My journey was similar to Narta. Kinda fell in to it. Started lifting in high school in my basement.. Really picked up in Military at 18. Graduated high school at 145 lbs
Ate like a horse, 4am PT. Got big and cut fast. By 27 I was 10% BF and 215 natural at 6’. By 30 I was 265 and 8% enhanced.
Grew up boxing, started MMA after I got out. Kept lifting because I liked how I felt in my own skin. Not necessarily for looks. I probably could have could have competed natural at one time. 24-27.
Now I just like feeling powerful. Though I’m no longer part of the 500 club on bench and my press is a modest 15-20 reps of 315. (Keeping tendons and joints solid)
I wish I had learned early to lift for less power, and more for bodybuilding. More sets, higher reps (within reason… 15-20 seems a sweet spot for me for compound and 10-15 for isolated) My body would have suffered less damage.
Better to be Jay Cutler than Ronnie Coleman or Dorian Yates in your later years…
As for forums… I remember the old days of TSC and guys like BigBench, Lurch, CaptainAmerica and others. Was a good forum and solid people much like the core Meso group.
Now a days… I really just stay here or read articles by people I respect in the industry.