Where the fuck did I go wrong?

little background about me. I’m 23. Graduated college last year. Work my balls off. Make fantastic money. Just bought my dream car. Really genuine and good guy. I wake up go to work and come home and saw my girlfriend and went to the gym. Went on dates. Got her nice things. She’s still in college so not a lot of money considering what I do she lives a pretty awesome life for being in college. I’m making 100k+ right now so we live a pretty fucking good life considering our age and situation. I’m going back to school for my nurse anesthetist license here in a year or so. I’m not some fuck around loser. I’m successful and strive to be better and a solid man.

She ends up fucking some 21 year old ghetto fuck college kid. I worked my ass off for the last 3 years for this girl. I really did love her and cared for her. I never thought I’d want a family and kids but she changed that in me. I really enjoyed every moment. I was just happy.

I bought a absolutely gorgeous rose gold 2.5 karat diamond ring and plane tickets to Hawaii with helicopter rides and everything for New Years as a congrats for graduating.

our relationship wasn’t perfect. But we were happy and best friends. We did everything together. But I don’t understand how the fuck you can Throw away years of your life with someone who was supporting you through EVERYTHING.

I’m genuinely so mad at the world. Everything I have been working towards this last year was just thrown in my face and I feel like a dumb fuck. I can’t focus on anything and don’t give a fuck about anything. I’ve suffered from depression my entire life and she helped me alot through it all. Even when I had no direction. I just don’t understand. I’m not sure what to do. Everything I’ve been doing I just hate now. No focus what so ever…

Bro...you let some bitch control your frame. You made the one mistake that so many guys make. Women have no morals regarding relationships. That's just the way they are. It's their nature. They justify anything, and they blame it on you! It's YOUR fault she fucked some other dude. Don't you get it?

Women are emotional followers. They have no morals. They will fuck anyone they want and justify it because you were busy and didn't pay enough attention to them that day, or some stupid shit.

You need to get to the mindset where you control the frame. You control who you fuck. You control what woman is chasing you.

You fucked up, and became the bitch woman of the relationship, buying her shit and trying to fulfill her every need, and so she started acting like a man and fucked some other person.

Real men on their game never become slaves to women. Take the red pill.
 
Bro...you let some bitch control your frame. You made the one mistake that so many guys make. Women have no morals regarding relationships. That's just the way they are. It's their nature. They justify anything, and they blame it on you! It's YOUR fault she fucked some other dude. Don't you get it?

Women are emotional followers. They have no morals. They will fuck anyone they want and justify it because you were busy and didn't pay enough attention to them that day, or some stupid shit.

You need to get to the mindset where you control the frame. You control who you fuck. You control what woman is chasing you.

You fucked up, and became the bitch woman of the relationship, buying her shit and trying to fulfill her every need, and so she started acting like a man and fucked some other person.

Real men on their game never become slaves to women. Take the red pill.
Yes. the remark about the essence of women and about their root cause of actions is very true. You need to control your life and relationships yourself
 
Wanted to thank you all for some really good insights on life. I knew I could come here and get a good laugh and hear some advice from you guys who have lived a lot more than I already have.

Also want to clear some shit. I went MIA to refocus a bit. I don’t think my life is over because of some bimbo. I chose to make that a priority and enjoyed my time doing it. I saw something in her and I was wrong.

I saw something about my career choice. I’ve dabbled in many things drug and party wise. But I’d never throw my career away for it. I love what I do. I get paid a fuck ton. Nurses have the wettest box and it’s fun. I make a bank and provide comfort to people. It’s a win win even though it blows cock.

Getting back to the gym. Back on a new schedule. No more drinking and partying every single weekend 3 days A Week. Just back to the grind, running some cycles and stacking some more bread. Just got a new job in the city and will be moving out their which has been on my mind for a year now. As shitty as it feels some days life’s been pretty good to me.

seriously appreciate the hell out of everyone. I needed to hear a lot of what was said in this thread. I genuinely Thank you guys for picking me back up and saying some funny shit.
 
