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[m_ob]

Okay, so it's been about a month since I've had sex and tonight I decided to meet up with an old f buddy/friend to kind of get back into the swing of things after being in a relationship for about 7 months. Everything was going great, planning on fucking the shit out of her but I noticed my dick wasn't as hard as it should be. Long story short, I ended up sucking on her tits in between making out, and told her "it was too soon" and basically opted out for the night..and fucking talked for an hour. Pretty sure she had no idea why I didn't go through with it like usual..but now I've got ED thrown into this mix

 

[hardasnails1973]

If hormone optimized. look other areas with doctor.

 

[m_ob]

Like? I know cubbies looked into this a lot. Maybe I'll ask him what can be done

 

[hardasnails1973]

I been using synaptagenix personally and have not taken a test shot in 10 days feel like im still on trt. I have drd2 gene mutations in.my genetic profile which probably causing a.lot.of.my low T symptoms. I have used it addiction from every thing to.porn and gambling as well as sexual addictions.

 

[CubbieBlue]

Like? I know cubbies looked into this a lot. Maybe I'll ask him what can be done

Still trying to get tuned up myself. Once you start thinking about it - it's hell to stop.

I've found that limiting caffeine and alcohol helps. Other than that - cialis.

 

[m_ob]

Is cialis relatively cheap? And it works? I've never had this problem before :/

 

[chemman]

Once you start thinking about it - it's hell to stop.

Easier said than done but DO NOT think about it. I know that sounds stupid, but it can turn into a vicious vicious cycle of self doubt.

How long ago did this 7 month relationship end? Dick was fine then?

How's your blood pressure? Don't take this the wrong way, but your ED was probably all in your head. I bet you were a little nervous or something, which is totally normal my friend.

 

[m_ob]

Ill admit, it was in the back of my mind, but only because I've been without morning wood/random erections for a month. The relationship ended about two months ago, but I was for the most part able to get perfectly hard during those months. I really want to get out and start banging chicks again, but I don't want a repeat of last night. Next time I might not be so lucky and the girl will call my bluff.

 

[hardasnails1973]

Do.not.think about.it.so.much. Think about doing something you.enjoy like wrestling or.working out. If.you obessed with it.you are.already psyching ur.self out.

 

[m_ob]

Another thing, and I know it's crazy, but I had some guy PM me weeks ago saying that I was a "non responder" and that I can't metabolize esters due to a rare esterase defecincy. He then went on to say that that he switched to prop and it made a huge difference. My question is, does a blood analysis for testosterone only detect testosterone on its own, or is the test attached to the eater included in the count? If so, you'd never actually know what was actually T and what was attached and still useless. Just curious

 

[chemman]

Another thing, and I know it's crazy, but I had some guy PM me weeks ago saying that I was a "non responder" and that I can't metabolize esters due to a rare esterase defecincy. He then went on to say that that he switched to prop and it made a huge difference. My question is, does a blood analysis for testosterone only detect testosterone on its own, or is the test attached to the eater included in the count? If so, you'd never actually know what was actually T and what was attached and still useless. Just curious

That's a good question, but I'm pretty sure that the testosterone assays are very specific for biologically active testosterone. At least I sure hope so!

As far a the ED goes...do you spank the monkey that often? See if you can go 2 weeks without jerking it. Then call your friend up for a visit. Maybe that will do that trick?

 

[m_ob]

It is hard to say lol, but I'm not willing to go and get prop to test his theory. I know my doc does prescribe it to some of his patients though. As far as chocking the chicken goes, since out of a relationship I've been at it at least 4 times a week so maybe that's it too.

 

[hardasnails1973]

Too.many people.are making themselves sicker by over analyzing things..I have been guilty of this when I.was sick did not start getting better until taking step back looking at big picture rather.then.micromanaging my health ..

 

[m_ob]

I finally get it HAN!!' If I macromanage my dick rather than micromanage it, it will return to its rock solid, elongated state! Makes sense, macro big dick: micro shriveled dick. Gee thanks man, I've just been managing this whole thing wrong, and hey you know what!? I'm feeling a boner come on from all this talk of macro managing.

 

[chemman]

It is hard to say lol, but I'm not willing to go and get prop to test his theory. I know my doc does prescribe it to some of his patients though. As far as chocking the chicken goes, since out of a relationship I've been at it at least 4 times a week so maybe that's it too.

4x/week. Hmm that's a pretty steady frequency. Try depriving Mr. happy for a few weeks, and I bet you see a change.

 

[Tyler81]

Stop jerking it so much.

Dude. Alot of your issues come from bad habits. These are habits every young dude learns to moderate over time. I used to workout too much, jerk off too much, hell, drink too much, not sleep enough, and so on and so forth.

Cut it down to once a week and you`ll be good to go

(there could be an anxiety aspect too.... couple drinks always helped me shut off my mind... cialis is always a nice crutch too)

 

[idmd]

4x per week doesn't sound all that excessive....but that's just me

 

[m_ob]

Well all the above is true, thanks guys, buy it also probably doesn't help that I haven't had a total t, free t, e2, shbg, or shy done in about a half a year

 

[Tyler81]

4x per week doesn't sound all that excessive....but that's just me

It's not that excessive but it depends on the timing as well. If he jerked it the day of, or the day before this hookup, it could have contributed to the lack of wood.

The body is "satisfied" when you jerk off ... and sometimes the equipment works best if you give it a rest before the main event (athletes dont jerk before big events because they know it gives them the maximum energy, and competitiveness - which is channeled from their hornyness)

 

[idmd]

I don't know...I rolled over yesterday morning and had sex. Went to the gym then jerked it before my shower. Had sex again last night and just got back from the gym and I'm thinking of jerking it again.