As a fellow newbie, I agree there are some good folks on here. Several have been very helpful to me specifically.
That said, people here just don’t want to have to spoon feed us. If you show you have made some effort and done your research people will help you fill in the gaps.
The information is here. The search function is our friend.
For the most part, there is a low tolerance for bullshit around here - maybe it’s all the testosterone. As an old infantry vet, I can dig that.
Folks are especially hard on sources because harm reduction is the whole point.