How would YOU handle this situation?

Nuteboy

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I belong to a very good gym in the Chicago area. I have been at this gym for over seven years. It’s a very good gym in which they have the best equipment than any gym I’ve visited. Here’s the thing. In 2002 me and the owner got into a discussion. I was thinking about doing a bodybuilding contest.

After discussing it with him, he told me that if I did a show and placed top five he’d place my picture on the gym wall. To give a bit of information about this gym, there are 100’s of bodybuilding photos on the gym wall. There are pictures of professional, National level and local level competitors.

So in 2003 I decided to do my first bodybuilding contest. I entered the NPC 2003 ILL and won first in the Novice and second in the open. Weeks after the contest I reminded the owner he promised if I did a show he’d place my photo onto the wall of other competitors.

He replied “of course just bring the picture.” A week later I brought a photo for him to hang up. Weeks past, and months and he never hang the picture. I constantly remind him and he says, “yeah I’m going to get that picture posted I just had some new things occur at the gym and once they get resolved I’ll be hanging pictures.”

More weeks pass. Finally I just brought another photo which was signed and framed. I gave the picture to an assistant to the owner and he hung the picture up. Three weeks goes by and the picture is missing. I ask the assistant what happened to the picture and he said he would find out and let me know.

A week later the picture is back up. A month later the picture is gone again and can never be found. I’m told someone stole the picture but they don’t know who did it. So it’s been a full year and I still have no photo of me after winning the NPC ILL.

Just recently ( around Feb) a gym who works out at my gym is prepping for a power lifting show. He places first in the master class.

Two weeks later his picture is framed and placed you know where ( up on the wall). So what took me over a year to get my picture onto the gym’s wall to later be removed this gym gets a nice framed photo of his winning and it takes a two weeks.

And his picture never comes up missing.

How should I handle this? Should I just shrug it off as no big deal and now I know how people are or what?
 
you never know nute, maybe some gym chick has a crush on you and took the pic. otherwise it's sounding like someone doesn't want your pic on the wall bro..
 
Shit man what can you really do, if the owner really doesn't care to have your pic on the wall for whatever reason, really what can you do. Me personally I would give that guy a piece of my mind, attack him verbally, attack his level of professionalism, going against the gym code, etc.
 
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I meant to say "just recently around Feb 2004 a "guy", who works out at the same gym as I, began prepping for a power lifting show.

He placed first in the master class and within two or three weeks his photo is framed and goes up onto the gym wall. This new guy was able to do something I could not. He was able to get his picture onto the gym wall and he just recently began working out there.

Where as I have been at that gym for seven or more years.
 
that sucks but if you really like the gym than keep on the guy but inside just forget about it and know what a prick he really is. No use wasting energy on his dumbass. Bring it up everyday and use that as more motivation in your training if that helps
 
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Actually I tried to give the owner a clue. Yesterday when I was leaving the gym I said "hey I saw the photo of the guy won his power lifting meet. " "That is a great picture."

However the owner never caught onto it so what can I do?
 
Ask him directly what the deal is. Quit pussy-footing around the issue and find out what the real problem is. Maybe he just doesnt like you or something else. But dropping hints isnt going to get you your answer.
 
Who is this issue weighing on more? The gym owner? or you? Any non-productive mental energy expenditures affect you in a negative way, so perhaps you should just cut it loose and continue prosecuting your path to your goals....be they intellectual, physical, spiritual, etc.

As I see it, you are ultimately powerless in this situation as you do not own the wall. You are better served to write this fellow off as an asshole rather than to allow it to build and fester within you.
 
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Hogg you're diff right. I just left it. It just suprised me that after one year of asking about my photo ( in which I took the guy to be sincere) to see a "new" guy who won his powering lifting meet two months ago get his picture up effortless.

I actually forgot all about it and then I see this guy photo and I'm thinking what happened to mine? It's like a friend promising you a ticket for the 2004 Olympia. You remind him over and over and he says "don't worry I got you taken care of."

Then two weeks before the Olympia he offers the tickets to another person that you both know. I mean my situation is not that intense but just to give you an example.

This just let me know how some people are. Not big problem but now I know. The gym is a good gym where I'd continue to workout at. When I see the owner I'd say hello and keep going by my business. Once I'm done working out I'm gone. Simple.
 
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