I of course know where youre coming from and its just what i need(ed)
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jackbladezzz
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Glad you understand my tone!
Now if she hits you up, just brush it the fuck off and say no thanks. Don’t fuck w people that don’t want to fuck w you (outside of a one night stand, which is already past for you). It honestly just degrades your self confidence to ever be strung along (and I mean this for any guy, not just you).
ICD-HardThings
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I still say put it in her butt and leave a $20 on the pillow.
picholas
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I still say put it in her butt and leave a $20 on the pillow.
In quarters.
This idea that codependency is some sort of pathological disorder is nonsense. It's a silly term invented by pop psychologists trying to sell books. Any couple in a loving relationship are codependent. Take one away and see what happens. It's called heartbreak. What you're really referring to is an attachment disorder, such as a dependent personality disorder; but given OP:s statements that he's never had issues like this before, that's not likely.
OP met some chick that he finds really interesting and now he misses her. It's that simple. Sometimes you meet someone that really blows your hair back, and OP is thinking if she weren't hung up on her ex, it could have been something special. And it might have been but he'll never know. It happens. And he'll get over it.
OP met some chick that he finds really interesting and now he misses her. It's that simple. Sometimes you meet someone that really blows your hair back, and OP is thinking if she weren't hung up on her ex, it could have been something special. And it might have been but he'll never know. It happens. And he'll get over it.
check out post#28, this isn't his first go round with these situations, not judging at all, but it's a brutal pattern to break
Stinkfinger1112
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OP read a book called "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomasi
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Thanks alot for all the replies fellas.
I feel better and almost like before already again, with my focus on my new job on monday and all the goals ive set myself until the end of this year again.
Its insane how much such a person can distract you from your gameplan or can take away from your self confidence/dignity with just a few words.
Today i work there as a bouncer again and i do hope she wont turn up, as I surely would get some feelings up again so lets hope for the best
I feel better and almost like before already again, with my focus on my new job on monday and all the goals ive set myself until the end of this year again.
Its insane how much such a person can distract you from your gameplan or can take away from your self confidence/dignity with just a few words.
Today i work there as a bouncer again and i do hope she wont turn up, as I surely would get some feelings up again so lets hope for the best
“Love” who you kidding since after reading this post it’s obvious you’re looking for a fuck mate rather than a girlfriend,
And that’s what you’ll attract until the lust attitude changes.
I still say put it in her butt and leave a $20 on the pillow.
Seriously how many gals are looking for love in a bouncer!
As @CensoredBoardsSuck says
nothing wrong with that but ...
Slight correction: CBS would say, "Nothing wrong with that butt." Full stop, no ellipsis, no conjunction. Just a noun.
And there isn't! There's not a damned thing wrong with that butt.
ICD-HardThings
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Yes there is. There is still an article of clothing on it.
Oh no, everything is right with that BUTT, except it leaves any lustful male to ponder, what does the remainder look and feel like
That being said since that gals forward leaning posture tends to accentuate/optimize the proper gluteus maximus curvature, an upright position and several more would be required before a gal earns a BUTT score of 10/10 on my behalf.
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Tbh i actually do want a girlfriend more tham a fuckfriend now. Ive been having several fuckbuddies the past year and idk its not what i want in life right now. Nutting is one thing, but i would rather have someone i have real feelings for and do all that relationship type of stuff.
Doesnt matter if im a bouncer part time or not, that doesnt mean im just looking to fuck
chileandawg
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nice pantie nice butt
jackbladezzz
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You misunderstand what he’s saying. If a girl meets you while you’re working....she’s not trying to find a relationship. She’s just looking for something every now and then, and perhaps just to leverage her getting into a club if it’s choosy.
That’s like when I worked as a bartender in a nightclub while finishing my Undergrad. Lol I had the sense to know that not a single one of those chicks I met while working....was EVER somebody I should start a relationship with. But I took it for what it’s worth, got a ton of pussy and all was good. Seems you’re having trouble making that differentiation. There’s girls to hook up with and girls to start relationships with. If you actually start a relationship with the former, all you’re doing is setting yourself up for embarrassment, sadness or a combination of the both.
He’s not saying if you meet a girl at a coffee shop, you guys go out on a date and she finds out you’re a bouncer she’s going to say ‘not interested’. Lol
Oh ya youre right my bad then. Misunderstood it a lil bit
I’ll quote a radiograpic dictum
I’ve learned is true more often than not; ONE VIEW IS NO VIEW.
And another less often quoted
urban saying; her body would knock your socks off but that face was no more deserving of a paper bag!
It’s a package deal when looking for a “girlfriend”, not that an inebriated lustful bouncer would understand the difference as all gals tend to look good when entering a bar at night.
I’ll quote a radiograpic dictum
I’ve learned is true more often than not; ONE VIEW IS NO VIEW.
And another less often quoted
urban saying; her body would knock your socks off but that face was no more deserving of a paper bag!
It’s a package deal when looking for a “girlfriend”, not that an inebriated lustful bouncer would understand the difference as all gals tend to look good when entering a bar at night.
I'll quote a CBS dictum that is always true except in the case of the rarest of deviants: No man has ever been sexually aroused by an x-ray.
Another less often quoted CBS saying: Where goes the body, so goes the face. IOW, the body's aestetical qualities are as much a function of good bone structure as they are soft tissue, and if one has the requisite bone structure to achieve beauty in the lower portion, it always extends to the face.
In closing, it's been my experience that the girls all get prettier at closing time.
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