Love your Mother!!!

[Desibaba]

1. When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you.
you thanked her by crying all the night.

2. When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk.
You thanked her by running away when she called.

3. When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love.
You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.

4. When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons.
You thanked her by coloring the dinning room table.

5. When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays.
You thanked her by looping into the nearest pile of mud.

6. When you were 6 years old, she walked you into school.
You thanked her by screaming, "I'M NOT GOING".

7. When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball.
You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor
window.

8. When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream.
You thanked her by dripping it all over you lap.

9. When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons.
You thanked her by never even bothering to practice it.

10. When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer
to gymnastic to one birthday party after another.
You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking
back.

11. When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to
the movies.
You thanked her by asking to sit in the different row.

12. When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain
TV shows.
You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.

13. When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming.
You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.

14. When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp.
You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.

15. When you were 15, she came home from work, lookingfor a hug.
You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.

16. When you were 16, she taught you how to drove hercar.
You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.

17. When you were 17, she was expecting an important call.
You thanked her by being on the phone all night.

18. When you were 18, she cried at your school graduation.
You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.

19. When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you
to campus, carried your bags.
You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you
wouldn't be embarrassed in front of you friends.

20. When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone.
You thanked her by saying "It's none of you business".

21. When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your
future.
You thanked her by saying "I don't want to be like you".

22. When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation.
You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip
to Europe.

23. When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first
apartment.
You thanked her by telling your friend it was ugly.

24. When you were 24, she met your fianc and asked about your
plans for the future.
You thanked her by glaring and growling, "Muuhh-ther,
please!"

25. When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she
cried and told how deeply she loved you.
You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.

26. When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby.
You thanked by telling her, "Things are different now."

27. When you were 40, she called to remind you of a relative's
birthday.
You thanked her by saying you were "really busy right now."

28. When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of
her.
You thanked her by reading about the burden parents become
to their children.

29. And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never
did, came crashing down like thunder on your heart.

IF SHE' S STILL AROUND, NEVER FORGET TO LOVE HER MORE THAN EVER.
AND IF SHE' S NOT, REMEMBER HER UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

 

[moralanimal]

Bro,
I feel like crying after reading this. It's late but I am going to call my mom.

 

[Whid]

thats depressin shit... i'd beat my own ass if i treated my mom like that..

 

[Manuel_Hung]

I truely have the best mom in the world.....she loves me and was my best friend....we shared a lot.....but now she has put me in a terrible position....I fell in love with a black women..."the racist parents thread". It will break her heart if I would marry this girl......she had a nervous break down and she never showed any weakness in her life....this really crushed her....she thinks that I am ruining my life....thats why she is so against it.......I want my mom to be really happy in the dusk of her life....she deserves it. I really mean she was a great mom....even to this day all my buddies comment on how nice she is.....so now i have to decide between a women I love, and really hurting my mom......I still have not decided what to do????

Call me a mama's boy but i call my mom 4-5 times a week....just to say hi....only a few minutes but it means a lot to hear beacse I live in a distant city from home.

 

[ramboj70]

I truely have the best mom in the world.....she loves me and was my best friend....we shared a lot.....but now she has put me in a terrible position....I fell in love with a black women..."the racist parents thread". It will break her heart if I would marry this girl......she had a nervous break down and she never showed any weakness in her life....this really crushed her....she thinks that I am ruining my life....thats why she is so against it.......I want my mom to be really happy in the dusk of her life....she deserves it. I really mean she was a great mom....even to this day all my buddies comment on how nice she is.....so now i have to decide between a women I love, and really hurting my mom......I still have not decided what to do????

Call me a mama's boy but i call my mom 4-5 times a week....just to say hi....only a few minutes but it means a lot to hear beacse I live in a distant city from home.

I have not spoke to my real mom in 15 years, dont know where she is, i do have a step mom and I am going to give her a call right now,

 

[crunch76]

my mom yelled at me and beat the piss outta me till i was like 12 and let her know that shit was done with, i cant wait for number 29, sweet sweet 29

 

[Captain Planet]

I love my mother, she is like family to me

 

[Neodavid]

Mine were alcoholics, brutalized and raped my sister, but only emotionally abused me. But it was all because they were so fucked up, not that it's an excuse to take it out on others.

