Dating advice?

[seand95]

Alright, i must have the worst luck in the world or im doing something just plain ass backwards because i keep getting burned time and time again and am getting no puss. It seems like i get to talking to girls, they seem interested then i find out they either they have a boyfreind or dont return my calls. And ive got the resources to do so: i go to school in a college town so we have some hot ass girls at both school and at the bars. im not a bad looking guy, in fact i think that is what gets me in to the conversations initially. and i havent had an easier time getting them to notice me since ive put on about 10 more lbs of muscle. it just seems though that i have the toughest time getting them on my jock.
So i figure either im coming on to strong and aggressive? i dont know what to do because it seems like im doing what everyone else does. Bs with em, make em laugh a little (if they can understand you over the loud ass music). i have a couple girls that are freinds say that i come off like im too eager or i look at them like i want to fuck. well chances are that if im talking to a girl thats what i intend to do, whether its now or a couple weeks later. but i think that is normal and i do a good job of concealing that. i dont stare at their tits. i just try to act interested in who they are and what they are talking about. im up front and honest. i dont grop or hang on chicks like some drunk slobs out there. but hey! it seems to work well for them, sometimes it would just be weird for a guy whos twice the size of most girls to be hanging on them you know?
and i know the bars are a diffucult place to hook up. much better chances at school. how do you date a girl or hook up with one that your gonna have in class the rest the quarter? you have to wait till the end to really lay it on in hopes of getting together later on.
fuck! and even the younger girls are a pain in the ass. Being 21 you think that mac'n 18-19 yrolds would be a sinch. no such luck for me. most are pretty immature though. i was seeing a 26 yrold for a while but i really couldnt get into her so we only hung out for a few weeks. but would have too say she was very easy to get along with and didnt need to be impressed.
i dont know what approach i need to start taking. maybe some of you guys can give me some input on what works well.

 

[Bob Smith]

i have a couple girls that are freinds say that i come off like im too eager or i look at them like i want to fuck....and i do a good job of concealing that.

Obviously not if your female friends are telling you that.


and i know the bars are a diffucult place to hook up.

Hmm, we must have gone to different schools, becasue the bars were the easiest places to score a piece of ass.


i dont know what approach i need to start taking. maybe some of you guys can give me some input on what works well.

Make them feel like you actually care about what they are talking about.

 

[Grizzly]

I agree with Bob. The bars are a piece of cake to score at. I kind of was under the impression that that was why the existed to begin with.

You got along well with the 26 y/o and, judging from the post, you seem to be more interested in a realtionship than a meaningless fuck, so I would advise finding more women who are as old or older than you. Honestly, I don't think that most any woman under the age of 24 is worth a good goddamn. Certainly, there are the exceptions, but if you're looking for something serious, I would look for WOMEN and not girls. But that might just be me.

 

[stevemac]

I find if I go to the bars with the attitute that whatever happens happens I score, just be your cool bad self and they'll come. Act like your interested but at the same time, let it be known you can fuck off at any minute, because only then will girls be aggressive with you. If you throw yourself at them they go away.

 

[ramboj70]

I find if I go to the bars with the attitute that whatever happens happens I score, just be your cool bad self and they'll come. Act like your interested but at the same time, let it be known you can fuck off at any minute, because only then will girls be aggressive with you. If you throw yourself at them they go away.

just let them know that your dick is as thick as a beer can! chicks love that! no kidding if they dont want you then fuck them! there is always something better.

 

[ijustmegdu]

ya know guys, church is a great place to meet nice girls, oh and the bookstore and you can even throw in the waiting room of planned parenthood. all winners

 

[Mark Kerr]

Here is your problem Sean:

"i just try to act interested in who they are and what they are talking about." - You

You are just ACTING, many girls can smell that a mile away. If you want to hook up, look for women who seem to have something in common with yourself. That way you dont have to act. Either that or your standards are too high, and you really arent that great looking.

[MK]

P.S. Instead of going to bars, just hangout outside of abortion clinics. You know the girls are slutty and dont want a commitment! Its like fish -in-a-barrel!

 

[Chip Bronson]

maybe you're really into dudes. no joking. chicks have a radar ('gaydar') for this type of thing and perhaps that's why you get busted. i mean, you can't score chicks at the bar (that's a new one to me), you're not interested in the 26-year who dug you, you're not nailing any of your female friends (i fucked most of my lady 'friends' that i had in college).... what the fuck dude? am i the only one who sees this bros? freaky freddy, c'mon bro, help us out here....

 

[Peace Division]

maybe you're really into dudes. no joking. chicks have a radar ('gaydar') for this type of thing and perhaps that's why you get busted. i mean, you can't score chicks at the bar (that's a new one to me), you're not interested in the 26-year who dug you, you're not nailing any of your female friends (i fucked most of my lady 'friends' that i had in college).... what the fuck dude? am i the only one who sees this bros? freaky freddy, c'mon bro, help us out here....

That's just wrong, but funny.

But seriously, "dating" chicks is just like bodybuilding. You need to define your goals. Do you just want one-nighters (I'll compare this to a cutter)? Or do you want a girlfriend (I'll compare this to a bulker)?

They are two totally different beasts, and generally speaking, you can't achieve both (my reasoning being; if a chick puts out on the first date, I wouldn't want her as my girlfriend). Also, get some confidence in yourself and believe in yourself.

