My VO2max has been 47-48 for years, putting me around top 5-10% for my age range, where I've been since my 20's,
I've also had elevated blood pressure since my mid 20's, steadily creeping up into hypertension, untreated because I was strongly "pharmaceuticals are poison and best avoided", a big mistake in hindsight. Every one of the relatives on my mother's side died from strokes or heart attacks.
Damage from high BP is a function of level, and time of exposure. On balance, the potential "harm" from modern, especially low dose combo, BP meds is clearly outweighed by the established outcomes of getting and keeping it low for as long as possible.
If lifestyle changes don't get it down to normal within 6-12 months after exceeding 130, whether that's because a person is a lazy fuck or exercise and diet don't move the needle enough, and they sometimes don't, then the evidence is crystal clear that using drugs to lower it is much better than delaying.
Keep trying to get it down with exercise and diet, and maybe come off the pill if possible is even better, but time of exposure to high BP is the enemy. Beating oneself up, avoiding the meds, because someone thinks they either do it naturally or not at all, like I did, is the wrong way to go imo.
These days I look at things like BP meds as, at least potentially when used properly, "HEDs" health enhancement drugs, overcoming the limits of flawed biology, rather than some poison only to be resorted to once symptoms occur.