which AAS gives you fastest sex drive boost ?

[Ironman1980]

Is this a girlfriend, fiance, or wife? And how long have you two been together?

Not to go all Dr. Phildo on you, but her issues regarding her feelings about oral sex were instilled in her early in life, and will take a tremendous amount of work (or alcohol/drugs) to ever rectify.

I will say this about your situation, and you can agree or disagree and I'll respect either one. But, if I were in a relationship where the sex was so limited and lacking, I would never be faithful to that girl long term. I'd either breakup with her and get me some somewhere else, or I'd just be getting me some someplace else on the side (not recommended).

I have always told my buddies that they better make sure that they are giving their girl the best sex she has ever had, or she'll be thinking back on the best sex she's ever had and those thoughts will include her and another dude. She is tremendously more likely to cheat on you under these circumstances. I have always believed that it is the responsibility of each of us to give our significant other what he/she wants in bed. And that goes both ways, male or female.

Not knocking yer girl, I am just saying that it is unrealistic and/or healthy for her to expect you to just go without while she chooses to not give you want you want, within reason.

Nah, you're good brother...short story long, we started dating when we were 15...high school sweethearts. We got married when we were 19-20. We are all we know & all we've ever had. We don't know any different. We've been married for over 15 yrs, have three kids, & I wouldn't take anything for her. I love her more than anything & always will. We would never cheat on each other or leave each other...won't ever happen. I couldn't ask for a more perfect sole mate, mother to our kids, best friend, & wife.
I've always been more needy than her when it comes to sex. She is good about if I need it just hurry up & get what you need. But...I want it to be good for both of us too. She has never really "needed" it...maybe a few times thru the years like if I've had to leave on a trip & be gone a few days. She'll attack me when I get home! But, it's still just regular sex...nothing crazy. And, we have sex several times a week...sometimes every day, sometimes we might skip a day...but she never initiates it. And, I know it ain't me! I don't drag the ground or anything, but I'm not lacking either. And, I'm a freaking pleaser!! I always try to go above & beyond so I know she's happy & satisfied.
I honestly believe she has a hormonal imbalance. I've tried talking to her about going to see a doctor, but she doesn't think it's any big deal.

 

[Ironman1980]

We averaged three to four the first time in the morning and then singles one or two more times during the day. We were both on cycle at the time. My balls always felt sore

Good Lord, WiR...you're gonna rub that thing raw going at it like that!!

 

[Burrr]

@Ironman1980 good for you bro, being with the girl you really love trumps blowjobs every time. Just have fun pushing her limits slowly, and taking her just to the edge of her comfort zone. Does she drink, that's always good for loosening a girl up a bit. With patience and perseverance you could be tapping that ass by the time youre 50.

 

[Burrr]

Good Lord, WiT...you're gonna rub that thing raw going at it like that!!

Some girls just come real easy, no hard core rubbing or licking required. Chicks need to practice getting them selves off.
Try asking your girl to rub one out for you, see how long it takes her.

 

[Burrr]

Once I explained to my wife how incognito browsing works, and showed her pornhub she has been enjoying masturbation as much as any guy would. They just don't like the idea that someone could see the perverted shit they get off on.

 

[Ironman1980]

@Burrr...lol ya that's kinda where I'm at...weigh it all out & I wouldn't take a good bj if I had to give her up.

Ya, she used to enjoy getting drunk every now & then. I may have messed that one up though. We were at a friend's house a couple years ago & got shit faced. I still don't remember all the details or even how we got home. All I remember is carrying her to bed & stripping her clothes off (I also forgot to mention she is still very hot & damn sexy!!). I went straight crazy train & stripped my clothes off & went down on her. Then, I said here open your mouth & stuck my dick in her mouth & a finger in her ass. She didn't miss a beat! I remember thinking well, hell, if she likes this then I'll just see what I can get away with. Before I knew it, I had her rolled over & fucking her in the ass. I couldn't believe how awesome all this was & how she seemed like she was actually enjoying it...like she couldn't believe what she'd been missing out on all these years right?!?
Damn wrong brother!! The next morning she was pissed off...worse than I'd ever seen her. She said she might've of been drunk, but she remembered everything that happened & was pissed that I would take advantage of her. I told her she never said no or acted like she didn't want to bc is never do that to her. It didn't matter though...she had it in her head that I had gotten her so freaking drunk & took advantage of her all on purpose. So, needless to say, she doesn't ever get shit faced drunk w me anymore. And, when we do go out w friends & have a few drinks she always reminds me that she's not getting drunk & I better not have any ideas bc it ain't happening... ._.

