Online dating sites

[The Terminator]

Tinder and Bumble, I'll wander around POF sometimes. First picture is the most important and have something short and decent for a bio. On bumble, don't waste your time looking at any profiles, swipe right on everyone of them, I do it while watching TV or cruising. Reasoning is the girl still has to match and then send the first message. No point and looking at a profile and the girl never swipes right also, just swipe right and sort through the matches as they come in.

Tinder has turned into people looking for hookups or just, not so serious relationships, at least in my area. But they limit the number of swipes so at least look at the picture

I'll talk to someone for a little bit on the app before giving out my number, I give out my real one and haven't had issues with stalking or anything. They already have my name and that's about all they could find from my cell phone anyway.

Yea at first I was swiping at any girl that was attractive, didn’t appear like they’d annoy me and were not related to me, but then I ran into my limit I didn’t know I had. I guess I gotta be more selective. Half the profiles seem like they either want a relationship or at least something beyond a hookup and another half look like they’re trying to get followers on that Instagram thing.

But you will notice that it is the typical caucasian woman that makes a negative comment about a shirtless pic,,, but that same woman will not hesitate to ask 'what do you do for a living?' From there,, they can judge the amount of money you make by what type of answer you give. But when it comes to a third generation foriegn woman;;;; it is a totally different scenario. With a third generation foriegn woman,, they will say 'what a gorgeous body you have'. They will not give a shit about your income level if your a lean cut bodybuilder with a shirtless pic! All I can say is that it works for me. Give it a try! Use the race/ethnic filter function on your dating web site. You will see what I mean. But keep in mind though that foriegn third generation asian, latin, black woman etc want a guy for a serious relationship as oppose to 'a fun time'

So the Asian, Latina, black women who’s families have been in your area have been less into $ than the white girls who’s families have moved there more recently? Anyway idk I may think about it.

Re the first messages, I figured I’d say the “hey hows it going..” and maybe another sentence or two with some comment/question showing I read their profile, kinda hard when they don’t have much written and there pics don’t tell you what they’re in to. The hey how’s it going might be better for sites like OkCupid where you can message anyone and you got even more choices

 

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For bumble I just swipe on everyone, Tinder has the limit like you said. I swipe left for women I'm not attracted to, if I like the girl I see if she has anything written in the profile and more than two pictures. if she meets all those I'll swipe right. Too many hotties on tinder have one or two pictures and nothing written in the profile or just their instagram.

 

[The Terminator]

For bumble I just swipe on everyone, Tinder has the limit like you said. I swipe left for women I'm not attracted to, if I like the girl I see if she has anything written in the profile and more than two pictures. if she meets all those I'll swipe right. Too many hotties on tinder have one or two pictures and nothing written in the profile or just their instagram.

Yea I’m gonna start ignoring those hotties with just the Instagram link. I actually did see my 3rd cousin on tinder, hadn’t seen her since she was under 10 so I didn’t recognize her right away.

Might try this bumble, heard it’s more for women looking for something serious tho. Other than tinder I signed up for OkCupid and cougarlife for my older women love but there are a bunch of profiles using fake pics meaning they’re either scams or some bait and switch nonsense.

 

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Yea I’m gonna start ignoring those hotties with just the Instagram link. I actually did see my 3rd cousin on tinder, hadn’t seen her since she was under 10 so I didn’t recognize her right away.

Might try this bumble, heard it’s more for women looking for something serious tho. Other than tinder I signed up for OkCupid and cougarlife for my older women love but there are a bunch of profiles using fake pics meaning they’re either scams or some bait and switch nonsense.

Yep, Bumble is where I've had the best luck with women that want a serious relationship or at least up front about wanting something casual. Not so many one night hookups or scams. But then again POF and Tinder started off that way too, so give it time. "happn" and clover are two other random ones I've used.

 

[The Terminator]

Yep, Bumble is where I've had the best luck with women that want a serious relationship or at least up front about wanting something casual. Not so many one night hookups or scams. But then again POF and Tinder started off that way too, so give it time. "happn" and clover are two other random ones I've used.

I’ll give bumble and those others a try. Not against just a hookup or something serious, honestly down with whatever other than joining a couple or getting married very soon.

 

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Dated a girl in her mid 30s for a month or so from Bumble, with all this training and hitting goals I didn't have time to devote to anything so I broke it off, she came back with the idea to make it a casual fling kind of relationship. So there's certainly women out there that are up front and interested in every aspect of relationships.

 

[Hacksaw Jim]

Yea at first I was swiping at any girl that was attractive, didn’t appear like they’d annoy me and were not related to me, but then I ran into my limit I didn’t know I had. I guess I gotta be more selective. Half the profiles seem like they either want a relationship or at least something beyond a hookup and another half look like they’re trying to get followers on that Instagram thing.



So the Asian, Latina, black women who’s families have been in your area have been less into $ than the white girls who’s families have moved there more recently? Anyway idk I may think about it.