 

[seand95]

thanks fellas. i hear what your sayin about acting like im interested. im sure my responses start to seem fake after a while.
but about the 26 year old, who i actually met at the bar ( and ill be interested what you guys think about this) came over to my house like probably the 4-5th time we hung out and she was wearing the same perfume my grandma's worn since as long as i can remember. i dont know about you guys, but man, that was weird making out with a girl(women) who smelled just like grandma. dudes and on top of that she was weighin 170, told me she lost 40 lbs in the last year, it was like throwin around a heavy bag when we got it on. im used to 130 range. but hey will always try somethin new.
but hey, thats only one. there have been many bifs with some real hot ass chick on my part because i started to like them too much too soon and it showed. i liked the part about letting them know you can fuck off at any point, thats exactly why its easier with the girls im less attracted too.
but really, i guess all i want are some girls i can have on my "team" that i can call up and either go out with or fuck. thats the bottom line. not looking for a soul mate or a new girlfreind. i think it fucks me up in the whole process becaue i do have a girl who lives six hours who i was with for 2and half years before she moved for school. we arnt "together" (free to date, although i would prefer she not) and i we still talk on the phone all the time and get together when we see eachother. but you guys know that gettin some puss on the side while i still can is most important. but maybe thats whats holding me back and making my whole mentallity incapable of of having a phone directory of possibe targets?

 

[txstud]

the way i've learned to have the most success is to be fearless. It can't be a faux fearlessness, but a real one. When a girl looks at you and you look at her as if she is the one who should be nervous to talk to you, then you are doing good. I wish I could explain the concept better, but basically it boils down to being so confident in yourself that you are absolutely not intimidated by women. You can't just think it. You have to believe it. Once you believe it, things will change for the best for you. I promise.

 

[crewboss]

i agree. you gotta just not give a fuck. play the odds and you'll get some takers.

 

[thick]

I think you need to lower your standards. This chic would be a good start for you. If you can't score with her than chip is right and u need to move to san fran

i agree. you gotta just not give a fuck. play the odds and you'll get some takers.

 

[Bob Smith]

omg, omg, omg! Cant...see...vision...impaired...going black....

 

[Rod]

"If you can't score with her than chip is right and u need to move to san fran"

Thick, in this situation use "then" instead of "than", it doesn't grate on so many peoples nerves.


To get back to the point of the thread, seand95, you may bore women to hell. If your written conversation is anything like your verbal, then (see thick) it is clear that you are boring. You need to be consice. The more consice you are, the less boring you are. The less boring you are, the more pussy you get.

 

[big rob]

Go get a fucking hooker and stop stressing on why this and why that. Either let nature take it's course or force the issue with a 20 and some ugly ass toothless crack whore......

I'd say more but I have all these chicks calling for dick since some of us know what to do. Oh and why would I tell you???? MORE FOR ME DAMMIT......... Where do you live????

 

[ipfan1]

bro, go to a bar and find some fat bird and just ask "would u like to suck my dick?"

if shes a fat bird who hasn't seen a dick in a few years and you are good looking she will probably say yes. now u know.

 

[thick]

Get a clue you fucking grammar queen. THAN, go get yourself a nice warm glass of shut the fuck up. edit:Is that consice enough for you Mr. PETA

"If you can't score with her than chip is right and u need to move to san fran"

Thick, in this situation use "then" instead of "than", it doesn't grate on so many peoples nerves.


To get back to the point of the thread, seand95, you may bore women to hell. If your written conversation is anything like your verbal, then (see thick) it is clear that you are boring. You need to be consice. The more consice you are, the less boring you are. The less boring you are, the more pussy you get.

 

[seand95]

alright fellas, comon give me a break. im 21. how many of you had it figured out at my age? and if i wanted puss that bad, i could call 2 different girls right now, problem solved. but what im asking (and i think ive gotten my answer from a few posts) is how to be one of those guys who just gets ass like its no fucking problem. my roomate for instance. 21 as well, has banged out like 25 chicks in a little under a year. not crazy impressive, but not bad and way fuckin better than im doin or anyone else i know. what does he have that i dont? first, he looks like a boy. 2-he weighs in at around 180 and is 5'8" so he doesnt come off the least bit threatening. 3-he has the keen ability to target girls who arent sofisicated enough to see through his bullshit.. and he knows it and laughs about it, as do I.
im not as rookie as i sound. i havent been with more than a dozen girls, and like i said, getting some ass isnt that tough i know. Im just trying to optimize results here. thats why this board exsists, whether your here for training, roid, or nutriotion advice. Optimizing results, thats what this is all about. its unrealistic but it would be clutch to have the ability and know-how to go downtown and pull the hottest ass there. yes, my standards are high. thats what gets me off. not banging some fat ass just to get my dick wet. done that a few times and its lame as fuck. im jsut glad i got the day off school to do some brainstorming with you guys.
out!!!!

 

[thick]

hang out with your buddy more and learn from him. You will have to pull shotgun for him some I am sure

alright fellas, comon give me a break. im 21. how many of you had it figured out at my age? and if i wanted puss that bad, i could call 2 different girls right now, problem solved. but what im asking (and i think ive gotten my answer from a few posts) is how to be one of those guys who just gets ass like its no fucking problem. my roomate for instance. 21 as well, has banged out like 25 chicks in a little under a year. not crazy impressive, but not bad and way fuckin better than im doin or anyone else i know. what does he have that i dont? first, he looks like a boy. 2-he weighs in at around 180 and is 5'8" so he doesnt come off the least bit threatening. 3-he has the keen ability to target girls who arent sofisicated enough to see through his bullshit.. and he knows it and laughs about it, as do I.
im not as rookie as i sound. i havent been with more than a dozen girls, and like i said, getting some ass isnt that tough i know. Im just trying to optimize results here. thats why this board exsists, whether your here for training, roid, or nutriotion advice. Optimizing results, thats what this is all about. its unrealistic but it would be clutch to have the ability and know-how to go downtown and pull the hottest ass there. yes, my standards are high. thats what gets me off. not banging some fat ass just to get my dick wet. done that a few times and its lame as fuck. im jsut glad i got the day off school to do some brainstorming with you guys.
out!!!!