How to tell her

MaintenanceGuy

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How do you guys tell a new lady that you actually see yourself being with you're on trt and use peds? Random hookups don't matter. I'm talking long term, mesh families type situation.
 
How do you guys tell a new lady that you actually see yourself being with you're on trt and use peds? Random hookups don't matter. I'm talking long term, mesh families type situation.
You don't. There are secrets she's not telling you as well. Eventually she will find out and you will find out that she's having affairs with different men. And you will both live happily ever after.
 
It won't matter. Just be up front abt your TRT and gear usage, but no need to tell her specifics abt it. No vials lying around, no known orders coming in, just lay it out there so it's not a surprise later on down the road. This isn't as big of a deal to a lot of chicks like some guys think. Besides, she probably already assumes it anyways. Told mine rt from the start and we are still together 17 years later. She doesn't care, never did really. I actually think she likes it and if we ever split she would go for another gear head. It's what she's accustomed to
 
How do you guys tell a new lady that you actually see yourself being with you're on trt and use peds? Random hookups don't matter. I'm talking long term, mesh families type situation.

I think it's different if you're a bodybuilder and it's obvious, then why hide it?

Or if you're blue collar working guy, that likes to lift and uses casually to keep up with high physical demands, then why hide it?

If you're an accountant or other type of desk jockey and take it to look manly like the two guys above then don't say anything.
 
Beat thing is to be open right up front if you think it’s going to be serious. No need for hiding or secrets. I told mine right up front that I do occasionally use test and such, she will actually help me now which is a great thing. Good luck with it bro.
 
She’s not your priest you do not have to confess to her your sins. Not saying you look at it that way but some guys do. I would act open about it but be very vague. As long as she’s not a psycho she’ll probably be cool with it then you can ease into the details later.
 
Mine wasn’t a fan of the gym bro life and believed all the random nonsense people say and think that don’t have a clue. It started with just telling her I’m on TRT because I have a medical need. Then slowly went from there. Eventually she’d help me press the plunger on some awkward spots lol

I don’t think there is any reason to hide it, I’d much rather tell her before she walks in on my with a syringe in my delt lol but I also believe unless she’s used to that life style, take it slow. No need to open the flood gates and confess your soul all at once.
 
Easy.
Sunday morning after sex
"OH fuck I forgot my medication"
You proceed and load a full 5ml syringe and stick it in your butt.
"Baby what medication you taking"

"OH nothing bullshit I have a hormomal problem and I'm taking a medication until it's over"
 
We tell people that are close to us about are health and healthcare.

If you cannot do this, you should reevaluate your life. Never sell yourself or your healthcare short. YOU ARE WORTH IT. Your life and your healthcare are precious and the person that loves you should feel this way.

I cannot promise you that your partner will let you shoot whatever you want in your body. What I can promise you is that the couple that discusses and works together on sharing information and ideas will stay together much longer than a couple with secrets in healthcare.
 
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