That´s a male ideal, but girls hate that, for them, it is unrespectful, independently of the way you want to think about it. She gets frustrated if guys don´t make her cum.
What I hate more is when they say "already done?" just when you have ejaculated, and not like a ridiculous time, but after at least 20 minutes of penetration... I have come to think that they play a big part in it, and maybe they have some kind of psychological frustration that doesn´t allow them to get enough, independently of how the guy performed.