Would you want to know?

[CdnGuy]

So an old fling from over a decade has always kept in contact via email. She has a common law man and child with.
Over the last 3 yrs she has proposed twice on "hooking up again". Each time asked if single yet and she wasn't so declined. 2 months ago emailed saying she's single now and wants to hang out. She asked me to make a FB account to chat on there.Hate that shit but made a fake account no pics or friends list besides her lol Nothing on her FB showed she was still attached just pics of her and child . Well monday received a frantic message saying if I get a message from her "man" please play dumb. Wtf lol Guess her man saw my profile on her friends list and asked who I was. She doesn't want me to delete my account cuz it could heat her now. So my question if this guy happens to message me would you want to know your girl is a lying 2×ing bitch? I'm not gonna rat her out even if she deserves it, but having a consciousn sucks balls lol

 

[MindlessWork]

Word to the wise, don't use Facebook for situations like this as you never know her former common law man could been watching her Facebook and when strange people suddenly start appearing in her friends list that could tip him off.

 

[gr8whitetrukker]

Yes

 

[GigaloRob]

Man code says you let him know. I would want to know, I assume you would also like to know.

 

[CdnGuy]

That is what's killing me I would want to know. The only reason is the kid factor. Odds are I say something the 5 yr old boy will be raised by a single parent instantly.

 

[insaiyan93]

Dude has a rigth to know....she is clearly someone who doesnt have a problem with lying to people to get what she wants. Keeping things from her fella, and lied to you in order to get some of that canadian bacon.

It'sthe right thing to do.

 

[Xragexx]

Definitely a tough one man, but imo I think he has the right to know. If you don't tell him tho, she'll slip up one day and get caught.

 

[Ozzy619]

So an old fling from over a decade has always kept in contact via email. She has a common law man and child with.
Over the last 3 yrs she has proposed twice on "hooking up again". Each time asked if single yet and she wasn't so declined. 2 months ago emailed saying she's single now and wants to hang out. She asked me to make a FB account to chat on there.Hate that shit but made a fake account no pics or friends list besides her lol Nothing on her FB showed she was still attached just pics of her and child . Well monday received a frantic message saying if I get a message from her "man" please play dumb. Wtf lol Guess her man saw my profile on her friends list and asked who I was. She doesn't want me to delete my account cuz it could heat her now. So my question if this guy happens to message me would you want to know your girl is a lying 2×ing bitch? I'm not gonna rat her out even if she deserves it, but having a consciousn sucks balls lol

A ho is a ho bottom line, can't turn a ho into a housewife. There's already no trust if he's checking her friends on FB. Also they're not married so technically fair game. I think which ever way you play it is fine. There's no bro code here.

And for the record I've been in this situation myself. I learned my chick was a ho and it made me move on to someone much, much better.

 

[CeymoreButtz]

I have to agree with Oz on this one, if she isn't married, then its your call. It would certainly be different if you knew the guy. But sounds like she is a ho and sounds like he may know she is a ho, and you are just looking to sack up with her, so your call. Go with your gut, if its gonna eat you up, tell him... Either way she is bored with him..

 

[Sampei]

What if they are just breaking up and she doesn't want him to keep stalking her? Like she want to break up for good and give him the good impression that it wasn't working between them and not that she had a man on the side.

I don't know maybe I didn't understand well the situation but for fuck sake you all look a bunch of nazi police.

Mind your own fucking business,
The man code is: mind your own fucking business.

You don't like what she does? Be a man and walk away. That's it.

You don't know the fucking background of her history with that guy. There could be so many different reasons right or wrong for doing what she is doing.

You sure are fast at judging ppl.

 

[Ozzy619]

What if they are just breaking up and she doesn't want him to keep stalking her? Like she want to break up for good and give him the good impression that it wasn't working between them and not that she had a man on the side.

I don't know maybe I didn't understand well the situation but for fuck sake you all look a bunch of nazi police.

Mind your own fucking business,
The man code is: mind your own fucking business.

You don't like what she does? Be a man and walk away. That's it.

You don't know the fucking background of her history with that guy. There could be so many different reasons right or wrong for doing what she is doing.

You sure are fast at judging ppl.

I think he does know her background, believe they went to high school together and he knows the guy too if it's the same girl I am thinking of.

 

[Sampei]

I'm mainly addressing all the ppl suggesting he should tell the guy.

The information provided are very few to understand what's going on here. Plus we are not living in her shoes neither in cdnguy.

The men code is fucking bullshit.
Cover them when they are doing shit and at the same time let them know when someone is shitting on them?
Sorry pal not my idea of how ppl should be.

You don't like what she does, cut her loose. Don't fucking say a word. Especially because you never know in what you are gonna put yourself in.

You want to fuck her? Go for it. Just don't call her a ho, because even if She is... looks like you are liking it. (Not that you do, its hypotetical)

 

[CdnGuy]

I think he does know her background, believe they went to high school together and he knows the guy too if it's the same girl I am thinking of.

I have known the girl along time but don't know her man. They aren't breaking up @Sampei I know the root of her problem...loneliness. Her man works outta town and is never home. Plus she lives in butt fuck no where. Not condoning her actions but I can understand why she lied to me.

 

[Ozzy619]

I'm mainly addressing all the ppl suggesting he should tell the guy.

The information provided are very few to understand what's going on here. Plus we are not living in her shoes neither in cdnguy.

The men code is fucking bullshit.
Cover them when they are doing shit and at the same time let them know when someone is shitting on them?
Sorry pal not my idea of how ppl should be.

You don't like what she does, cut her loose. Don't fucking say a word. Especially because you never know in what you are gonna put yourself in.

You want to fuck her? Go for it. Just don't call her a ho, because even if She is... looks like you are liking it. (Not that you do, its hypotetical)

This is a much better explanation that I agree with. The man code is utter bullshit with how you explained it too.

 

[Kakarot]

I always drew a line with married women but she's not technically married. If she's going to cheat on dude she'll cheat on him if it's not with you it'll be with someone else. Agreed fuck the brocode bullshit. I broke the brocode once and told my cousins girl what he was really doing I felt bad for her and she told me off...called me a lying sack of shit.

 

[Tj72]

My opinion, you aren't friends with him so you owe him nothing, she does.... I wouldn't tell him even if I did decide to hook up with her a time or two. That's the dilemma I'd be having, do I or don't I ...

 

[Sampei]

I always try to mind my own business and never put a word in other ppl relationship.

If you wanna go out with her, do it. Maybe have a coffee have her talk and then you will decide what to do.

I have no sympathy for cheater, even if I have been one, I don't condone it but it's very easy to point the finger when you are not in the shoes of the person you are accusing of.

What I'm trying to say is that we shouldn't rush to conclusion like we always do when some source discussion happen in the underground

 

[Tj72]

And honestly right now you really don't have shit to tell him do you?

 

[Les]

If he's not my boy I wouldn't tell him. I'd probably stop hitting it but that'd be about it. Why blow up her spot for a cat you don't know? To the question of wanting to know I absolutely would want to know.

 

[Brandaddy]

I try to put myself in other people's shoes. What if some guy was fucking my girl behind my back, would I want to know? Personally, I would want to know. For you its a win, win. For one, you get to do the right thing by telling the guy, also, now she's single so you get bang her guilt free. lol.