Re the first messages, I figured I’d say the “hey hows it going..” and maybe another sentence or two with some comment/question showing I read their profile, kinda hard when they don’t have much written and there pics don’t tell you what they’re in to. The hey how’s it going might be better for sites like OkCupid where you can message anyone and you got even more choices

Not necessarily. I'll give you an example of what I mean. In Canada, where I live;;; there are hundreds/thousands of philipino woman that will come here into Canada every year on work visas as care aid givers, nurses etc. They often meet a canadian guy, marry them and become canadian citizens. These type of woman will not look at your money,, but accept you for who you are. Just as well,, there are hundreds/thousands of korean, japanese, latino woman etc,, that come here every year in Canada on student visas. Very often,, these girls meet canadian men and marry them and become canadian citizens. Again, these type of girls do not look at your money. And no,, these girls are not marrying canadian guys just to get a green card. The relationships that canadian men develop with foreign woman are genuine,, and not built around a mans monetary value/status. This is why there is a humungous (ie extreme) trend of canadian white guys going towards asian woman here in canada. I,, being one of them

 

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Japanese food in Canada is legit.

 

[Hacksaw Jim]

Japanese food in Canada is legit.

Teriyaki chicken sushi and Alaska salmon sushi;;; two of my favorites

 

[The Terminator]

Not necessarily. I'll give you an example of what I mean. In Canada, where I live;;; there are hundreds/thousands of philipino woman that will come here into Canada every year on work visas as care aid givers, nurses etc. They often meet a canadian guy, marry them and become canadian citizens. These type of woman will not look at your money,, but accept you for who you are. Just as well,, there are hundreds/thousands of korean, japanese, latino woman etc,, that come here every year in Canada on student visas. Very often,, these girls meet canadian men and marry them and become canadian citizens. Again, these type of girls do not look at your money. And no,, these girls are not marrying canadian guys just to get a green card. The relationships that canadian men develop with foreign woman are genuine,, and not built around a mans monetary value/status. This is why there is a humungous (ie extreme) trend of canadian white guys going towards asian woman here in canada. I,, being one of them

Ah ok then the Asian and other foreign women would be the first generation women and the white women would be the third generation. Yeah even tho I’m not Asian iv been told by my mom I should find myself an Asian wife, I agree if they haven’t been too Americanized they’d make great wives, and I really like Asian women in general, I’ll always swipe right for an Asian girl.

 

[Demondosage]

But you will notice that it is the typical caucasian woman that makes a negative comment about a shirtless pic,,, but that same woman will not hesitate to ask 'what do you do for a living?' From there,, they can judge the amount of money you make by what type of answer you give. But when it comes to a third generation foriegn woman;;;; it is a totally different scenario. With a third generation foriegn woman,, they will say 'what a gorgeous body you have'. They will not give a shit about your income level if your a lean cut bodybuilder with a shirtless pic! All I can say is that it works for me. Give it a try! Use the race/ethnic filter function on your dating web site. You will see what I mean. But keep in mind though that foriegn third generation asian, latin, black woman etc want a guy for a serious relationship as oppose to 'a fun time'

exactly correct here! White chicks are afraid of muscle anyways and would rather have the skinny jean type guy.

Double standards at their best, because she can post a pic in a 2 piece (usually something she has no business wearing anyways) and it's ok.

Nah, see what they're really saying is this; "I have no confidence, you're a good looking guy, and you may not put up with my bullshit and leave me"

So IMO those types of women were never matches to begin with. My wife loves it, she fell in love with muscle when she watched Rocky 4 as a kid, she would grab her Dad's muscle magazines and look at all the guys in them. I could be juiced and jacked to the gills with veins bulging out everywhere and she would love it when most chicks would think it was gross. I found a keeper

 

[Demondosage]

Ah ok then the Asian and other foreign women would be the first generation women and the white women would be the third generation. Yeah even tho I’m not Asian iv been told by my mom I should find myself an Asian wife, I agree if they haven’t been too Americanized they’d make great wives, and I really like Asian women in general, I’ll always swipe right for an Asian girl.

your mom is a wise lady. Asians are #1 nowadays, they have family values and take care of their man!! I work with a guy who has a Thai wife. She cooks, cleans, gives him sex whenever he wants and he's a genuinely happy guy. The other guys always talk shit to him and I just smh because he's happy and they all have fat wives and live in misery

 

[Demondosage]

I wouldn't really say "hey, whats up",, just because it doesn't imply sincerity to have something going with the girl. It is better to write a very general genuine paragraph about yourself,, apart from your profile. Copy and paste that exact same paragrath and use it on every girl you write to. You will stand to get more replies. Also,, these girls are not getting 50 replies a month,, its more like about 200 replies a month and plus more. So you do have to make a genuine 'copy and paste' intro about yourself whenever you write to a girl in order to make yourself stand out

I sort of see this point, but it can also come off as desperate. I think pics go further until at least the first convo. Sometimes the female mind says "Well damn, maybe I'm not that special, let me see what this guy is about here and respond."

