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Whid

Whid

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alright... realize that ihave been at the bar tonight and have consumed my share of alcohol...

i date a girl (again.. we dated 2 years in highschool)... who lives 160 miles away from me... i know that she cares about me and loves me, but we just got back together after she had been dating some fucking pussy fag during the first part of last semester...
well, he is still chasing after her... he still buys her drinks, pays for her to get into bars, and shit like that... he came up to me at a bar and said "i know she will never be happy with me, and will only be happy wiht you, but dont hurt her"... he spends a majority of his time talkin shit about me behind my back of course and tellin her how i'm only goin to fuck her over again.. he doesnt even fuckin know me...
well, 2 weeks later her is still fuckin bein a deuche bag... i just got called her and she was at a party and he ran up and screemd "hey (myname)" on the phone.. just to piss me off.. then he took the phone nad began to talk shit all the while she is screaming in the back ground...

she and her friends are all scared of him because he is so nuts and psyco.. at first i was gion to just let him slide and i understood why he wanted her..but now hes takin it to a next level... my girlfriend and even all of her friends expect me to tell him to fuck off or to knock his fukcin ass out the next time i see him.... the shit hes done goes on forever but i'm getting bored typing and losing my train of thought...

my question is, how do you deal with a fucker like that... i think i'm going to go about it by telling him in person he better leave her alone (thats what she tells me she wants) and if he smarts off i will break his jaw...

whid
 
and do realize i feel strongly about this.. when he stole the phone from her tongiht i was at my fraternity house and just about punched a hole in the wall... (its ok.. we have pledges for maintenence lol)
 
Bro, take this for what its worth...

The best advice I can give a guy in college is this...3 dates and done. If it hasnt happened after three dates, no sense investing more time in it... You are young, being on a steroid board I would hope you have muscles, so even if you are ass ugly being in shape might land you some ass, drop the drama and find someone else.

It is her responsibility to tell the guy she just broke up with to hit the road. He is still coming around for a reason, my guess is because she is giving him one. Whatever the reason may be???

Drop her, find a new girl for 3 dates, then repeat. Trust me on that one. Jesus, 160 miles for some pussy?
 
yeah whid bro, gotta agree with shaboz here....if she didnt want him around , he wouldnt be around....and he wouldnt buy her drinks if she didnt drink them....shes tryin to play everyone
 
haha

Step1.Get two of your buddy's to hold him down.
Step2.Teabag him.
Step 3.have someone get it on video.
Step 4.Make copys of the tape.
 
drama

I have to agree with shaboz.
I had a girl. she had been dating a dude, right. she stopped the dating(which nowadays is polite for phucking). this dude would call her house all the time, email her and such. she said he was crazy and weird blah, blah. well, one night he called her house 17 times. i asked her why she doesn't put a stop to it. i explained to her if he is nuts, psycho, obsessive, etc then change her phone number so he can't call, block his email address, tell him to stop and if he doesn't report to the authorities for safety reasons. she did none of them.
why? She loved the attention, she loved the drama of two guys pissed at each other over her, and she didn't stand up and say any of those things to him. women love attention, they thrive on it. the more they get the happier they are. especially if they are getting money and such.
why do you think she called you from a party with him there? How did he even know she was on the phone with you? she probably set up the whole situation prior to calling you for drama and the attention to show off to her friends.
If people don't want people around they do everything and anything possible to avoid that person. doesn't sound like she is doing that.
if this dude is nuts, pshyco and all her friends are scared of him, he is basically stalking her, then why don't they report this? is she going to play this game with you two until one day he goes nuts and rapes her ass or something. not that i am saying call the cops, but this might get his attention. you can get protection orders, restraining orders etc.
she isn't discussing any of these things with you. she just wants you to beat him up. i don't think she is really scared of this guy nor are her friends. i would not doubt if she is still working him and you at the same time.
you have to ask yourself, why is he there all the time. cause she is telling him where she is. i live in a relatively big town. i broke up with a girl i was dating for 7 years. i have not seen her in this town since the break up. why? cause i dont' go where she hangs out and i don't tell her where i am either. that's the bottom line. if she doesn't want to talk to him, be near him, she is scared of him, etc, then why was she at a party getting intoxicated with him?
you don't need drama. I would move on.

"If I start having doubts, I immediately pull out"
 
the thing is she doesnt want him around... last night i was talkin to her on the phone when she pulls up to her friends house at like 4 am and the mother fucker is sitting in her friends driveway... they had to shut the garage in his face and he wouldnt leave... he sat behind her house calling them over and over...

another thing is that earlier in the evening when i called and he was at the party near her he pushed her and hit her arm...

needless to say the mother fucker is gettin an ass beating...

and about her tryin to play me... if it was another girl i would think so.. but she is far to sweet of a girl and is just naive to think they could have been just "friends" after the break up...

another thing is that it'll be damn hard to find another girl like her...

she is drop dead gorgeous... amazing body... a pom girl for an SEC school... she loves to cook, loves kids, is inlove with everything i do, and she has actually stayed wtih me through 2 years of contest preparation... thats a hard find becuase i was a mean mean mother fucker the last few weeks of dieting... and now she is accepting (not happy) that i use anabolics...
 
Bro, she sounds great. But you know what? There are a million hot chics out there. Maybe not SEC pom squad hot, but hot either way. As for beating the shit out of the guy, sounds great. But if he is that much of a weirdo, maybe that is what he is looking for? Maybe he will take the beating, then go to the police? Then you are really fucked. For what? Move on bro. Dont find yourself in a situation that she needs to deal with. Have her call the police... Who says kicking his ass will remedy the situation anyways?