 

[crossfitisgay]

damn bro she liked it tho

 

[Ironman1980]

Some girls just come real easy, no hard core rubbing or licking required. Chicks need to practice getting them selves off.
Try asking your girl to rub one out for you, see how long it takes her.

I think some of her problem also is she doesn't just relax & try to enjoy pleasure. I know for a fact she doesn't masturbate. And, I bet you could count the number of times on one hand that she might have before we got married. I've told her before she needs to touch herself & please herself that way she can help me please her. She looks at me like I'm crazy. I'm telling ya man, she's just not geared that way. She has a mental block or something when it comes to that stuff. I'd pay a lot of money to accidentally walk in on her in bed or the shower getting herself off...scratch that off the bucket list!! Lol

 

[Ironman1980]

damn bro she liked it tho

I know man, but I can't get her to admit it!

 

[crossfitisgay]

idk my girl bled when i tried (cried from pain..) but i can get her off a couple times just regular ole fingers and dick. always lick the boobies o course

 

[Burrr]

Just keep doing what you can, and tell her every day how hot she is. You've got the rest of your life to keep plugging away at your goals.

 

[Ironman1980]

idk my girl bled when i tried (cried from pain..) but i can get her off a couple times just regular ole fingers and dick. always lick the boobies o course

Slow & easy & lots of lube worked for us that time. And, when she started doing all the work & I just watched & enjoyed her taking over...well, that's when you know she likes it & you're doing something right man![emoji6]

 

[Ironman1980]

Just keep doing what you can, and tell her every day how hot she is. You've got the rest of your life to keep plugging away at your goals.

I agree brother...we are in a marathon called life! There's not a day that goes by that I don't shower her w compliments. She thinks I'm just saying it or trying to get brownie points, but after all these years man she still does it for me! Maybe I can convince her to seek a dr on the hormone seeing as how we are coming up on a new year.

 

[bickel29]

@Ironman1980 good for you bro, being with the girl you really love trumps blowjobs every time. Just have fun pushing her limits slowly, and taking her just to the edge of her comfort zone. Does she drink, that's always good for loosening a girl up a bit. With patience and perseverance you could be tapping that ass by the time youre 50.

Damn Burr, your little pep talk was going so good until you hit that paragraph with that number 50 as the exclamation point! "Don't worry, bro, maybe you'll be getting what you want before it's too late, maybe".

 

[Ironman1980]

I was thinking the same thing man! Lol...then I read that & was thinking oh shit maybe I need to wake up early tomorrow morning & spike her coffee w some Bailey's![emoji848]

 

[bickel29]

Well I got to give you credit Ironman, you seem to be handling it well, and props to you for not letting it get you down on your relationship. If you are staying as faithful as you say you are, and still so in love with her, then the least she could do is give you head once in a while!

Just messing with ya, man.

But the fact that she let her guard down and let go of her inhibitions when you guys were drunk tells me that there IS an inner freak in there, which is a promising sign.

 

[Ironman1980]

Well I got to give you credit Ironman, you seem to be handling it well, and props to you for not letting it get you down on your relationship. If you are staying as faithful as you say you are, and still so in love with her, then the least she could do is give you head once in a while!

Just messing with ya, man.

But the fact that she let her guard down and let go of her inhibitions when you guys were drunk tells me that there IS an inner freak in there, which is a promising sign.

I appreciate it brother! I know everyone is different & has different things that take place in their life, but I could never cheat on her. I've never even thought about it. What would you say to your kids, parents, friends, etc...how could you look them in the eye? So, my wife doesn't go down on me...throw it all away for that, ruin my three kids lives, rip our family apart? Nah, I'll just suck it up & deal w it...and complain about it to y'all! Lol

 

[Ironman1980]

@Bickel
"But the fact that she let her guard down and let go of her inhibitions when you guys were drunk tells me that there IS an inner freak in there, which is a promising sign."

That's exactly what I was thinking man! Maybe w a little hormonal help, she might let that "inner freak" come out to play more often!

 

[Pincushion]

No disrespect ironman.. But youre ol lady sounds like a real cunt.

 

[crossfitisgay]

No disrespect ironman.. But youre ol lady sounds like a real cunt.

ouch man..