Women sort of have a way of testing us, to see what we’re made of. Are we really the big bad wolf or are we soft and mushy on the inside? Are we the real deal or are we just pretenders? It’s not a conscious thing, it’s not though out ahead of time or anything. It’s a natural feature of the subconscious.
You failed, because it hurt your feelings, and reacted emotionally (making things worse). Which means you have some softness inside, some weakness, some fear, some insecurities.
If my ex wife or girlfriend or whatever said those things I wouldn’t give two shits. She could tell me they fucked and I wouldn’t care, because Ive been around the block enough to not get emotionally invested in a relationship with a woman. Either I like spending time with them, which case I do spend time with them, or I don’t, which case I don’t.
I don’t pay attention to how they feel, or what they say, I don’t trust but verify, I don’t care if they cheat. Because I don’t care. I don’t mind being the bad guy or the asshole. I know who I am and who I am not, and I don’t mind being alone if they start behaving badly. There’s no shortage of women out there.
Just brush it off, get a good night sleep, get up tomorrow and get bigger. Flirt with some pretty girls. Get your blood pumping again. Why do you care about this trivial thing? You don’t. Your ego does. Your weakness does.
Get bigger and get stronger. Get your head back in the game.
