Standards, Never Lower Them

[Ozzy619]

What’s up with women who lower their standards and go with the safe bet after a relationship? Safe is never the best bet. Safe is average or below average.

The wild card is where it’s at. I’ve always been a wild card. I go big or go home but I always win in the end. I always get a better woman after the previous one, why the fuck would I ever lower my standards and regress? Fuck that.

Every girl I have been with always settles for a safe bet after me and I see how bored and miserable they are after a few years. They get fat and comfortable and fucking miserable. They always stalk my shit and tell me how much they hate me because I never stop hustling and progressing.

The difference between me and the women is that I can be alone for the first year to do self discovery work. To fix the shit that ruined the relationship in the first place. My patience always pays off, plus I’m a picky fucker.

If you’re a woman reading this, take the first year off a relationship. Never leave a man for another man, you always get something worse. The grass was never greener, you just didn’t water your own shit right.

Standards, get some, set some and exceed them all.

 

[RHEIERD]

Women have a biological need for stability.

At the same time they are very emotional, unstable, unpredictable, irrational, erratic.

No one really cares how great someone is. If you go around thinking you're above average, you're probably surrounded by people that aren't all that impressive. Ever been in a room full of physicists that make their living performing experiments using a particle collider?

And who cares about being impressive at all, it's just spinning your tires, making a lot of noise, stirring shit up to get attention. No one likes assholes that are busy trying to impress everyone around them. Everything you create, all the money you make, everything you own, it will end with 15 lines in a newspaper obituary....so who gives a fuck.

Most important thing in life is to find out truth, look for answers to the big questions and then fall over dead. There isn't anything more to life and most of your most rich and powerful will tell you the same thing as they lay rotting in their death bed taking their final gasps.

 

[RHEIERD]

Standards, get some, set some and exceed them all.

Okay this quote right here, not good.

Standards, who decides these standards?

There's nothing worse in life than a motivational speaker. These assholes want you to create your best life, create massive wealth, fuck the chicks with the biggest tits. For what. So you can show off.

This seems to be something a consumer culture like America has beat into the minds of our citizens, if you don't or can't go big go home.

Such fucking assholes this country is full of, why make it worse by going around checking people off because they didn't make that slam dunk in life?

On a happiness scale, people aren't doing so great in western societies, there is this constant neurotic need to find something outside ourselves to make ourselves whole. You're just one more purchase away from perfection. That you aren't any good if you don't do A,B,....Z like everyone else around you.

Like George Carlin said, whatever happened to just letting a kid play with a stick while he daydreams his life away.

He also said it's important not to give a shit, it can help you a lot in life.

 

[Oldschool]

Okay this quote right here, not good.

Standards, who decides these standards?

There's nothing worse in life than a motivational speaker. These assholes want you to create your best life, create massive wealth, fuck the chicks with the biggest tits. For what. So you can show off.

This seems to be something a consumer culture like America has beat into the minds of our citizens, if you don't or can't go big go home.

Such fucking assholes this country is full of, why make it worse by going around checking people off because they didn't make that slam dunk in life?

On a happiness scale, people aren't doing so great in western societies, there is this constant neurotic need to find something outside ourselves to make ourselves whole. You're just one more purchase away from perfection. That you aren't any good if you don't do A,B,....Z like everyone else around you.

Like George Carlin said, whatever happened to just letting a kid play with a stick while he daydreams his life away.

He also said it's important not to give a shit, it can help you a lot in life.

But yet you take steroids?
Pot meet Kettle.

 

[RHEIERD]

But yet you take steroids?
Pot meet Kettle.

I take steroids for the cognitive benefits, the muscle came along for the ride.

Competitive athlete until I was 36, nuts stopped working, cognition tanking. In comes aas and everything is back to normal. It's as simple as that.

I can't stand douchbags flexing in front of mirrors, most annoying creepy fucks in the gym. For me it's all about strength.

Body dysmorphia ain't no joke, it ruins lives, it's sad to watch when you see it in person.

 

[Silentlemon1011]

What’s up with women who lower their standards and go with the safe bet after a relationship? Safe is never the best bet. Safe is average or below average.

The wild card is where it’s at. I’ve always been a wild card. I go big or go home but I always win in the end. I always get a better woman after the previous one, why the fuck would I ever lower my standards and regress? Fuck that.

Every girl I have been with always settles for a safe bet after me and I see how bored and miserable they are after a few years. They get fat and comfortable and fucking miserable. They always stalk my shit and tell me how much they hate me because I never stop hustling and progressing.

The difference between me and the women is that I can be alone for the first year to do self discovery work. To fix the shit that ruined the relationship in the first place. My patience always pays off, plus I’m a picky fucker.

