Valentines today bros

Off up the gym today, get a nasty pump, then try and get loads of womens socials and contacts, as I'm fed up of being single, need myself someone who loves the gym like I do.

How should I approach them to get there socials? As today is the day I man up and get myself a woman.

Any ideas?

I'm 21 with autism and learning difficulties, so my social skills aren't the best, however I refuse to go home from the gym today until I get a girls socials.

My confidence isn't the best either and I don't want to be seen as creepy when asking.
 
Confidence is all you need. Today is 2/14, or as some of the people on the wrong side of the earth it's 14/2 (jk). It's not a special day, it's only as special as you make it.

If you don't have confidence, then practice. Accept rejection and don't take it personal. Expect more No then Yes, if any. With time you'll get there.

This one is a personal preference, ignore it if you want, no need to advertise your disabilities. We all have them to a certain degree, some more than others. Understand what problems you have and fix them to the best of your abilities.
 
Confidence is all you need. Today is 2/14, or as some of the people on the wrong side of the earth it's 14/2 (jk). It's not a special day, it's only as special as you make it.

If you don't have confidence, then practice. Accept rejection and don't take it personal. Expect more No then Yes, if any. With time you'll get there.

This one is a personal preference, ignore it if you want, no need to advertise your disabilities. We all have them to a certain degree, some more than others. Understand what problems you have and fix them to the best of your abilities.
I 100% expect to get rejected today by a lot of people.

However I like to believe I'll get some women socials today, which will make me feel more confident in myself and better.

I doubt every woman in the gym is taken, so just hopping I'll at least get 1 out of 100.
 
Bro just believe in yourself, I have a friend that has autism (mild but still he is quite socially awkward at times) but the MOFO has a big self confidence at times and he is always with different ladies, his relationships don't last due to him being weird and unfaithful, however he gets a lot of ladies.

Basically he starts by dressing well. He always dress to impress, and when he decides to go for meeting ladies he either starts with messaging women on social media (randomly lol) or Tinder, but he pulls outside too.

Mind you he is a bullshiter when it comes to flirting, but it works for him as he told me that he convince himself that he is the best out there just when needed and eventually he made it work.

This to say that you shouldn't put yourself down, dress well, start chatting up to people (for practice) and get yourself out there mixing socials, apps and also some old fashioned talking to a woman in a out setting such a bar or a public place.

Don't forget to smile!
 
Not going to lie bro, I'm super autistic, bit as I have gotten older I've learned how to use it to my advantage.

Women like a man who is passionate (as long as you're also attractive), so what is your autistic hyperfixation?

Try and turn that into a good conversation and show your passion. That's always worked for me. Doesnt really matter what it is, I've even gotten girls after ranting about 19th European history.
 
Bro just believe in yourself, I have a friend that has autism (mild but still he is quite socially awkward at times) but the MOFO has a big self confidence at times and he is always with different ladies, his relationships don't last due to him being weird and unfaithful, however he gets a lot of ladies.

Basically he starts by dressing well. He always dress to impress, and when he decides to go for meeting ladies he either starts with messaging women on social media (randomly lol) or Tinder, but he pulls outside too.

Mind you he is a bullshiter when it comes to flirting, but it works for him as he told me that he convince himself that he is the best out there just when needed and eventually he made it work.

This to say that you shouldn't put yourself down, dress well, start chatting up to people (for practice) and get yourself out there mixing socials, apps and also some old fashioned talking to a woman in a out setting such a bar or a public place.

Don't forget to smile!
Today was unsuccessful :(

Was only men in the gym today.
 
Today was unsuccessful :(

Was only men in the gym today.
It's alright. You've got a long time to figure it out.

Start reading books. Then talk about those books. There is an interesting quote I learned a long time ago.

"If you go back to someone's house, and they don't have any books, don't fuck them.".

It's real af. If you are well spoken, and can sound interesting, with new and witty things to say, you're well ahead of the other men your age. Especially if you're jacked af.
 
It's alright. You've got a long time to figure it out.

Start reading books. Then talk about those books. There is an interesting quote I learned a long time ago.

"If you go back to someone's house, and they don't have any books, don't fuck them.".

It's real af. If you are well spoken, and can sound interesting, with new and witty things to say, you're well ahead of the other men your age. Especially if you're jacked af.
I'm extremely well spoken as my friends, family, managers etc always point it out.

I always talk about the gym to be honest.

I use to love making music, however fell out of love with it, so no longer talk about it.
 
I'm extremely well spoken as my friends, family, managers etc always point it out.

I always talk about the gym to be honest.

I use to love making music, however fell out of love with it, so no longer talk about it.
That can work if you can find a bikini girl.

Otherwise try and diversify your interests. If by gym you mean like... biomechanics and movement science and stuff that can work also. Most broads aren't going to wanna talk about how much you can bench all night.
 
That can work if you can find a bikini girl.

Otherwise try and diversify your interests. If by gym you mean like... biomechanics and movement science and stuff that can work also. Most broads aren't going to wanna talk about how much you can bench all night.
All I do is go to the gym, eat, work, sleep, tren, repeat.

Be getting my provisional on the 21st, then doing my driving lessons, then going to join the fire service.

All I talk about is the gym, nothing else interests me.
 
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