 

[The Terminator]

your mom is a wise lady. Asians are #1 nowadays, they have family values and take care of their man!! I work with a guy who has a Thai wife. She cooks, cleans, gives him sex whenever he wants and he's a genuinely happy guy. The other guys always talk shit to him and I just smh because he's happy and they all have fat wives and live in misery

Plus they age really well, like a 45 year old could pass as a 25-30 year old.

 

[T-Bagger]

your mom is a wise lady. Asians are #1 nowadays, they have family values and take care of their man!! I work with a guy who has a Thai wife. She cooks, cleans, gives him sex whenever he wants and he's a genuinely happy guy. The other guys always talk shit to him and I just smh because he's happy and they all have fat wives and live in misery

Thai women are becoming more and more like white women. They’re now obsessed with themselves and are rarely the traditional values type - at least that’s what I observed in Bangkok. Now when you go to the country and see a Thai woman who is still brown and not obsessed with selfies and her phone, you’ve found a traditional one.

 

[T-Bagger]

Plus they age really well, like a 45 year old could pass as a 25-30 year old.

My second cousin is frickin hot. She’s 43 and looks like she’s 25. And no @The Terminator, it’s not the tranny.

 

[weighted chinup]

Not necessarily. I'll give you an example of what I mean. In Canada, where I live;;; there are hundreds/thousands of philipino woman that will come here into Canada every year on work visas as care aid givers, nurses etc. They often meet a canadian guy, marry them and become canadian citizens. These type of woman will not look at your money,, but accept you for who you are. Just as well,, there are hundreds/thousands of korean, japanese, latino woman etc,, that come here every year in Canada on student visas. Very often,, these girls meet canadian men and marry them and become canadian citizens. Again, these type of girls do not look at your money. And no,, these girls are not marrying canadian guys just to get a green card. The relationships that canadian men develop with foreign woman are genuine,, and not built around a mans monetary value/status. This is why there is a humungous (ie extreme) trend of canadian white guys going towards asian woman here in canada. I,, being one of them

I'm Canadian, can confirm what is written here is true ^.

 

[The Terminator]

Can confirm cougerlife is a scam.

 

[Hacksaw Jim]

exactly correct here! White chicks are afraid of muscle anyways and would rather have the skinny jean type guy.

Double standards at their best, because she can post a pic in a 2 piece (usually something she has no business wearing anyways) and it's ok.

Nah, see what they're really saying is this; "I have no confidence, you're a good looking guy, and you may not put up with my bullshit and leave me"

So IMO those types of women were never matches to begin with. My wife loves it, she fell in love with muscle when she watched Rocky 4 as a kid, she would grab her Dad's muscle magazines and look at all the guys in them. I could be juiced and jacked to the gills with veins bulging out everywhere and she would love it when most chicks would think it was gross. I found a keeper

There not so much afraid of muscle. If some guy is an ugly fat slob weighing 300 or 400 pounds with a shit personality and attitude,, and making over a hundred grand per year and have a net worth value in material possessions (like Ferrari,, a house) one million dollars or so,,, then that girl will take that guy. (Same thing goes for a scrawny 100 pound guy). I see this bullshit all the time here in Canada,, especially in the big cities. White canadian woman have no integrity or pride about themselves. When white canadian girls get together and talk about there boyfriends/husbands,, the number one topic discussed is "what does your boyfriend/husband do for work"? But,, as you guess,, you will never see a third generation foreign woman here with such a guy. I really value the integrity and pride that foreign girls have.
As for a white girls confidence goes;;; if they are receiving an average of 200 to 400 replies a month on a dating site;;;; then their confidence goes through the roof. Them getting up to 400 replies a month is what makes them so selfish and judgemental.
It sounds like you got yourself a good wife there demondosage! I hope you keep her for good!

 

[The Terminator]

There not so much afraid of muscle. If some guy is an ugly fat slob weighing 300 or 400 pounds with a shit personality and attitude,, and making over a hundred grand per year and have a net worth value in material possessions (like Ferrari,, a house) one million dollars or so,,, then that girl will take that guy. (Same thing goes for a scrawny 100 pound guy). I see this bullshit all the time here in Canada,, especially in the big cities. White canadian woman have no integrity or pride about themselves. When white canadian girls get together and talk about there boyfriends/husbands,, the number one topic discussed is "what does your boyfriend/husband do for work"? But,, as you guess,, you will never see a third generation foreign woman here with such a guy. I really value the integrity and pride that foreign girls have.
As for a white girls confidence goes;;; if they are receiving an average of 200 to 400 replies a month on a dating site;;;; then their confidence goes through the roof. Them getting up to 400 replies a month is what makes them so selfish and judgemental.
It sounds like you got yourself a good wife there demondosage! I hope you keep her for good!

Hate to break to you all but a mans looks are like 10-30% (at the most) of the equation. Women find a dominant attitude, high social status, success and wealth more important than looks. Tbh not even the first generation Asian women are gonna be ok with you being desolate and poverty stricken, a man needs to be able to provide for the women and their future children, that’s what’s wired in. Now a woman’s looks will be about 90-95% of the equation to men.