How is my ex girlfriend tracking me?

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Clearly this thread is nothing to do with working out, gear or bodybuilding but I would like to hear some opinions.

I broke up with "Sara" about a month ago. We have had little contact since that time, she came over once for a short while and we exchanged a few text but otherwise very little contact. Yesterday, I drove 2.5 hours to visit my ex "Janette." I ended up staying at the Best Western and then left early this a.m. and got back home at 6a.m. "Sara" just called me and after a normal conversation she switched into psycho mode, "I know you drove to xyz to visit your ex and stayed at the Best Western and I know you didn't get home until 6 a.m. today."

How does she know this? She lives in a different city than me and when I left yesterday I made a few different stops, even pulled over along the high way at one point due to down pour. I would have known if someone was following me. Not to mention, when I left, "Sara" was at work.

Any ideas? She has gone through my phone in times past, as she watched me put my passcode in (I am assuming). However, since that time I have purchased a new phone and changed passcodes and it has face recognition. How has she been tracking me? Maybe she downloaded something on my phone, but I would have seen it (?). Maybe she placed a tracking device on my vehicle? This is kind of bizarre, scary and fucked up. If the roles were reversed I would be going to jail for stalking and labeled as possessive, controlling and jealous. A restraining order would be granted against me and I would likely lose my lively hood.
Somehow "Sara" knows exactly where I was yesterday. This is pretty concerning.
Please share your opinions.
 
She probably shared out your location to herself. Are you using an iPhone? I guess that's the first question. What phone do you have? But if you bought a new phone after that, I am pretty sure you have to enable "share my location" for that device... it doesn't stay on at the account level. Has she had physical access to your new phone at any time? If she did, you should flip the tables and file charges on her... I mean, if you wanted anyway. I'd personally be flattered if someone was that obsessed with me.
 
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If she's had access to your phone it's easy to install spyware. If you did one of those things where you transfer everything over to your new one it might have went over too. I'm not sure about that. It wouldn't show up on your list of apps either, it would hide itself. She'd be able to see your texts, location, and activate your camera and microphone whenever to eavesdrop.
 
Clearly this thread is nothing to do with working out, gear or bodybuilding but I would like to hear some opinions.

I broke up with "Sara" about a month ago. We have had little contact since that time, she came over once for a short while and we exchanged a few text but otherwise very little contact. Yesterday, I drove 2.5 hours to visit my ex "Janette." I ended up staying at the Best Western and then left early this a.m. and got back home at 6a.m. "Sara" just called me and after a normal conversation she switched into psycho mode, "I know you drove to xyz to visit your ex and stayed at the Best Western and I know you didn't get home until 6 a.m. today."

How does she know this? She lives in a different city than me and when I left yesterday I made a few different stops, even pulled over along the high way at one point due to down pour. I would have known if someone was following me. Not to mention, when I left, "Sara" was at work.

Any ideas? She has gone through my phone in times past, as she watched me put my passcode in (I am assuming). However, since that time I have purchased a new phone and changed passcodes and it has face recognition. How has she been tracking me? Maybe she downloaded something on my phone, but I would have seen it (?). Maybe she placed a tracking device on my vehicle? This is kind of bizarre, scary and fucked up. If the roles were reversed I would be going to jail for stalking and labeled as possessive, controlling and jealous. A restraining order would be granted against me and I would likely lose my lively hood.
Somehow "Sara" knows exactly where I was yesterday. This is pretty concerning.
Please share your opinions.
Phone

There's about a hundred ways. Put it in airplane mode and/or turn it off.
 
She probably shared out your location to herself. Are you using an iPhone? I guess that's the first question. What phone do you have? But if you bought a new phone after that, I am pretty sure you have to enable "share my location" for that device... it doesn't stay on at the account level. Has she had physical access to your new phone at any time? If she did, you should flip the tables and file charges on her... I mean, if you wanted anyway. I'd personally be flattered if someone was that obsessed with me.
Google does it too. All my family can track me all the time. I track them on trips.
 
Wait why are you taking her calls to begin with?

Also, it could be phone related, but have you also considered that maybe Sara and Janette talk to eachother? Maybe Janette told Sara these things? I assume Janette knew where you were staying.

And so the plot thickens...
 
Was she hiding in your trunk the whole time? Back in the day I had a psycho make a key to my car. Lot harder these days unless she knows someone at a dealership that can program them.
 
Wait why are you taking her calls to begin with?

Also, it could be phone related, but have you also considered that maybe Sara and Janette talk to eachother? Maybe Janette told Sara these things? I assume Janette knew where you were staying.

And so the plot thickens...
this. women be conspiring. ex's love to make friends with eachother. they bond over their mutual hate for "that guy". drama.
 
this. women be conspiring. ex's love to make friends with eachother. they bond over their mutual hate for "that guy". drama.
Have had this happen multiple times with completely different groups of friends. I’ve just concluded that women are crazy after a few of those experiences.
 
She hide a gps on your car? Rent a car for a few days and test her by leaving your car somewhere near her place to creep her out. Or just stick your car in a microwave and get rid of the bug altogether.
 

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