If you’re a woman reading this, take the first year off a relationship. Never leave a man for another man, you always get something worse. The grass was never greener, you just didn’t water your own shit right.

Standards, get some, set some and exceed them all.

I like this

Always exceed your own expectations.

This is applicable in almost all aspects of life.

Exceed rep goals
Exceed your estimated PR on a lift.
Exceed expectations on your job performance, NEVER settle for good enough when it comes to qaulity.
Especially women
Took me until 30ish to find the PERFECT woman of my dreams, I refused to settle before that.

Fucking preach that shit bro

 

[Silentlemon1011]

Okay this quote right here, not good.

Standards, who decides these standards?

There's nothing worse in life than a motivational speaker. These assholes want you to create your best life, create massive wealth, fuck the chicks with the biggest tits. For what. So you can show off.

This seems to be something a consumer culture like America has beat into the minds of our citizens, if you don't or can't go big go home.

Such fucking assholes this country is full of, why make it worse by going around checking people off because they didn't make that slam dunk in life?

On a happiness scale, people aren't doing so great in western societies, there is this constant neurotic need to find something outside ourselves to make ourselves whole. You're just one more purchase away from perfection. That you aren't any good if you don't do A,B,....Z like everyone else around you.

Like George Carlin said, whatever happened to just letting a kid play with a stick while he daydreams his life away.

He also said it's important not to give a shit, it can help you a lot in life.

YOU create your standards.

YOU create your own happiness.

No one ever told me, and I never told myself I need a chick with huge tits, my wife is tiny.

That's what I LIKE

Is being a carpenter a rocket scientist?
Who the fuck cares, I'm HAPPY with what I do, I'm happy with my.moneu, my qaulity and skills.

Find your own perfection, exceed YOUR OWN expectations is what the entire point is.

You're reflecting too much on what other people think... the "Security and settling" that Ozzy is talking about.

Me your own man, set your own goals... crush them... then go higher.

You should be your own biggest critic
and FUCK what anyone else thinks of you

 

[RHEIERD]

I like this

Always exceed your own expectations.

This is applicable in almost all aspects of life.

Exceed rep goals
Exceed your estimated PR on a lift.
Exceed expectations on your job performance, NEVER settle for good enough when it comes to qaulity.
Especially women
Took me until 30ish to find the PERFECT woman of my dreams, I refused to settle before that.

Fucking preach that shit bro

How about just enjoying your life and doing what you really want to do when you're brutally honest and no longer give a fuck what others think.

I got news for you, no one gives a shit about your goals, about your lifts, your job performance. Sure there are assholes looking through resumes, picking and choosing, but fuck these people.

There is no perfect women, I've had some really hot women(had my collection of nasty STD's because of these tramps as well), but when it came time to have a conversation, they were idiots, god damn looking into the mind of these creatures is one of the most miserable things anyone can experience. I'm not into poetry, I don't like whispering sweet nothings, don't like planning for our future, it's all so domestic, boring and planned out.

 

[DrinkFlintWater]

YOU create your standards.

YOU create your own happiness.

No one ever told me, and I never told myself I need a chick with huge tits, my wife is tiny.

That's what I LIKE

Is being a carpenter a rocket scientist?
Who the fuck cares, I'm HAPPY with what I do, I'm happy with my.moneu, my qaulity and skills.

Find your own perfection, exceed YOUR OWN expectations is what the entire point is.

You're reflecting too much on what other people think... the "Security and settling" that Ozzy is talking about.

Me your own man, set your own goals... crush them... then go higher.

You should be your own biggest critic
and FUCK what anyone else thinks of you

Truth right here^^ plus @Silentlemon1011 I love tiny women too. My roommate who thinks were in a serious relationship is tiny. Just a handful of tit, if that. Makes my average dick seem above average.

 

[Silentlemon1011]

How about just enjoying your life and doing what you really want to do when you're brutally honest and no longer give a fuck what others think.

I got news for you, no one gives a shit about your goals, about your lifts, your job performance. Sure there are assholes looking through resumes, picking and choosing, but fuck these people.

There is no perfect women, I've had some really hot women(had my collection of nasty STD's because of these tramps as well), but when it came time to have a conversation, they were idiots, god damn looking into the mind of these creatures is one of the most miserable things anyone can experience. I'm not into poetry, I don't like whispering sweet nothings, don't like planning for our future, it's all so domestic, boring and planned out.

There you go again.
Settling and caring what people think about you.

What did I just say.
I dint give a fuck

I lift for ME (And to look good for my old lady lol.. always keep her happy)
I work for ME. (Nobody's looking at my resume, I look at theirs)
I develop my skills so that I can be happy with myself and my own performance.
I drive a beaten up truck because it gets me to my destination, who care if it squeaks when I turn lol

What the fuck do I care about peoples opinion.

