How to deal with the man that is fucking your wife? Or that your wife is Fucking? Thoughts please.

[BBC3]

Its about that time. And its not about regaining her. I don't want her anymore. Been down this path enough times to have quite a sour taste... Really, Its ONLY about "Applied Kharma"...

FIRST - Be CERTAIN that I have ABSOLUTELY NO REGARD for this back-stabbing fuck-hole which I have wasted a lifetime on...!!

*** So what would you do if a man were fucking your wife.? Scenarios as follows...:

1. You don't give a fuck about your wife anymore... Period...
2. Not only, you realize you are extremely marketable and just put it in the back of your mind to do the the "right thing", and you are starting to take the notion - "Man, I can't wait to be single again..!"
2. You care about your wife, and she's so innocent. Just a tiny little woman brain truly being manipulated. Still we know people make CHOICES...
4. We must ALWAYS assume (as men), that a WOMAN NEVER makes a move without a plan...
3. You care or don't care about your wife, but now you assets are threatened.
4. It's just inconvenient...

I have always held the philosophy that TO EACH THEIR OWN, and let them do what they want, WHAT IS JUST IS, and we just really have ABSOLUTELY NO POWER OVER EVENTS BEYOND OURSELVES.

But the bottom line is that when ANOTHER MAN goes after your wife- HE IS ATTEMPTING TO TAKE FROM YOU...!!!

I have also held the belief that when there is a divorce, you loose half of your assets WHICH YOU WORKED HARD FOR. Meaning that ANY MAN who would make a run on your wife, must know that he is really trying to TAKE/STEAL from you. As your wife will get half. So whether intentional or not, the affair IS COSTING YOU BIG TIME. The kind of time which we live our lives to build and to have stripped from you. WHY DOES SOCIETY LIE TO THEMSELVES ABOUT THIS FACT? Are we all just pussies who would have someone walk along in and just take your shit?? To me, the act really seems like a CAPITAL OFFENSE.???!!!! And FYI, the reason Muslims HATE US, is because of the Girl-Poison we have ALLOWED to FESTER and not jeopardizing the whole world..! Believe it - This is the primary reason the middle east hates the "WEST..!"

CONTROL IS AN ILLUSION AT BEST...!!! To be CLEAR. I have NEVER endeavored CONTROL over anyone. In Fact, I wish and DREAM that someone would come along and control me effectively. Can you imagine the stress it would remove from our lives...!!! I'm just a simple and fun guy who believes in living life to fullest and most pleasure as possible whilst minimizing PAIN... I do have hobbies though.. LOL

The suggestion box is officially open.
1. How many of you have take action?
2. What did you do.?
3. Were you smart enough to document undeniable evidence/ as I did... And prior to any action.?
4. I am thinking of sitting down with his wife an playing audio recordings over a cup of tea.

5. I am thinking about WHIPPING HIS ASS LIKE WE WERE ON THE PLAY GROUND - And as a simple matter of principle.

6. I am not a man to take things sitting down.

7. I am a man who is experienced enough and wise enough to have to capability to pre-plan and prepare quite a "payback"..!

8. We are talking about the other man married to an ICON at a local church in the south who will make him suffer in spades should I choose to "employ evidence"... Which would most certainly result in his divorce...

9. We are talking about a man how has obtained many more assets in his life than myself, and has a LOT TO LOOSE, and must have lost his mind.

10. We are talking about a man who just may have been taken advantage of by one of the sickest bitchez Satan ever created. And I know, Because she was enough to keep me entertained, and help manifest some of the deepest most depressed sicked artistic compilations conceived by man..

11. In short. Its about time for my lick...

MORAL CONCERNS.

1. As I am indeed a fine person and a good guy who never violated our marriage to God..!

2. In fact. I have turned down more golden opportunities to have a BLAST OF A TIME, and all because I believed (like a chump), that she was the same. We both came from divorced families and had a lot of pre-marital discussions - enough to convince me the risk of hurting the other did not exist. But we are talking WILD & HOT women throwing themselves at me, and me successfully removing myself from the situation before fully manifesting to devil-born bliss. Which as you could imagine, would have resulted in HOURS and HOURS of unadulterated BLISS...