When my stepfather died, I was 16, the day before my senior year. I found him dead on the couch.

I called 911, and as they wheeled the body out under a white cloth, 30 neighbors were on our lawn, many crying.

I stood there in my sunday morning robe, and said loudly enough for everyone to hear clearly, "I guess they don't make them like they used to". Never cried a tear or thought a second about it, or him, til now. F'er raped my sister man, and I testified against him, so to me it was pretty simple, hate the bastard.

On the other hand, my wife's parents are FANTASTIC, and I love them as though they were my biological. The took good care of my baby while she grew up, and deserve everything I can give them in love and respect.

My Mother is coming around, at 70 she can now get e-mails from me, and one time I visited her and she didn't scream and yell.

To all with loving mothers, amen to that beautiful post. For those without, find some single mother, take nothing from her, want nothing from her, and just bless her in some way.

my mom yelled at me and beat the piss outta me till i was like 12 and let her know that shit was done with, i cant wait for number 29, sweet sweet 29

 

[nick e. guns]

i cant wait for number 29, sweet sweet 29.

LOL. I guess it is a different experience for everybody. Sorry that yours was so bad. I know my Stepfather had a similar experience with his mom and didn't shed a tear when she passed.

Manuel I too have a great mother and my girlfriend is half black and if my mom ever had an issue with that I would tell her to grow up real quick and get used to it. As much as you love her, if she is going to be that close minded and put someone's skin color before her son's happiness she needs to be put in her place. If she is as great as you say she is, she will snap out of it real quick.

 

[moralanimal]

Mine were alcoholics, brutalized and raped my sister, but only emotionally abused me. But it was all because they were so fucked up, not that it's an excuse to take it out on others.

When my stepfather died, I was 16, the day before my senior year. I found him dead on the couch.

I called 911, and as they wheeled the body out under a white cloth, 30 neighbors were on our lawn, many crying.

I stood there in my sunday morning robe, and said loudly enough for everyone to hear clearly, "I guess they don't make them like they used to". Never cried a tear or thought a second about it, or him, til now. F'er raped my sister man, and I testified against him, so to me it was pretty simple, hate the bastard.

On the other hand, my wife's parents are FANTASTIC, and I love them as though they were my biological. The took good care of my baby while she grew up, and deserve everything I can give them in love and respect.

My Mother is coming around, at 70 she can now get e-mails from me, and one time I visited her and she didn't scream and yell.

To all with loving mothers, amen to that beautiful post. For those without, find some single mother, take nothing from her, want nothing from her, and just bless her in some way.

Wow- sounds really painful. I'm sorry you and your sister had to go through that nightmare.
All the more reason why I sould never take my mother for granted.

 

[crunch76]

wo neo, sorry to hear, glad you have a new family now, i hope your sis can get that to, ruff, take care bro

 

[krom]

"I guess they don't make them like they used to"

Great line bro, even through that kind of nightmare bullshit brought upon you and your sister, you had the presence to come up with that.

 

[boberto]

this is a pretty good post, isn't mother's day comming up, guess I can thank her by forgetting about it, or maybe take this thread to heart and really thank her for once........

 

[Manuel_Hung]

well there are a lotof fucked up parents out there...My best of friends is just coming to cope with his awful upbringing at 35......It takes a long time I suppose to let those feelings go!

 

[01dragonslayer]

I have always said that the most beautiful woman in the world is my mother and the greatest man I have ever known is my father. I love my parents dearly. Unfortunately I have not said that to them in years(I think its a guy thing). They have always been there for me through thick and thin and WILL always be there for me. I will never be able to repay them for everything they have done. Anyone can be a mother or a father, but it takes something special to be a parent.

 

[VDC]

I know that for the first 21 years of my life I put my Mom through Hell,,,but she never gave up on me,,,I thought she was crazy,,,but it was in her I saw the love of God first and didn't know it,,,I'm glad to say that for the last 6.75 years of her life I was her primary caregiver,,,One of the last things we said to each other was I love you,,,Its great when you can share that love as a tangible thing which we did(do,,,love never dies),,,A quote from The Crow(movie),"Mother is the name of God written on the hearts of all children." Amen,,,VDC