My girl tells me I am big enough and doesn't want me to get too big, but then when I gain a bunch of muscle she doesn't seem to mind. She does NOT like it when I get under 10-11% body fat though. It grosses her out to be able to see all the muscle striations and shit. That is pretty standard for most women though.
So yeah, a lot of women don't like the idea of steroids and if you tell them you do them early in the relationship they will make judgements about you as a person. However, most of them like the results of steroids! They like strong guys who are pretty lean and big. They like guys with chest hair and masculine features. Almost always they don't mind guys that are bald, especially if you have a nice beard and a nice body. What really matters though is what kind of person you are and what you are like to spend time with, and are you financially secure.
@bigboichoi ...IMO what it really comes down to:
1. Having a sexy body and a handsome face gets her initially interested
2. Then what matters next is are you a good listener? Do you treat her well? Are you kind, sweet, funny, intelligent?
Or are you a self-centered or downright cocky asshole that isn't sweet, doesn't make her laugh, and sucks at listening?
It is very clear one is better than the other, lol
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4. Are you financially secure and does she feel like you can protect her and raise her family (most females still want to make a family despite the state of the world and the fact that we are destroying our planet and the next generation is going to seriously suffer once they're older because of it)
5. Do you make her feel good, attractive, sexy, wanted, and do you please her sexually?
If you can satisfy those things properly, you will get her. Then down the road when you potentially disclose your steroid use to her, it won't really matter, because she knows you are a mentally stable, amazing MAN.
Or, perhaps OP is just going after the wrong kind of women. There are a lot of low quality women out there, just like there are men. It is really hard to find someone to connect with, harder than ever nowadays. People always have their guard up because the world we've created is a harsh one. Be a genuine person. Don't try to be some "bad boi" that is all big and huge and think that neglecting a woman and trying to play head games is going to work well. It will probably work on the low quality women, but a high quality woman who is mature and stable and secure and confident isn't going to fall for that stupid shit.