why dwell on this? Why not just be happy being something for somebody instead of wanting to be everything for that person?

Can you not be comfortable with the fact that maybe [1] it takes her longer to do these things with you [2] maybe it doesn't and maybe this is how long it took with her ex's or [3] maybe she doesn't want to do that stuff with you?

None of those should bother you. You're going to have people tell you otherwise but if your goal in any relationship is to be x,y,z for that person instead of actually enjoying your companion, you're going to end up as miserable as the mongs telling you this is a bad sign.

Make it a point to not succumb to your overthinking and self-destructive thought process even if the voice in your head tells you otherwise. See where it ends up. See how much less miserable you will be. Thank me later.

 

[weighted chinup]

But then again, taking relationship advice from me is a gamble that could prove to be equally as destructive.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[nervje]

At 25 years old, you should recognize how destructive this thought process is by now.

So the problem is that now she wants to do that shit with you, that she didn't want to before?

2 possibilities:

Here's your best case scenario: she needed time to get comfortable with you sexually enough before sharing her kinks or fantasies. This is not unreasonable. This shouldn't even bother you.

Here's your worst case scenario: maybe, for whatever reason, she doesn't have the desire to do these things with you? Maybe you don't do it for her when it comes to freaky shit.

This is probably not the case but it's absolutely where your head is at right now, so lets take it further.

Let's assume this is the case. Why would it matter? Is the relationship not meaningful and fulfilling? Sounds like it is, so why dwell on this? Why not just be happy being something for somebody instead of wanting to be everything for that person?

Can you not be comfortable with the fact that maybe [1] it takes her longer to do these things with you [2] maybe it doesn't and maybe this is how long it took with her ex's or [3] maybe she doesn't want to do that stuff with you?

None of those should bother you. You're going to have people tell you otherwise but if your goal in any relationship is to be x,y,z for that person instead of actually enjoying your companion, you're going to end up as miserable as the mongs telling you this is a bad sign.

Make it a point to not succumb to your overthinking and self-destructive thought process even if the voice in your head tells you otherwise. See where it ends up. See how much less miserable you will be. Thank me later.

Well apart from the sex, the relationship is going great.
Were like best friends and always have fun.

Its just in the bedroom. well for her everythings alright, but for me..

She never managed to get me off while sucking my dick.

If i was to eat her pussy, and she doesnt cum, then hell im gonna slaughter that pussy with my mouth until she comes.

Its just thoughts like this, why she doesn't do her all best to get me off while sucking for example.

I mean she tried yesterday and then had the urge to get fucked because she got so horny but still..i dont know HOW to think about it and theres also well..i would lie if i said i didnt want to be her best guy in bed despite her age and her having lots of affairs.

Im torn apart here, of course i enjoy our sex, even when its just me being ontop, but theres something inside me that urges to do the nasty shit too, you know?