How do I get intimate with someone I’m not sexually attracted to at all?

[Desibaba]

A friend of mine who recently become single and depressed came over to spend a couple of days with me. On paper she is perfect. Nice to my mom. Has a great career, etc. We get along so well as friends. Problem is I just don’t feel sexually attracted to her at all and I know she wants some companionship during this time.

Last night she is in my bed and I kept trying to get aroused and I couldn’t and she even asked me if I had erectile dysfunction. I just told her I might have it because I don’t have the heart to tell her I don’t find attractive. She is here with me till Saturday. Any advice on satisfying her? I even tried visualizing other girls while I was with her but couldn’t even get it up. And NO I’m not trolling.

 

[Multislacking]

Beer goggles? Tell her to beat it like it owes her money. Tell her you need head first to get it up. Sounds like she is willing to work for it?

 

[Gbro]

Is she a big ugly fat chick?

A good way to ruin a great freindship is to sleep with a girl you have no intention of staying with.

 

[Villain]

I second the oral route. If she’s really into it, have her blow you. Porn maybe? Can you get some Viagra before she leaves?

 

[Desibaba]

Is she a big ugly fat chick?

A good way to ruin a great freindship is to sleep with a girl you have no intention of staying with.

she has a pretty face and hair but super skinny with no boobs or ass. I like my latinas with the DDs and curvy butt and thighs. I just don’t feel aroused by her at all. I realized how lucky women are because they can just lie there, moan and fake an orgasm and problem solved.

 

[egonormical1010]

More hate fuck, less passion maybe ? Flip your switch to ‘Apex Predator’

*I’m not exactly sure what apex predator means or is, so this advice could be way off base.

 

[Dresden]

she has a pretty face and hair but super skinny with no boobs or ass. I like my latinas with the DDs and curvy butt and thighs. I just don’t feel aroused by her at all. I realized how lucky women are because they can just lie there, moan and fake an orgasm and problem solved.

Tell her you value the friendship and it's causing a mental block..so you cant go there

 

[DonaldPump123]

Pop a Cialis and rock her world bro

 

[CrispyRockClimber]

Shot of tequila and a beer. Beer for the quick carbs “BeerMuscles” and the shot to loosen you up and blood flow to your Dong. Also massages can help both parties in many ways. And obviously ORAL

 

[CompoundLifts31]

Just don't? They say no to us sometimes.
Go I love our friendship route unless you're trying to nail her.
Then I'd go Viagra, alcohol, head, then fuck.

 

[Multislacking]

she has a pretty face and hair but super skinny with no boobs or ass. I like my latinas with the DDs and curvy butt and thighs. I just don’t feel aroused by her at all. I realized how lucky women are because they can just lie there, moan and fake an orgasm and problem solved.

I usually say big girls need love too, but it also applies to skinny ones. Pretty face plus hair? Definitely bj. And the recipe laid out by CL31.

 

[Vincentino]

To be perfectly honest man, I agree with the whole “don’t ruin the friendship” vibe. There are a billion men out there she could get an easy fuck from without screwing around with the friendship you two share. Just sit her down and be straight up. She may not be too receptive at first, but down the road she’ll appreciate the honesty and value the friendship more. Plus, it’ll save you two from having the awkwardness between you.

 

[ickyrica]

A good friend is hard thing to find, especially in the opposing sex.

But what if she ends up killing it in bed and you're hooked? I'm not into string beans personally but have been very surprised along my travels.

I'd stay friends personally.

 

[BigBaldBeardGuy]

Just tell her she needs to try a lot harder. You require more then just sex.

You want to be romanced, maybe some flowers, she’s gotta dress up, that you want it to be just right and special. She should buy you dinner at the very least and make her know you’re not a $25 whore, you got class and want to go someplace classy. Order drinks, maybe share a good bottle of wine. This is a night you want to remember.