3. Consider I gave up my 30-42 year age range in physical health to make this commitiment and which now looks like a poor compromise. The LAST BEST years of my life.!!

4. Still, even if I were that kind of swine, I would have screened thoroughly and NEVER violated another man's (Brother's marriage). And Not because of the unknown "Him". Not because I wanted to make the approaching woman a "better person" because I am so good natured that I was attempting to help the "un-helpable". Not because I just could not have lived with the guilt without telling. But simple because I believed that I was honoring my beautiful wife and the vows that we took "for better or worse", and that I am the kind of man to SAYS WHAT HE MEANS, and DOES WHAT HE SAYS...

THE BIG POINTS...:

1. Is it right or wrong to let this mans wife live in the delusion that he is a marital saint, and go on the rest of her life believing same while he brings shame to his families life OVER and OVER and OVER - and she none the wiser.

2. IS IT A RISK to rapture her world with this kind of TRUTH, which could potentially unhinge her both mentally and physically, and in ways which I have no idea how this person might deal with it. I Don't know the story behind their long marriage and what condition it is in.

3. Perhaps she is aware and at her last straw - but wanting to live with him because she knows no other way. Perhaps she is oblivious and it could hurt her so badly that she should do something so horrific as killing herself.?!?!!!!

4. Perhaps she is at her last straw an just praying and dreaming of something like this evidence to hammer is rotten dick in the dirt...!?!!

5. How does she feel daily. Does she know she is a fool and just can't prove it, and my information is just the thing she is waiting on and dreaming of...?

6. How many potential good relationships has she turned away from out of "marital loyalty" poorly applied?

7. Could this be an opportunity to set her free of this poison and provide her an avenue to live the rest of her life righteous.?

8. Or is it not my place to do this? Should I leave her out of it, And should I just send him home with a good beating one day to make up an excuse for....?

Thoughts please... My Brother's here I have HIGH REGARD for and will give the same in consideration. I ask of thou at this time...

Brother OUT...! For now.

 

[FuriousWO]

Leave, clear and simple. Stop toiling over this and leave. Get a divorce and move on.

 

[BBC3]

To be clear. I am not toiling. But I am a man who believes in RIGHT IS RIGHT. So this is on my mind now. That's all. Please re-read and give me a better response.. That just won't do for me. Thank you for reply if that's all you got...!

Divorce is FAR FROM SIMPLE... Far from it.. It varies depending. And TRULY as my atty advised me in the past. "All divorces come out the same. The only question is how much money there is for them to make in the process"..

Still, the creature I am, just not that easy. I plan to devote and much love and care to the separation and I did to the marriage. Call me "Complicated"...

Leave, clear and simple. Stop toiling over this and leave. Get a divorce and move on.

 

[jacked44]

You need to have a long talk with your wife to see if your marriage can be salvaged. Then take it from there.

 

[FuriousWO]

I'm speaking from experience of being divorced twice and with kids, house, investments, all kinds of shit I don't need to go into. So I understand first hand how this is and goes.
I also disagree you aren't toiling... Every post you have put up lately is about "the cheating bitch" in one way or another. So stop lying to yourself first off then you can start to heal.
You don't need a bunch of guys you really don't know and don't know the situation to advise you in the parts of your life that are the most personal and intimate to yourself. You KNOW what you want to do, so do it. I understand and do empathize with you, I've had my heart crushed by a woman, but either work it out or leave. There is no other answer

 

[alphastrength50]

Make the man suck your dick and make your wife watch

 

[alaskinassasin]

You need to have a long talk with your wife to see if your marriage can be salvaged. Then take it from there.

I wouldn't take this advice...seems like from some of the posts I've seen from @BBC3 this has been long coming and he hates this bitch.

If you don't already have evidence of infidelity, get it. She's not taking half of shit if you can prove in a court of law that she was disloyal

On a side note, sorry you're having to go through this man. Cut ties before you lose your sanity

 

[BBC3]

AMEN BROTHA...!

I wouldn't take this advice...seems like from some of the posts I've seen from @BBC3 this has been long coming and he hates this bitch.

If you don't already have evidence of infidelity, get it. She's not taking half of shit if you can prove in a court of law that she was disloyal

On a side note, sorry you're having to go through this man. Cut ties before you lose your sanity

 

[Bradly]

personally Id ballbat that phaggot, if I could catch him in the act.

on the other hand,if could blackmail him for a good chunk of cash.... thats a pretty good option.

