Ever feel you missed out on "the one"?

Up to you but I see where you got mad easily. Maybe you got too hot over it but I see where you saw his post as general disrespect to women in general and got upset. I did too I just chose to let it be.
We can discuss this stuff In peace together the more we all learn. I will say for most under 30 this will be a harder thing to get Even those at or close too.

The closer you get to the inevitable death especially half way to 60 the more you value time imho and get upset when we think others don't. Everyone does at some point.
The wisdom and value of the transience of time comes with age. While we are young, we are very careless. That is life
 
Move on and do not look back.

And no "just friends" would not be nice. Wow. Maybe you can be one of her girlfriends and she could share with you how the new guy she met last night (and fucked, "Oh, I don't usually do that") was so great in bed and bigger than anybody else and she came three times . . .

Sounds like paradise.

Dude, move on.
@K1ngufk1ngs This is sound advice. "Just friends" is worse than nothing.
It takes some time before you manage to stop looking back, but you got to cut the ties (Facebook, Instagram etc), stop asking common friends how she's doing.
Exactly as @malfeasance says here, the last thing you want to hear is sex details of stuff she never did with you. She never allowed you anal? Do you think you'll be happy when she goes "oh my god, that guy fucked my ass until I was almost crying, then he did it again, now I'm kind of getting getting into it"
It's not easy, but you got to move forwards, not backwards.
 
@K1ngufk1ngs This is sound advice. "Just friends" is worse than nothing.
It takes some time before you manage to stop looking back, but you got to cut the ties (Facebook, Instagram etc), stop asking common friends how she's doing.
Exactly as @malfeasance says here, the last thing you want to hear is sex details of stuff she never did with you. She never allowed you anal? Do you think you'll be happy when she goes "oh my god, that guy fucked my ass until I was almost crying, then he did it again, now I'm kind of getting getting into it"
It's not easy, but you got to move forwards, not backwards.
I agree but we did it all and she was very open about her sexuality. It was odd but she legit was one I did not care what she had done. Not saying I would be happy if she fucked around on me but also going in with the mind she isn't mine and still having her make me feel that good I really don't care who or what she has fucked. From what I know her and her husband "made it work ".
First few times we were together she liked to talk about her history to be open and it made things easier for me to be cool with her in that regard.
 
I agree but we did it all and she was very open about her sexuality. It was odd but she legit was one I did not care what she had done. Not saying I would be happy if she fucked around on me but also going in with the mind she isn't mine and still having her make me feel that good I really don't care who or what she has fucked. From what I know her and her husband "made it work ".
First few times we were together she liked to talk about her history to be open and it made things easier for me to be cool with her in that regard.
Best advice i can give you is check out the red pill movement online go into it with an open mind and all your troubles will be gone and woman will think of you the way you think of this woman.
 
Best advice i can give you is check out the red pill movement online go into it with an open mind and all your troubles will be gone and woman will think of you the way you think of this woman.
Haha...is this sarcasm?? Haha...well, I don't think the Red Pill makes all the troubles with women go away, but you begin to understand the true nature of women. So you can at least protect yourself from emotional, financial, and spiritual harm. You will get laid more often. Women (the right kind of women) will be more attracted to you. You will start to feel more manly? I mean, come on guys, we're men. We like to do manly shit. Doing the dishes and vacuuming is not what's going to get our manly chemicals going.
 
Haha...is this sarcasm?? Haha...well, I don't think the Red Pill makes all the troubles with women go away, but you begin to understand the true nature of women. So you can at least protect yourself from emotional, financial, and spiritual harm. You will get laid more often. Women (the right kind of women) will be more attracted to you. You will start to feel more manly? I mean, come on guys, we're men. We like to do manly shit. Doing the dishes and vacuuming is not what's going to get our manly chemicals going.
No brother its for the best so you understand woman's true nature and after that you can do what ever you wish with that knowledge.
Sure as fuck you gonna reject a lot more woman and they are gonna think of you like this guy things of this girl. They will think you where the right one and they messed up and lost you.
Of course you will be able to fuck them when ever you want after that if you so desire.
They make the rules for the Betas and break them for the alfas.
 
I realized a couple of things for me. First was I dont even know if she felt the same as I did. Second I dont think I was right for her back then and that still may be the case. Sometimes even profound people come and go in your life. I cried over her even after I got married ..it was strange. Many years later I still think about her but its less and less as the years go by. After I got a divorce there was a few different times I tried to talk to her but nothing came of it. Sometimes its just better to try to move on. Ive learned to hold things loosely as ive got older
 
I realized a couple of things for me. First was I dont even know if she felt the same as I did. Second I dont think I was right for her back then and that still may be the case. Sometimes even profound people come and go in your life. I cried over her even after I got married ..it was strange. Many years later I still think about her but its less and less as the years go by. After I got a divorce there was a few different times I tried to talk to her but nothing came of it. Sometimes its just better to try to move on. Ive learned to hold things loosely as ive got older

"I've seen it all around me
Good loving gone bad..."

"Hold on loosely
But don't let go
If you cling too tightly to her
You're gonna lose control, yeah, yeah, yeah"


What a great motto for dating, relationships, and even long term relationships.

Hold on loosely brothers...to all women.
 
It sucks, but part of me thinks it’s necessary. Maybe I’m wrong, but do you ever really grow without heartbreak and failure?
That's right, you have to go through grief and pain in order to grow. Only such life lessons are well absorbed by a person and are especially valuable.
 
I realized a couple of things for me. First was I dont even know if she felt the same as I did. Second I dont think I was right for her back then and that still may be the case. Sometimes even profound people come and go in your life. I cried over her even after I got married ..it was strange. Many years later I still think about her but its less and less as the years go by. After I got a divorce there was a few different times I tried to talk to her but nothing came of it. Sometimes its just better to try to move on. Ive learned to hold things loosely as ive got older
Oh that reminds me - out of the blue (the one I was super in love with and took 15 years to get over) messaged me because she wanted me to pray for her marriage. When it was my turn and I messaged her about something different, about a year or so later, she abruptly responded and then blocked my ass. Fucking bitch lol.
 
Oh that reminds me - out of the blue (the one I was super in love with and took 15 years to get over) messaged me because she wanted me to pray for her marriage. When it was my turn and I messaged her about something different, about a year or so later, she abruptly responded and then blocked my ass. Fucking bitch lol.
Woooow thats fucked!!
 
Oh that reminds me - out of the blue (the one I was super in love with and took 15 years to get over) messaged me because she wanted me to pray for her marriage. When it was my turn and I messaged her about something different, about a year or so later, she abruptly responded and then blocked my ass. Fucking bitch lol.

"Pray for my marriage", meaning: "hey I'm having a change of heart about this guy, so I'm thinking about you as a plan b".

This is why you never get married brothers. You can't trust a woman, other than your mother.
 
No. I’ll tell ya what memory I do have though….

The memory of my first serious relationship and what a fucking bitch that girl was to me! I thank my lucky stars I moved out of town and started a new life away from that miserable cunt! If I stayed with that girl I would have hung myself a long time ago. But let me tell you where things began to get bad back then….

They got worse because I was pussy-whipped! I would hang with this girl all the time, stopped hanging with the guys as much, and she knew she had the power over the relationship. Don’t ever stop doing what you wanna do and let a woman dictate your decisions, it’ll only lead to a bitch and a chick that weaponizes pussy on you! Thankfully I grew up, found someone that respected me, and I can pretty much do what I want and I don’t get shit on for it! When they lose respect for you just once, when that bitch wants to talk down to you like you’re some buffoon, it’s over! Don’t even try to fix that shit because you’re wasting your time
 
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