The main thing is not to be discouraged and come back to life. Thinking positively and enjoying life. Get emotions and give happiness to yourself and your loved ones. Health to you and the sun over your head man
 
The main thing is not to be discouraged and come back to life. Thinking positively and enjoying life. Get emotions and give happiness to yourself and your loved ones. Health to you and the sun over your head man
Thinking positively is not rationally.

FACT: You get older every day. FACT: That means closer to death. FACT: Life has no purpose.
 
Actually the biological purpse of life is to reproduce. That is litterally the whole point.
This...but not anymore IMHO. There are too many humans already, we REALLY need to slow down reproduction as a species. I think now life is just what you make of it. The meaning is whatever meaning you find from the activities you engage in that make you feel fulfilled and satisfied with life. Note: fulfillment is NOT that same as happiness!
 
This...but not anymore IMHO. There are too many humans already, we REALLY need to slow down reproduction as a species. I think now life is just what you make of it. The meaning is whatever meaning you find from the activities you engage in that make you feel fulfilled and satisfied with life. Note: fulfillment is NOT that same as happiness!
Maybe this is exactly what governments are doing to reduce the population. Covid, are vaccinations all measures and tools?
 
This...but not anymore IMHO. There are too many humans already, we REALLY need to slow down reproduction as a species. I think now life is just what you make of it. The meaning is whatever meaning you find from the activities you engage in that make you feel fulfilled and satisfied with life. Note: fulfillment is NOT that same as happiness!
The US has been below replacement levels for decades. If it was not for immigration (legal and illegal), and medical advances causing old folks to live longer, our population would actually be getting lower every year. The same has happened in many other countries that are developed.

2020 was the lowest number of births since 1979. We have been below replacement rate since 1971 (before most of you were born). And we have higher numbers of genetic issues in children due to women waiting until they are older to have kids.

Global population growth is mainly driven by the third world, and even that growth rate is on the decline.
 
I really hope you didn’t go back to the whore

let her live with some ghetto rat and don’t give her one iota of a feeling that you give a fuck. It will eat her alive inside. You gotta be a man and not show any emotion to it on the outside that she visibly can see. Leave and act completely unfazed about it.

I really hope you didn’t talk to the bitch again or try and make it work, cut the whore off and carry on. She might have seemed like the only one but trust me there will be many many more along the way that make you feel the same.

I had this happen to me too. Never felt that way about a bitch before and then she fucked some other dude. I thought I’d never be able to replace what I had with her and it turned out to be super fucking replaceable. In fact the next hole was WAY better. Cooked, cleaned, tighter, it was an improvement on every front.

I know you feel like a bitch and I felt like that too. But your not a bitch, unless you go back. Then your a fucking huge bitch.

don’t do it bro, move on. The next one will be better I promise you.
 
The US has been below replacement levels for decades. If it was not for immigration
Maybe if we didn't have immigration, men would be paid enough $ so both members of the family would not have to work. All these bastards do is drive down wages.


(legal and illegal), and medical advances causing old folks to live longer, our

I contend society panders to the pieces of shit. If you are a minority, on welfare, you can go out there and fuck as many women as you want and knock em up without any consequences.

Now, if you are a working man, or a business man, and you knock some woman up, bang, 27% of your pre tax income is gone for 18 years.

population would actually be getting lower every year. The same has happened in many other countries that are developed.
The government has succeeded at eliminating or reducing the people they don't want( conservatives).

2020 was the lowest number of births since 1979. We have been below replacement rate since 1971 (before most of you were born). And we have higher numbers of genetic issues in children due to women waiting until they are older to have kids.
If you are a democrat, it's profitable to shit kids out as often as possible, it's a business!

Global population growth is mainly driven by the third world, and even that growth rate is on the decline.
 
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