great responses guys...I respect everyone's beliefs...I wasnt trying to say that someone who benches heavy but cant do other types of exercises heavy is a pussy or weak...I was more or less trying to get an idea of how well rounded most were.
Ive always tried to lift heavy, heavy for me is considered pussy light for others....we are all at different level, body types etc...I started lifted at about 140lbs at 6 feet tall...im tall and lanky...ive got a runner's type body ..I can run 10 km's no problem... Im at 174 lbs now still lean...( working on it)
But the more Im reading around the forum I see the injuries that some encounter, some from previous accidents they have done in their haywire days...some directly associated with heavy lifting...
so heres a question.... for those who tend to associate a injury with lifting heavy...If you could do it all over again to prevent joint pain or injuries etc...would you train any differently...would you lift lighter....?
Im asking because up until recently I was lifting pretty heavy for a guy my size( I say this because some would think its light)...and was having pretty bad elbow pain....so I rested it took a easy and have since taken a different approach to my lifting strategy...before I was focused purely on stacking as many plates as I could for everything...sacrificing form for weight and ultimately suffering ...So now im more focused on isolation, deep reps ,and going lighter and proper form...I feel the burn just as much if not more, and getting the same cosmetic look , but I am not as "strong"...
Some may not agree...but for myself i do it for the way I look at myself in a mirror, wife loves the way I look...
So the question...would you rather look good and possibly make a attempt to lower the possibility of injury or have both strength and the look and risk injury lifting injury?
Im trying to think long term as Im trying to learn from some of the experiences ive read around here ...I just dont want to be in my 40's with crazy joint problems or back pain because I wanted to be a beast in my young days...Im 28 and still have a long way to go.. (i hope)
I appreciate all your input whether it positive or negative...take it for what its worth...
~ Walker