What just happened lol? Dating thread

[luupe2014]

So me and this girl started talking randomly she seemed desperate to hangout , first night I said I couldn’t , second night she stayed at my house and I banged her twice everything was great , watched movies etc.. then she went home and wrote me instantly still wanting to introduce me to her kids and her parents ..so the next day she calls me to come over and hangout we go get her kid from her ex go to her house her introduces me to her family , later on I go home , everything find and dandy … and next day she’s ignoring me and being an straight bitch it seems not being rude or anything but just like “ as if she was bipolar “.. ignores when I ask when we are hanging out again etc

I’m confused haha , everything seemed to be going great she wud kiss me good bye and everything I’m not like heart broken I’m just confused haha maybe someone can explain ?

 

[Chuck Spears]

someone taller/more money/better abs/etc matched with her on tinder
dont take it personally
she's probably banging him right now

 

[luupe2014]

Hahaha gold

 

[TrenTrenTren]

Don't take it personally bro. Move on to the next. There's any number of reasons why a girl bangs you and then stops talking to you. Maybe she wanted to get back at her boyfriend, and now they are back together. Who knows?

One red flag that I see in your post is that you asked her when you were hanging out next after you banged her. Dude....never do that. After you bang the girl, ALWAYS let them be the ones that contact you first. You want them to know that after you fucked them, you are out fucking another girl (and you should be doing that anyway, then you don't have to fake it).

The worst thing you can do is convey to a girl that she is the only thing you have going on. That is an instant turn off for women. You want to convey to women that you have so much going on that you did them a favor giving them your time by banging them.

 

[GuerillaPete]

Avoid single mothers like the plague !

 

[TrenTrenTren]

Avoid single mothers like the plague !

Bingo.

 

[SenorSuperdrol]

OP since she’s banging a guy who’s blasting more gear than you, I speak for everyone when I say post the nudes.

 

[barbell001]

I think it will be something to do with her Ex giving her a hard time about you or making some shit up about you to put her off ya. It will have pissed him off seeing his kid go off with her and a new in shape fella in the car up to god knows what Lol Tren Tren Tren is right too - give her the impression you are a busy guy and have a million other things better to do than wait for her to decide when you can see her again. They say they want a nice caring man sure - but they still want someone that keeps them guessing and treats them mean and keeps em keen!!!

 

[Demondosage]

Easy…she dealt with the emotional distress is caused the kids afterwards, a highly likely scenario

 

[Demondosage]

But if that’s the case then I fault her dumb ass for bringing you around the kids the second time you hung out with her. You bang her the first night and then meet the kids and her mom. Sounds kind of quick for someone looking for future potential with someone

 

[Hughinn]

So me and this girl started talking randomly she seemed desperate to hangout , first night I said I couldn’t , second night she stayed at my house and I banged her twice everything was great , watched movies etc.. then she went home and wrote me instantly still wanting to introduce me to her kids and her parents ..so the next day she calls me to come over and hangout we go get her kid from her ex go to her house her introduces me to her family , later on I go home , everything find and dandy … and next day she’s ignoring me and being an straight bitch it seems not being rude or anything but just like “ as if she was bipolar “.. ignores when I ask when we are hanging out again etc

I’m confused haha , everything seemed to be going great she wud kiss me good bye and everything I’m not like heart broken I’m just confused haha maybe someone can explain ?

You blew it with the kids and parents.

Not complicated

 

[Doodle]

You dodged a bullet man. No sane woman should let a guy meet her kids and parents the second time you hang out. That’s fucked up. She sounds unstable and probably used you to get back at her ex.

 

[Zarathos]

Avoid single mothers like the plague !

Really cutting out a big chunk of the population if you do this LOL

 

[RussianDoggo]

Interesting how I find losers even in a steroid forum. And I am not talking about OP.

 

[God&Gainz]

Lol you should've known she was batshit when she wanted to introduce you to her parents and kids the second time you hung out?

 

[JesterBOB]

So me and this girl started talking randomly she seemed desperate to hangout , first night I said I couldn’t , second night she stayed at my house and I banged her twice everything was great , watched movies etc.. then she went home and wrote me instantly still wanting to introduce me to her kids and her parents ..so the next day she calls me to come over and hangout we go get her kid from her ex go to her house her introduces me to her family , later on I go home , everything find and dandy … and next day she’s ignoring me and being an straight bitch it seems not being rude or anything but just like “ as if she was bipolar “.. ignores when I ask when we are hanging out again etc

I’m confused haha , everything seemed to be going great she wud kiss me good bye and everything I’m not like heart broken I’m just confused haha maybe someone can explain ?

Women sometimes do things that we men do not understand and do not fit into the logical chain. Women can be different, in one person there are two different people. But maybe she's just crazy. Hold on bro You definitely won't be bored with her.