 

[BBC3]

Well. We are all the same in these matters. So knowing or not knowing someone can be mooted by the fact that the EXPERIENCE is the same. I am brainstorming and looking for help to motivate new though. BOTH OF YOUR POSTS ARE VALID AND APPRECIATED.

Make no mistake I am not lying to myself. Or at last not for the last couple of years. What I have been trying to do is get her to share and be a team on this. She is calculating and not necc trying to break the marriage. She is sporty and has simply matured to the point that she understands her arsenal (part my fault) and is using it. The guy she is fucking is her new boss. The REVELATION is that she has always done this a new jobs is what is the shock. And it never resulted in divorce or her even causing problems before. I was just blind and it did hurt our marriage.

The problem with women and being childish in combination, is that they will lie to their graves. This is their weapon which may be stronger than Arnold's bicepts in their peak. This one is extra childish and our marriage and friendship progressed to the point that SHE WANTS TO TRY TO SHARE, but still cant. Else I would not know so much.

The biggest problem is that what childish women do when they are on the verge of a bust, OR NOT EVEN, is that they become COMBATIVE, RUDE, and Non-negotiable in their "onslaught of justification". If you are blind, they CREATE a hostile situation to make themselves feel justified in the adultery. It you are on to them, they are even more hostile (it turns out), and make attempts to make you feel wrong, crazy, and even a bad person for even thinking. --_ ITS DISGUSTING BEHAVIOR AT MINIMUM.

But make no mistake. They are NEVER YOUR FRIEND. And if you think they are - you are CHUMPED UP LIKE NONE OTHER. They will not be fair in conversation because they MUST maintain their current asset. Its a matter of life and death to them in the subconscious primordial genes. Consider that successful swinging couples must really be consciously evolved together. But I think they are rare indeed.

I was not denial. Just trying to take next step to sharing as a "TEAM" and move forward to whereever that led.

STILL - I cuts against my "Spiritual Grain", and I am not even sure if I could have done. Perhaps, but only if other perticipants were all aware and involved. I would never fuck a married woman without her husbands permission and or involvement.

And be clear.. I have received a "Daaammnn" or two in my time... LOL But before marriage. LOL

And I am not really sure if the lack of commitment to go to next step is even her issue. It may be on his end.. Make no mistake HE WILL SUCK MY COCK...!

I'm speaking from experience of being divorced twice and with kids, house, investments, all kinds of shit I don't need to go into. So I understand first hand how this is and goes.
I also disagree you aren't toiling... Every post you have put up lately is about "the cheating bitch" in one way or another. So stop lying to yourself first off then you can start to heal.
You don't need a bunch of guys you really don't know and don't know the situation to advise you in the parts of your life that are the most personal and intimate to yourself. You KNOW what you want to do, so do it. I understand and do empathize with you, I've had my heart crushed by a woman, but either work it out or leave. There is no other answer

 

[BBC3]

Yea, I do have a strong inclination to BEAT HIS ASS. And a solid beating. If I though about it, it COULD BE considered a fantasy that he confronted me and instigated violence toward me. Could be. But I am really just a cool guy on the wrong end. I don't want to make a mistake I would regret if the cunt is really gone this rotten. Keep in mind we are dealing with an extreme OCD person self medicating mega-doses of amphetamines. You can imagine how far out she could be in her mind. She is worthy of a stay on the top floor at this time. Still, she was wrong for me in many ways. MOST WAYS. I just rationed we could gain from each other. And we did. Could just be the end of my education...

personally Id ballbat that phaggot, if I could catch him in the act.

on the other hand,if could blackmail him for a good chunk of cash.... thats a pretty good option.

 

[dnoyez]

Fucking women...I'm not in the best state of mind to give advice today because of my experiments but man it's a hard one and I know..we have talked.As far as the other guy..he may have no idea what you are going through.But if he does..well that calls for different measures.Again though it's always complex.

 

[BBC3]

Paxil, Xanax, and re-birthing in the gym are holding sanity for now. For now. But you ae correct and TO LIVE WITH CRAZY IS TO BECOME CRAZY.