As for the anabolics, NEVER NEVER NEVER tell anyone shit! Relationships come and go, but a woman scorned will tell all! The last thing you want is to have a break up with your girl and have her (or a friend) call the police and get you busted for steroids... Let your girlfriend (or anyone for that matter) assume all they want about what you are taking or how you got so big..

I am all for honesty, but I know that if my girlfriend and I have a nasty break up and she knows I have some steroids....the police will be banging on my door.
 
I hate that story. The cops will not come banging on your door because someone told them you have steroids. Even if they did, the case would be thrown out of court because they don't have the legal ability to do so.

If this were possible, then you could walk into the police station and tell the cops that your nextdoor neighbor, who you don't like, is selling cocaine and they would break down his door. The only way they could make a case for a search/arrest warrant would be to send a guy wearing a wire to you to buy steroids. If you sold them to him, then, yes, you would be in trouble. However, they can't bust in your door on the word of a woman scorned.
 
First, make 100% sure she doesnt want him around. If you ask me, she likes the drama and attention. She doesnt want him gone as much as he says, or she would just say to him, "You are a fucking ugly piece of shit, now get out of my life!" Believe me, he would leave. Now, if he doesnt, you have to physically confront him. Just pull him aside and say, "she doesnt like you being around her, and if you fuck with her again, ill break your fucking neck!" Now, if you can indeed kick his ass, there is no reason to. You can do so much more. Next time you are at a party, palm his face and shove him as hard as you can. In front of everyone! Just start embarassing him and making him look like a total pussy. If he knows you can kick his ass, he wont fight back. I hope everyone goes all right bro. Be careful.

Remember the immortal words of Short Dog:
"Bitches aint shit..."

Your friend,

Mark
 
Whid......

I agree with Shaboz, but I understand the attachment factor to the chic. My mantra is.. "be nice until it's time to not be nice". You have to decide when that time is. And since this fuckwad put his hands on your girl, that's when it is time to fuck-up his universe.

Its all cool unitl someone invades my personal space or the space of my girl.

beast2
 
Whid, I think I know girls that are like your chick. At first the guy was nice so she, bein nice back, let him hang around. However, he has turned into an absolute asshole....it is not your woman's fault I suspect she was just nice, but I could be wrong. Talk to the guy like a man, and tell him to be a man and know when to back off. Try to be civilized...and ignore his threats, also tell your woman to tell him to back off and get the hell out of her life.

If he continues on this path, and you are in Oregon, give me a call and I will help you deal with the obsessive loser~Sensational
 
whid, it's hard for you to even fathom what shaboz is saying, given your age. and i mean no disrespect to you whatsoever. i think you're a good dude, you know that. but shaboz is dead on the money. i can only hope you find the strength to do what he suggests although i like donkey kong's idea as well. lol violence is not the way. i mean, it's great to kick the fuck out of a dude and a couple of his buddies at the same time but you will go to jail, period. this happened to me. i was defending myself from these guys, one of whom was my girl's ex, and because i caused so much bodily damage to one of these guys (the ex's buddy) i was the one who went to jail, not them. no joke here either. when i explained what happened to the cops, they cuffed me and told me i should have just walked away. again, no joke. it's up to you, but think before you act. it wasn't worth it for me (i had to spend a lot of money going to court) and i'm sure it won't be worth it for you either. good luck and i hope you make the right choice. i know you will.
 
shaboz said:
Drop her, find a new girl for 3 dates, then repeat. Trust me on that one. Jesus, 160 miles for some pussy?
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Good advice.... Bitches are not worth the headache...

Shen
 
there are alot of good points... but its not like shes tryin to fuck me over and play us.. i know she likes the attention.. but its one of hte few times i've gotten mad over hte way another guy has treated her... the reason they are around one another is because they avhe the same friends... thats how they met in the first place... she isnt goin around him or answerin his calls anymore... her friends and mine wont let him near her anywyas... her parents are now gettin involved because of him pushin and hittin her... he has left her message after messagetryin to appologise for doin it and hes been cryin and shit... he even tried to contact me but that mother fucker better be glad i was trainin and didnt have my phone with me...

his friend has even called me and told me he backs me up 100% if i decide to do anything... more then likely he is goin to back off by teh time i get to visit her since shes comin up here the enxt couple weekends...

i'm gettin my trainin partner who is 240lbs at 5'7 solid (19 years old) to step up and tell himwhats up the next time he sees him...

if i didnt know her as well as i did then it wouldlnt be worht my time..i can listen to her voice or look in her eyes and tell if she is lying... she really is scared of him... he even memorized her social security number... now thats fuckn weird...

anyways... since her parents are involved tryin to keep him away it takes a little more pressure off my back... hes a basketcase and isnt worth my effort to whoop his ass... but if when i come to visit and he tries to set a foot near my ass his pussy self will get smashed...

thanks for the advice bros...
 
well, he definately shouldnt be buying her stuff and she definately shouldn't be accepting them. Let it all go for now, but give him a fair warning and if he crosses the line again and you're willing and capable kick his ass.
 
there is soooo much hot pussy out there to make your head spin by comparison whid. but you will miss out on it if you're in jail... and even if you get a friend to do your dirty work, you will inevitably become implicated and get dragged through the legal system yourself. this she's-the-only-gal-for-me stuff is something you will see is not true a little further down the road. just take the blinders off and you may see the big picture sooner rather than later.
 
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