I'm doing my best to keep happy and be successful in my own eyes and the eyes of the people I love, my family.

Fuck random assholes
You care too much about what they think of you.

Never settle

 

[Silentlemon1011]

Truth right here^^ plus @Silentlemon1011 I love tiny women too. My roommate who thinks were in a serious relationship is tiny. Just a handful of tit, if that. Makes my average dick seem above average.

My Tiny asian wife makes my below average dick look huge.

Its great

 

[HIGHRISK]

I take steroids for the cognitive benefits, the muscle came along for the ride.

Competitive athlete until I was 36, nuts stopped working, cognition tanking. In comes aas and everything is back to normal. It's as simple as that.

I can't stand douchbags flexing in front of mirrors, most annoying creepy fucks in the gym. For me it's all about strength.

Body dysmorphia ain't no joke, it ruins lives, it's sad to watch when you see it in person.

I flex in the mirror

but I’m fat so nothing to see here

 

[RHEIERD]

I supposed my Nihilistic views of simplifying ones life don't fit with the typical goal of success in America.

If the universe is heading towards decay and absolute zero where time ends as we know it. Morbid as that might be for most, it's pretty damn interesting for me. Should I care to do anything, what was driving me in my youth and why did I wake up in middle age and realize it was all for nothing.

How's that for motivation?

 

[Human_backhoe]

I supposed my Nihilistic views of simplifying ones life don't fit with the typical goal of success in America.

If the universe is heading towards decay and absolute zero where time ends as we know it. Morbid as that might be for most, it's pretty damn interesting for me. Should I care to do anything, what was driving me in my youth and why did I wake up in middle age and realize it was all for nothing.

How's that for motivation?

Good to see you're back lol.

 

[Human_backhoe]

If the universe is heading towards decay and absolute zero where time ends as we know it. Morbid as that might be for most, it's pretty damn interesting for me. Should I care to do anything, what was driving me in my youth and why did I wake up in middle age and realize it was all for nothing.

How's that for motivation?

Pretty bold of you to assume that life and the universe is nothing more than a zero sum happening.

Of course what drove you in your youth means nothing to you in time! That is the point. To change and grow and evolve as a human being. Life offers you no chance to correct you course? No opportunity to change and seek new goals and aspirations? You past has had no effect on your future, nothing gained by any of your actions or inactivity?

 

[RHEIERD]

Pretty bold of you to assume that life and the universe is nothing more than a zero sum happening.

Of course what drove you in your youth means nothing to you in time! That is the point. To change and grow and evolve as a human being. Life offers you no chance to correct you course? No opportunity to change and seek new goals and aspirations? You past has had no effect on your future, nothing gained by any of your actions or inactivity?

I pushed myself to the limits when I was younger, pushed, stress, more stress, more stress, made lots of money. Fuck-it-----walked away.

It holds nothing for me, some people are entertained and amused by something as simple as bigmac.

The deluding myself of what has to be, what we all need to be doing. It's busy work just to be busy, the social world holds no sway on me, no unexpected excitement, no nothing, it's just a painful excruciating exercise.

The human condition is built on anxiety, choose well or pay.

Perfection is just in reach.

Degrees of disappointment.

Death...tick,tock,tick,tock.

Hows that for uplifting?

 

[Oldschool]

I pushed myself to the limits when I was younger, pushed, stress, more stress, more stress, made lots of money. Fuck-it-----walked away.

It holds nothing for me, some people are entertained and amused by something as simple as bigmac.

The deluding myself of what has to be, what we all need to be doing. It's busy work just to be busy, the social world holds no sway on me, no unexpected excitement, no nothing, it's just a painful excruciating exercise.

The human condition is built on anxiety, choose well or pay.

Perfection is just in reach.

Degrees of disappointment.

Death...tick,tock,tick,tock.

Hows that for uplifting?

Are you teetering on the edge of suicide? Jesus dude. Pick a groove and stay in it. Your are a pessimist on steroids. Nobody cares! Do you.

 

[Oldschool]

It holds nothing for me, The deluding myself of what has to be, what we all need to be doing. It's busy work just to be busy, the social world holds no sway on me, no unexpected excitement, no nothing,

So why are you here? Serious question.

 

[RHEIERD]

So why are you here? Serious question.

To place another raw order?

 

[RHEIERD]

Are you teetering on the edge of suicide? Jesus dude. Pick a groove and stay in it. Your are a pessimist on steroids. Nobody cares! Do you.

Life is repetitive no matter what you do, at a certain age you've kind of seen it all, it's a weird feeling when you see the same patterns over and over. Going through the motions.

Suicide or a thousand deaths by natural causes....does it really make a difference?