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Wife getting pissed I can't try to have children right now due to training.
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Oh.... did you not discuss that you dont want kids?
Ah! sorry man.... Yeah, I tend to mentally abbreviate handles.
Guys ,
I told her I don't want added pressure on me to have children. If god wants us to have children it will happen. For the past couple months she keeps bringing up about how her time is running out. I said "We can try honey and see what happens."
She always comes back with "Nope! You are too confusing! One minute you are nice and say you want kids, then the next you say how you are happy you never had children."
I cant win with this. It really is frustrating.
I told her I don't want added pressure on me to have children. If god wants us to have children it will happen. For the past couple months she keeps bringing up about how her time is running out. I said "We can try honey and see what happens."
She always comes back with "Nope! You are too confusing! One minute you are nice and say you want kids, then the next you say how you are happy you never had children."
I cant win with this. It really is frustrating.
I think everyone is looking to talk shit to you, you pissy, whiny little bitch. Awww pcom scammed me.
You stated something that I disagreed with... Simple. Then you blow it up...
And judging by the way you respond to anyone who contradicts anything you say, I'm thinking you're probably an ignorant teen, not the 33 year old you claim to be...
Hell... With your attitude I'd scam you too...
Leancuisine
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My thoughts exactly.
"She married an athlete"
You're getting ready for a FUCKING BEAUTY PAGEANT. You aren't a fuckin athlete, you're a whiny little bitch from the few posts of yours I've read @gymrat78
I have a wife and kid. I love spending time with my kiddo, so I either workout while he naps, or at night when everyone is asleep. I guarantee you don't live in the same bumfuck city I do either. I don't even have a 24 hr gym.
Goddamn you sound like a fucking twink. A stupid amateur show vs having a family.
Assuming you win, and you get a nice shiny trophy, is that thing going to attend all your future thanksgivings, christmases, and esters?
Oh and to reiterate on your God horeshit. If god wanted you to train, don't you think he would grace your wife with the patience and understanding you need to continue training?
Instead of bickering with your wife about how precious your me time at the gym is, why don't you talk to her and find out what the main reason for her being so adamant about having a child now is.
How long have you been married?
Also I agree with @Eman ... do her a favor and divorce her.
I'm very dedicated to my love of lifting. It comes before many, many things in my life. When you love something, you'll do just about anything to do it.
When my ex girlfriend and I were together, my lifting took a major backseat. I could have been more dedicated to it if I had tried harder but it just fell through the cracks and at some points it was non existent.
Of course, as relationships tend to do, it ended between her and I quite some time ago. What a wonderful thing to happen too, because I fell back in love with lifting.
When I met the wonderful girl I'm with now... I had made a promise to myself to never let anything or anyone come between me and what I loved. If they did, then they didn't care enough about me to let me have what I wanted.
Now, why am I saying all of this? Because good relationships are a matter of compromise. Gives and takes. Has my relationship interfered with my lifting? Sure has. But I wouldn't have it any other way. I continue to meet all of my goals and get to have a great relationship as well.
Tl;Dr - decide what's more important if you aren't willing to compromise. Also, fuck two a days.
When my ex girlfriend and I were together, my lifting took a major backseat. I could have been more dedicated to it if I had tried harder but it just fell through the cracks and at some points it was non existent.
Of course, as relationships tend to do, it ended between her and I quite some time ago. What a wonderful thing to happen too, because I fell back in love with lifting.
When I met the wonderful girl I'm with now... I had made a promise to myself to never let anything or anyone come between me and what I loved. If they did, then they didn't care enough about me to let me have what I wanted.
Now, why am I saying all of this? Because good relationships are a matter of compromise. Gives and takes. Has my relationship interfered with my lifting? Sure has. But I wouldn't have it any other way. I continue to meet all of my goals and get to have a great relationship as well.
Tl;Dr - decide what's more important if you aren't willing to compromise. Also, fuck two a days.
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Fella unless BB is your livelihood
your wife and family are FIRST!
If you think otherwise OR she believes your placing the SPORT of BB before her or especially your children, chances are a divorce is in your near future.
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Leancuisine
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I still can't get over the fact he said he's an athlete.
And the god thing.
And the god thing.
Kgkle
New Member
Dude you sound like a bitch I'm sorry but man up and tell her to wait! If you want kids have one after your show. Unless you really just don't care about her.
Have a back bone and tell her she will get what she wants this show is just priority for right now.
Not man behaviour to tell your wife that you are soooo busy with your 2 a day workouts in prep for your first beauty pageant that you cant find the time to bust a nut.
Seems selfish and narcissistic to me.
Kgkle
New Member
No I'm talking about getting balls back up and running for me my nuts shoot blanks on gear I'd have to do an extensive pct and hcg protocol.
if he isn't talking about this and just doesn't have time to bust a nut well fuck that's just lazy and selfish.
CAswole
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Dude no disrespect toward your goals intended but your priorities are majorly screwed up. Fuck weightlifting. It's cool and fun and all guys like to be big and strong but I doubt you are ever going to win the Olympia, know what I'm saying? You are making a major mistake. put things in line and in perspective and you will do better in life and in bodybuilding. Good luck.
johntt44
New Member
^ This man speaks the truth! Your wife is more important than winning some amateur physique contest ffs! What's a trophy in the amateur mid life crisis division really worth to you?
Kgkle
New Member
Amen but if it really means that much to you and you can't bust nuts on cycle well come to an even ground work things out don't just drop her off because she disagrees with what you are doing. If that woman loves you enough to put up with you treating her like that you better not fuck that up because you don't know what your going to lose dude.
For a second there i thought i might have been a little harsh with my reply.
Then i read the original post again.
That is just wrong on so many levels.
I really hope gymrat takes a step back and rethinks this.
Most guys do shows as a personal challenge, not so much about wowing the as audience.
Gym rat needs to give himself a new challenge. Get as ripped as you can while simultaneously being a great husband.
Husband needs to be way more important than the show.
Then i read the original post again.
That is just wrong on so many levels.
I really hope gymrat takes a step back and rethinks this.
Most guys do shows as a personal challenge, not so much about wowing the as audience.
Gym rat needs to give himself a new challenge. Get as ripped as you can while simultaneously being a great husband.
Husband needs to be way more important than the show.
Switcher
Member
SMH
Besides his priorities, how fucked up is your training if you are training twice a day for multiple hours? Wtf? If it's cardio do it with her at home. If you are lifting that much, well you aren't going to place in the show anyways so why put your family through this?
Btw you whole thought process is completely fucked up and I pray if you do have a kid you gain some persepective.
Btw you whole thought process is completely fucked up and I pray if you do have a kid you gain some persepective.
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