I left my girlfriend because I thought she was cheating, did I make the right choice?

so what did she say when you questioned her about the condoms.

Bottom line though is it sounds like you got attached too fast. Take it slower with the next girl
 
Oh I don't deny I can be jelous but u got better. We had talked and she had said that the constant reassuring was an issue. I stopped being so needy and let her be. My thing is it just felt like shit didn't line up. BTW it wasn't that she was having sex that pissed me off it's that when I asked her she bold faced lied to me and then when I searched her phone that wasn't the case.
She shouldn't have lied but tbh other than whether she has an STD or not, her sex life before she met you is none of your business. Next girl you are with, other than making sure she is clean, don't bother asking her about her past relationships (unless the details of such things turn you on...in which case have it :))
 
She shouldn't have lied but tbh other than whether she has an STD or not, her sex life before she met you is none of your business.
“Specifically, strike one was that when we first met she lied about not having been with other men for some time and was still having sex with other guys about a week into dating.”
 
Point being that she was having sex while dating him. True, her past sex is none of his business, but that wasn’t the case.
I mean if the agreement was that they were not to be with anybody else then of course that is bad. Even if she told the truth and said yes, I am still banging guys, the guy should have dumped her because she obviously has an issue keeping her pants on. My point was a more general statement to a guy who seems to be fairly young...
 
I mean if the agreement was that they were not to be with anybody else then of course that is bad. Even if she told the truth and said yes, I am still banging guys, the guy should have dumped her because she obviously has an issue keeping her pants on. My point was a more general statement to a guy who seems to be fairly young...
Dump her ass lol
 
I mean if the agreement was that they were not to be with anybody else then of course that is bad. Even if she told the truth and said yes, I am still banging guys, the guy should have dumped her because she obviously has an issue keeping her pants on. My point was a more general statement to a guy who seems to be fairly young...
honestly I had a gf in college who was a Christian girl and she had her benefits and her negatives. This girl I did love but the promiscuity bothered me but after learning of her past it didn't surprise me. Idk I think I waived lots of red flags because I have heavy baggage too and I felt like I found someone who understood me and didn't judge me. I have done alot if fucked up shit and just beat opiate addiction. She was a godsend in this time, since in comparison the addiction has been a monstrous monkey on my back for 7 years. I know I'm looking at the world through rose rose colored glasses I just wish I would have confirmed it so I wouldn't have had to fucking wonder if I'm doing the right thing.
 
So @Wings_of_pain you don’t mention how long this girls has officially been your “girlfriend”? Did you have actual conversation and both come to the decision your officially a couple.

A lot of what you are decribing sounds like the “dating” stage where YES your technically aloud to fuck other people regardless if it happen before or after you met each other. It’s honestly none of your business what she did before you met each other. And acting like you care is a turnoff and looks pathetic.

So does looking at her text messages. Same goes for going through her purse. Something I learned a long time ago.
Never go through a woman’s purse.

How long have you two been in love with each other? How long have you been a serious couple because fucking girls in cars is something you do as a hook up or when you just start dating. Not something you do all the time with your serious girlfriend!
 
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Science has come leaps and bounds over the coarse of the last few years when it comes to sex dolls. Just be careful because I seen an article that said they can be hacked and manipulated to kill you now. To me......worth it
 
You sound like a jealous asshole. Nothing personal.

You're mad because your girl had sex with someone before you.

You're mad because you read a text where she turned a guy down for sex.

You're mad because you found condoms, after she told you she wanted to try some.

Are you on tren?

This is going a little too far. I don't think he was mad because she was with guys before him rather that she lied about it. That's a strange thing to lie about. Sounds to me, after reading what was said about her, that she'd been with a pretty damn good bit of guys before him. So many that she just lied about ALL of them.

Reading a text of hers WAS taking it a little far and you do seem a little over paranoid but I think your gut feeling was spot on. Also, condoms falling out of the console? Were they not box up? Open? This is strange as well.

Even it you were wrong about her there was just too much indifference to proceed with the relationship. Better to end it before shit really got serious.

My opinion based on the little info provided... She a ho lol.
 
I don't know why you're upset man, you're banging this girl in the car all the time condoms are falling out of her glove box. This is classic Ho Behavior, you basically got to fuck a hoe for a while and you're complaining about it. I think all of us here have been in your situation except we didn't fall in love with a Ho we knew what we were getting into and enjoyed it for what it was. I've got several stories like this, girls a Ho, lies about it. Tells me she loves me and wants to be with me only then the condoms are falling out of the purse LOL enjoy it for what it was.
 
I’ll be straight up, you have issues with your self-worth or whatever that you need to fix which would prob require professional help. With these issues you’ll either drive a girl to cheat, leave you or something else. That might not be the “bro” answer or what you want to hear but what you need to hear.
 
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