My hypocrisy has bounds. There is only so far I will utilize medications I would not otherwise require and endanger my health and physical well being over this. I just believe in commitment and our word. As this is the primary problem with the world today. And these Roman times are not only 1000 times as hypocritical, but the women seem to have found themselves in a position of power to simply ABUSE us both mentally and financially. Its disgusting.!

On the SANE side of matters. Even female judges see through it. ESPECIALLY female judges. It is getting to the point that when a woman pressess charges against a man, they are just about to be tossed in jail wholesale when trying to back off in court and thus proving they were just crazy at the time, or ABUSING THE LEGAL SYSTEM. Interesting days are coming...!

I wouldn't take this advice...seems like from some of the posts I've seen from @BBC3 this has been long coming and he hates this bitch.

If you don't already have evidence of infidelity, get it. She's not taking half of shit if you can prove in a court of law that she was disloyal

On a side note, sorry you're having to go through this man. Cut ties before you lose your sanity

 

[BBC3]

I think you have something. I believe from some of the evidence I have that she has presented me as "open". The only problem I have with that is that it's not cutting back this way.. Shes in her last minutes and the closing bell guy is getting reading to chime it...

Fucking women...I'm not in the best state of mind to give advice today because of my experiments but man it's a hard one and I know..we have talked.As far as the other guy..he may have no idea what you are going through.But if he does..well that calls for different measures.Again though it's always complex.

 

[BBC3]

Talk with a woman...!?!?!?!? You age gives away. Else you have not read enough to know the demon I fight. They NEVER TALK. The just peddle bullshit...! Never ending bullshit..

You need to have a long talk with your wife to see if your marriage can be salvaged. Then take it from there.

 

[BBC3]

I would like to point out that I suspect that our relationship will be the best it has been if post divorce. She's mine whenever I want her thats a fact. I would have the best of both worlds being the back door guy, and never hear the crap. That seems to be her MO..

I cant stand to be in the same house with her anymore, at all, EVER. But I can sure go over there and work up a sweat if she can just keep her cock hole shut long enough to get inside her. Then I leave.. PERFECT.......

I dont think I would marry again if the first dont work. Its just the same old cycle with the same time stamp for best freshness guaranteed. And we all seem to repeat with the same type, same one, almost like finding a stray dog and just knowing it was the last one re-incarnated. I would council long and hard before even considering one to marry and find out what the problem is on my end for sure. It could be as simple as FEAR. I may be as perverse as being addicted to crazy pussy. It hard to look in the mirror and not see what we want to...!

But its so old its sick. I am not also unconvinced that she is not a lesbian in the coming out. She was with several women in her 20's and before marriage. Both with men involved and without. Based on the way she loves to click her "Power heels" round the house, WHICH SHE KNOWS I CANT STAND.. I really believe this one might like to see me in jail or dead if she cant have me under one of those heels...

 

[Benny]

Talk with a woman...!?!?!?!? You age gives away. Else you have not read enough to know the demon I fight. They NEVER TALK. The just peddle bullshit...! Never ending bullshit..

Take her for a long walk, off a short pier. Remember what your parents taught you. It's great when you give away the toys you are done with to the less fortunate.

 

[Ozzy619]

Out that montherfucker to his wife and church. Make sure they end up together. She will eventually do the same thing to him or he will do the same thing to her. Once a cheater, always a cheater and cheaters never prosper.

 

[MindlessWork]

Leave, clear and simple. Stop toiling over this and leave. Get a divorce and move on.

Best idea IMO...make a clean break and move on with your life. If there's nothing salvageable of the marriage this is a must.

 

[MindlessWork]

Out that montherfucker to his wife and church. Make sure they end up together. She will eventually do the same thing to him or he will do the same thing to her. Once a cheater, always a cheater and cheaters never prosper.

My brother and his wife were married 8 years till he discovered she been having an affair with a man she met at nursing school. There was big big fight considering he sank $20K into her schooling. In the end it turned out she was a fucking gold digger...she attempted to go after his business assets (he owns a sheet metal fab company) but she failed as my bro had a good lawyer (cost him plenty)

All told this cost my brother $200K which he is still paying for. Yes it was unfair to him he had to go thru all that because of a gold digging wife