That way at the end of the night if the bonerzzz aren’t up to the task you get a nice evening out of it and a chance to flip the script on women everywhere.

 

[CompoundLifts31]

Just tell her she needs to try a lot harder. You require more then just sex.

You want to be romanced, maybe some flowers, she’s gotta dress up, that you want it to be just right and special. She should buy you dinner at the very least and make her know you’re not a $25 whore, you got class and want to go someplace classy. Order drinks, maybe share a good bottle of wine. This is a night you want to remember.

That way at the end of the night if the bonerzzz aren’t up to the task you get a nice evening out of it and a chance to flip the script on women everywhere.

So much heart. So much love.

 

[Uglyrichie]

Ur basically giving a pity fuck, be her friend maybe she see's you as the rebound and than shit gets really awkward and you loose a friend or maybe you hook up who knows. But a pity fuck isn't going to make anyone feel better in the end neither is rejecting her I guess ur fucked either way man

 

[FR0Z3N_B0MB3RRR]

I would go for the Cialis route if you think you should do it

 

[biggerben69]

A friend of mine who recently become single and depressed came over to spend a couple of days with me. On paper she is perfect. Nice to my mom. Has a great career, etc. We get along so well as friends. Problem is I just don’t feel sexually attracted to her at all and I know she wants some companionship during this time.

Last night she is in my bed and I kept trying to get aroused and I couldn’t and she even asked me if I had erectile dysfunction. I just told her I might have it because I don’t have the heart to tell her I don’t find attractive. She is here with me till Saturday. Any advice on satisfying her? I even tried visualizing other girls while I was with her but couldn’t even get it up. And NO I’m not trolling.

This sounds like a young mans issue? You've been a member since 2003. I've been a member since 2006. I think i can remember having a female friend in high school who used to drive me to school and let me drive her car. I would talk about issues I was having with my girl with her etc. She really liked me. She was cool, but we hung out more out of convenience. She tried moving on me once when I had a lot to drink. I remember being pissed one time cuz she dialed my girls number on the house phone(no cell phones back then) and let her listen while she tried to make it sound like we were having a heart to heart conversation and giggled like i was tickling her or trying to kiss her.
You say this girl is "Nice to your mom"? My mother is in her 70's and had me when she was 19. I'm in my late 40's. I call bullshit.

 

[biggerben69]

Will GH help my 70 yr old mom who fell down the stairs?

I'll admit when I'm wrong. The above is the title of a thread started by the OP. I apologize. Lol...too funny!

 

[Desibaba]

Last night we started watching some cut gems Adam Sandler movie on Netflix on the big screen 75” in the living room. I have always liked getting drunk way better than pot even when I was in college. So we are both drinking and she pulls out some prescription muv pure THC vape stick she scored. So I took a couple of hits with her. And just like before I absolutely hate the feeling of time slowing down that weed does. Luckily she is tired and wants to keep watching the movie in the bedroom and all I want to do is sleep. We lie down and before I know it she is sleeping on my chest with one leg on top of me with her hair almost suffocating me before I had even turned the tv on. Thankfully between the alcohol and pot I managed to fall and stay asleep in that exact painful position holding her the entire night.

Wake up at 7 and my neck and arm were completely numb and I could tell my breath smelled worse than the nastiest public toilet I can ever imagine. For some weird reason I was not bothered by that at all and I gently put her on the pillow and went into my bathroom like I usually do and went straight to the toilet and started pooping.

All of a sudden it hit me that my last 3 girlfriends I wouldn’t dare poop with the door open and stinking up the place because I did not want to gross them out. With her it’s almost like I feel like when I’m around my mom (Fart loud if I feel like it).

Strange but we had a fairly fun day so far. I took her for a ride on my motorcycle then had lunch at this Cuban place and hopefully we can make it to the range because she wants to try out my AR, .45 and 9mm. At least so far we are both having a 2 day staycation until we go back to our daily drinds Saturday morning with me trying to sell cars and her selling houses.