my wife won't cook for me, and this pisses me off!!

[johntt44]

This straight out of a Barbara Cartland novel.

You tug it to her books then?

 

[Oregongearhead]

The key is to find a submissive woman. My wife and I have sort of an unwritten agreement that I'm head of the household and she is the caretaker and I'm the provider and worker. She works at home and I work at work. It's because of my willingness to do this that allows her to be with our kids more and have a life other women don't have. So you know what that means? It means when my work pants don't get washed she gets the fear of God out in her!!! It means I dont touch a fucking dish in my house and I leave my clothes wherever they come off at.

Now, of you go out and get yourself a low-life or a "strong independent woman" don't get pissed when nothing gets done around the house or she tries to measure her dick up to yours.

I see no gray area here, she's a powertripping bitch or a submissive sweetheart who guys would be glad to have. But here is the problem with men; they can't play the fucking role anymore. It's not believable and they see right through the bullshit. A guy making no money and sitting on his ass playing video games like a kid has no say in a house because he's a boy, not a man. Rise up, provide, and be the part and many women will only respect it more. Be a bitch and get treated like a bitch....by a bitch!!!

Listen to Demon , hes very wise !!

 

[Cramps88]

This straight out of a Barbara Cartland novel.

I don't know who that is but you are absolutely one of my favorite people here.

 

[Shortname_4206982]

I'm confused, is OP saying his old lady won't cook and on top of that she also doesn't put out? That has to be a typo otherwise it's a troll... Get a grill and a pellet smoker, can do briskets, tri tips, & prime rib easy as fuck w those things, meal prep twice a week is not a big deal. Going more than 36 hours without pussy on a semi regular basis on the other hand is an existential threat to a man's well being.

 

[Sk8man101]

Zyzz, you don't get to have an opinion because Zyzz is dead.

Hahahaha!

 

[jackbladezzz]

I think a lot of people in this thread are conflicted about what a woman’s ‘role’ should be. It’s not a one size fits all type of thing.

For example, my wife pulls down some pretty serious dough, goes to work at 530 and comes home at 5. You guys must be kidding if you think she’s going to be whipping it up in the kitchen after that. If I told her to go cook me some food when she walked in the door, she’d laugh in my face. That doesn’t make me submissive, because my lady is also providing for us (in a pretty serious way) and we couldn’t have some of the nice shit we do without her career.

HOWEVER, with that being said, if your wife is a stay at home woman and does nothing financially for the relationship, I think it’s sort of an unsaid understanding that she should be doing *all* of the cleaning and cooking. If your lady is not helping the relationship financially and gets to sit around and do nothing, you are a whipped little bitch. That is, unless she’s sitting on a goldmine with her family and you’re waiting to cash in, then you’re an intelligent whipped little bitch.

 

[movingiron88]

I think a lot of people in this thread are conflicted about what a woman’s ‘role’ should be. It’s not a one size fits all type of thing.

For example, my wife pulls down some pretty serious dough, goes to work at 530 and comes home at 5. You guys must be kidding if you think she’s going to be whipping it up in the kitchen after that. If I told her to go cook me some food when she walked in the door, she’d laugh in my face. That doesn’t make me submissive, because my lady is also providing for us (in a pretty serious way) and we couldn’t have some of the nice shit we do without her career.

HOWEVER, with that being said, if your wife is a stay at home woman and does nothing financially for the relationship, I think it’s sort of an unsaid understanding that she should be doing *all* of the cleaning and cooking. If your lady is not helping the relationship financially and gets to sit around and do nothing, you are a whipped little bitch. That is, unless she’s sitting on a goldmine with her family and you’re waiting to cash in, then you’re an intelligent whipped little bitch.

I completely agree. It's not one size fits all but all parties have to contribute to the relationship. My wife is now a stay at home mom because we chose to do this to raise our kids. She used to work full time and make a decent salary. When she was working we split the cooking and the cleaning. But now that it' just me working, putting in more time to make more money, I don't want to come home after working 12+ hours and cook dinner when she has been home all day. It's not shovanistic it's shared responsibilitis.

 

[jackbladezzz]

I completely agree. It's not one size fits all but all parties have to contribute to the relationship. My wife is now a stay at home mom because we chose to do this to raise our kids. She used to work full time and make a decent salary. When she was working we split the cooking and the cleaning. But now that it' just me working, putting in more time to make more money, I don't want to come home after working 12+ hours and cook dinner when she has been home all day. It's not shovanistic it's shared responsibilitis.

Yup. And the key to a good relationship/marriage is finding that balance that both parties agree with.

Honestly, I think it’s a non issue as long as man and woman are both mature adults. It should be common sense that one should pull more weight around the house if currently not working. Sounds like you guys are an example of it working well and understanding one another