Where the fuck did I go wrong?

Look at the mother if u wanna know what you’re getting for a woman.
Only good advice my dad ever gave me. If I knew at the time the advice was legit, I would have likely steered the course of my life in a different direction.

Overall, I can't complain. But there are definitely WTF moments.
 
I've seen and know too many persons who have rejected everything their parents did and went their own way, improving their lives, to accept your statement as an absolute, even if I don't necessarily disagree with it.

Genetics tell me to fuck every good looking young female, conquer territory, make them pay tribute to fill my treasure vaults, slay my enemies, add to my harem, and rule with an iron fist. But genetics can be overcome, and I manage to live peacefully with my fellow man, cooperate voluntarily in society, and restrain myself around good looking young females.
That's testosterone, not genetics
 
I enjoyed reading this a lot. So what advice do you have for a male mid 20s who just recently got an ok job despite deciding to still go to school for radiology tech. Enjoys the gym, not a lot of people In my circle, not many at all. Bodybuilding makes me happy. I would like a faithful partner but seems unrealistic and a waste of investment. I would like to make more money than current job eventually tho this one is a huge upgrade from retail to career job. Any advice?
Yeah, don't change anything. Your post is succinct and it looks like you have all your ducks in a row.
 
Old guy here...

Do not let this girl define you in any way, shape, fashion or form. I know it hurts...I mean genuinely hurts...but it will pass. Been there. Definitely sucks. There are so may other women in the world do not think you are going to end up alone if you don't want to be. Learn from this one as best you can and take that with you into the next round.

I know it's been said earlier but better to find out now while you can recover instead of in divorce court with kids in the mix. It doesn't look like it right now but this is a victory for you. This advice unfortunately comes from experience.
 
Old guy here...

Do not let this girl define you in any way, shape, fashion or form. I know it hurts...I mean genuinely hurts...but it will pass. Been there. Definitely sucks. There are so may other women in the world do not think you are going to end up alone if you don't want to be. Learn from this one as best you can and take that with you into the next round.

I know it's been said earlier but better to find out now while you can recover instead of in divorce court with kids in the mix. It doesn't look like it right now but this is a victory for you. This advice unfortunately comes from experience.
Yes, you are very right and the advice is straightforward very sensible. It is better to solve problems immediately than to be drawn into the consequences and judicial actions later.
 
@Pineapples4Puss whatd you do regarding all this
I took a break from everything. I didn’t come on here. I didn’t speak to anyone. It was only for a week or two but I just took time off everything but work and did some stuff for me. Stopped lifting and just rested for a bit. Moved out of my house to change the environment up. Signed a new contract for work.

Deep cleaned my car. Bought some supplements. Went for walks in the city by the lake. Went shopping for some new clothes. Cleaned my apartment. Just random shit like that. It sounds stupid but it made me let go of a lot that I couldn’t control.

Once I got my mojo back after my hiatus for a week or two I started seeing my friends almost everyday for a good month, I only have 3-5 really close friends I enjoy being with. Started fucking bar whores and going on dates just for fun.

I’m not really sure what happened but I just don’t care about others opinions or making anyone else happy. I just be myself and if you don’t like it that’s fine. If you don’t want to be apart of what I want to do then so be it.

Of course the advice and comments from anyone here really got me fired up. I’m back at the gym, in class again and working. I’m just grinding to get what I want and loving the process of it all. I feel like I finally stopped acting like a kid.
 
I took a break from everything. I didn’t come on here. I didn’t speak to anyone. It was only for a week or two but I just took time off everything but work and did some stuff for me. Stopped lifting and just rested for a bit. Moved out of my house to change the environment up. Signed a new contract for work.

Deep cleaned my car. Bought some supplements. Went for walks in the city by the lake. Went shopping for some new clothes. Cleaned my apartment. Just random shit like that. It sounds stupid but it made me let go of a lot that I couldn’t control.

Once I got my mojo back after my hiatus for a week or two I started seeing my friends almost everyday for a good month, I only have 3-5 really close friends I enjoy being with. Started fucking bar whores and going on dates just for fun.

I’m not really sure what happened but I just don’t care about others opinions or making anyone else happy. I just be myself and if you don’t like it that’s fine. If you don’t want to be apart of what I want to do then so be it.

Of course the advice and comments from anyone here really got me fired up. I’m back at the gym, in class again and working. I’m just grinding to get what I want and loving the process of it all. I feel like I finally stopped acting like a kid.
Love it, yeah somehow getting fucked with hard enough makes you stop giving a shit about anyone. Thanks for the reply
 
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