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That’s pretty profound
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I think the obsession with sexuality is mostly a lower form of human experience. It is the lower part of the brain, the amygdala, the lower order functions of the brain that work on auto pilot.
There are other things that are far beyond human sexuality, things that activate the human brain on a much higher level and as a result slow down the lower order functions rather drastically if you put in the work.
Probably 15 years ago I got heavy into meditation, building from 30 minutes, to 3hrs and eventually 8hrs. That was better than any sex in my life. The most addictive thing I have ever done, but it takes so much discipline to do it and the problem is you get to the point where you don't want to come back to this world. This isn't nappy time, you're not asleep, you're flying through space towards stars and into giant voids. It's obviously something all of us have inside of us and it's free. If people knew what they could experience with total concentration for extended periods, they'd probably stop chasing the things that are a waste of time. Once the total cessation of pain is passed after a few hours of sitting there is this point where you dissociate from your physical, you could have someone pour gas on you and light it on fire and you wouldn't feel it at all, your mind has completely left all of that behind.
Now the question is, do we sell sex as the ultimate experience for man, because it is quick and gets people to conform to what society wants, or do we tell people that there are much better experiences than one is having chasing after a mate.
You can keep the best sex in the world, if I could experience this I would die a happy man:
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Hightower
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Exactly, exactly, everything has changed. True, men sometimes deny it
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We must try to keep the joker always in your sleeve, in all cases.
Hightower
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Everything that is connected with feelings has nothing to do with the mind and rationality. And we deliberately deceive ourselves and build illusions. And then we pay for it.
Villain
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Ok so the first thing I have to ask is - what do you do for a living that enables you to be able to meditate for 8 hours a day?
As for selling sex… very good point. Sex SHOULD be a connecting of spirit and soul as you connect with your one. Obviously it has become so cheapened these days, along with everything else.
No I definitely don't. There are a few girls I may slightly regret not having sex with, but every relationship that ended ended for a reason
It's really easy to look back and think if only I was more mature or had grown out of X habit, or I didn't fuck up and get too drunk and say shit to that other girl.
Regardless of what it was the relationship ended because one or more likely both of you needed to grow. So you didn't miss out on the one, at the time she WASN'T the one. Maybe she could be someday, but in the end, if you have learned from mistakes then you should have grown into a highly desirable man NOW, and should be very capable of finding the one...NOW.
Otherwise you are most likely just romanticizing your past and the relationship simply wasn't actually ad incredible as you think.
It's really easy to look back and think if only I was more mature or had grown out of X habit, or I didn't fuck up and get too drunk and say shit to that other girl.
Regardless of what it was the relationship ended because one or more likely both of you needed to grow. So you didn't miss out on the one, at the time she WASN'T the one. Maybe she could be someday, but in the end, if you have learned from mistakes then you should have grown into a highly desirable man NOW, and should be very capable of finding the one...NOW.
Otherwise you are most likely just romanticizing your past and the relationship simply wasn't actually ad incredible as you think.
I was working full time and then some, but no family. You can do what you want when you want as long as you have no responsibilities to anyone, people eat up time, a job still allows time at the end of the day.
For me it was something I knew nothing about when I started meditating. I read about it in great detail, but those words mean absolutely nothing, because it would seem to me these books are being written by people that don't really meditate. It wasn't until I went into deep deep meditation and my body fell away, the fact that I didn't want to leave and that was hurling through space, with a loss of all sense of direction that I went "holy shit" how does no one know this. Then I went looking for others online that had the same experience and found it in a few people that described exactly what I experienced. There just aren't many of us around and that's stupid because it has to be in all of us if we let go of the things that keep us trapped and preoccupied with this world. The void state where the mind is fully awake but the body has completely dropped away and for all purposes is asleep, with respiration very slow, perhaps 2 or 3 breaths a minute, heart rate drastically slows, with no ability to feel the pain and discomfort that is normal when sitting in a fixed position. That state is reached by letting thoughts enter, and letting them fall away, letting the go one by one, our brain is constantly thinking, mostly distracted, you see the thought and let it go over and over until the process is automatic and then your mind will settle down and stop this game, that's when you feel like your falling face forward continuously over and over and over as you are detaching from your body and then if you continue you will spot a dot of light, usually yellow turning red and then if you continue you will see this light fade away and then into the void you go where you will think thoughts, carry conversations on and realize that you hold onto nothing, no views are important. This is probably how the non-dualistic ways of thinking were developed that are despised in the west.
The west would look down on this. They say get up and get to work, make money, stick your dick in holes and cause endless problems for yourself and others. This is why I think the west has a massive blind spot and why the west does certain things incredibly well, but it has a rigid drive to protect the ego at all costs and build up all these toxic ways of thinking that lead to endless forms of human mental misery even though we enjoy vast material wealth.
GuerillaPete
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Modern people who dont have time to meditate 8 hrs just use dmt.
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I did that once. It fucked me up for like 20 minutes!!! Like, really fucked me up...
I've never had the chance to try psychedelics. Nobody in the circles I used to run when I was young ever had any and the last time I was around drugs of any sort was when I was 25 and after that it was over.
Strong weed makes me paranoid so I don't really like it unless it's just a small dose.
What I want to do is go on a trip like that Dr Strange video I posted above, I just don't know if there's anything that can get me there.
Strong weed makes me paranoid so I don't really like it unless it's just a small dose.
What I want to do is go on a trip like that Dr Strange video I posted above, I just don't know if there's anything that can get me there.
GuerillaPete
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Just meditate bro stay natural
Special K, did that to me. Did it 2x first time took it all, had no idea what a khole was. I learned that day. Most beautiful yet horrifying experience. I litterally accepted i died. I guess thats an ego death. It was incredible.
That said, i totally agree with your meditating, and you got there doing in naturally. Thats better then anything. Being in the moment and having a high frequency without ego. Good reminder to so that myself
Hightower
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Nowadays, there is sex, sex, love is love, and these things exist in parallel universes, with rare exceptions.
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I think that the relationship in youth seemed different than it is now. Similarly, sex with some girl in the past seemed super-excellent, but after a while there is a different assessment. Yes, and those who refused, I thought they were excellent women, now the look is different.
Sex is the lower form of brain activity.
You can see in the brain where sex drive and attraction are taking place. It is in the center just barely above the start of the brain-stem.
These functions are on autopilot. There simply isn't that much to it as far as your control over it.
The problem is love and sex both involved the same area of the brain. With love branching out to the prefrontal cortex, but we're dealing with the same chemical neurotransmitters.
So if someone understands this and views it from this lens, they are less likely to drag themselves into the emotional turbulent world of love and sex.
If the senses are broken down and viewed one by one, it wouldn't take long before you realize that love should be replaced with universal kindness and compassion. Love directed towards one individual, especially as it pertains to sex is the cause of a lot of suffering, where one is allowed love and the other is rejected. Sex in many ways is based on greed and this also leads to misery for millions of people.
Empathy is probably the greater emotion to that of love, it certainly targets a larger portion of the brain.
I see Love and Fear as one in the same. Love is possessive and that leads to fear and eventually suffering when it has to come to an end if one hasn't moved past these emotions.
Villain
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That’s some deep Master Yoda stuff right there bro.
K1ngufk1ngs
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I was thinking the same.
