Good experiences with women. Do they exist?

Stop with this red pill garbage. If you can't meet a good woman, look inward. You're either boring and self centered, or you're attracted to trash. There is an endless supply of good women.

Chill, i just wanted to post that video

I have never met a single woman that didn't tell me how their ex was a narcissist.
I met a women recently who said "all my ex's are naracists"

Women do love narcissists though, just like men love bpd women :D
 
Maybe my perspectives is skewed or I just need to meet more people. But in all my life I have never had a consistently good experience with women. I dont want to be a misogynist but it sure seems like facts support that perspective.
I have never been cheated on but trying to help, love, save, or just be friends with a woman has always been the catalyst for my life falling apart.
Nowadays it looks like they have become even worse. I have as good a wife as you can get and I still don't see it lasting. I have never met a single woman that didn't tell me how their ex was a narcissist. Never met a single woman that didn't cheat, lie, manipulate, and be fake asf. So post your good experiences and I will tell you how it is all gonna fall apart lol.
Short Answer NO! ;)
 
Yes good women do still exist. I also know the bpd ones but my wife is the complete opposite. She is kind, loyal, takes care of the household and so on, the only "downside" is her kind of low sex drive. I still get a satisfactory amount of sex so it's really all good. It is actually nice when I am away on a business trip for two weeks that I don't have to work that she gets horny and wants to get some... She hates parties or gatherings and enjoys being at home going to bed early and living a quiet life. I love her for being that way and enjoy providing the quiet life for her that she wants.
 
Yes good women do still exist. I also know the bpd ones but my wife is the complete opposite. She is kind, loyal, takes care of the household and so on, the only "downside" is her kind of low sex drive. I still get a satisfactory amount of sex so it's really all good. It is actually nice when I am away on a business trip for two weeks that I don't have to work that she gets horny and wants to get some... She hates parties or gatherings and enjoys being at home going to bed early and living a quiet life. I love her for being that way and enjoy providing the quiet life for her that she wants.
That sounds pretty good.
 
I have a take that's a bit contrarian to what seems to be the consensus on this thread, albeit I'm a younger, less experienced dude.
Immediately I noticed responses to the original post advised things like introspection or changing perspectives, which I think is a broadly positive mindset when it comes to dating struggle. But from hearing what my female friends/colleagues have to say when their female friends have negative dating experiences, it seems like only the guy can be at fault.

My point is that I do agree there is a general increasing disdain between the sexes, and honestly, I think in recent years it's the women moving farther away and men being the reactionary. So I understand where OP is coming from. There's plenty of data suggesting this too.

This is not to say there isn't a solution, which has always been volume. Put in enough volume and you'll find someone.
 
Yes good women do still exist. I also know the bpd ones but my wife is the complete opposite. She is kind, loyal, takes care of the household and so on, the only "downside" is her kind of low sex drive. I still get a satisfactory amount of sex so it's really all good. It is actually nice when I am away on a business trip for two weeks that I don't have to work that she gets horny and wants to get some... She hates parties or gatherings and enjoys being at home going to bed early and living a quiet life. I love her for being that way and enjoy providing the quiet life for her that she wants.
Goes back to the old saying “ all the good ones are taken” . I think the point of this whole thread is about dealing with single life in today’s fucked up world. Bad news is it only gets harder with age. Big difference being in your 30’s and single vs 50’s and single!
 
I think the issue with women at the moment is the epidemic of mental health issues. I'm not saying men are in a better shape mentally.

I am also not saying women are mental either... But there is a mental health crisis amongst women and it drives a LOT of the bad behaviour.

My own experience of being absolutely sauced to the gills is it makes it impossible to think logically.

Also women gossip, chat and vent a lot with each other. However they take their real issues to the grave. That shit never comes out. So atleast with men you know they bury shit.... Women are seen as more open or emotionally intelligent. So the deep dark issues can be hidden better. Usually shame or a fear of rejection/humiliation drives the behaviour.

Last point. There is a LOT of drug abuse amoungst women. Usually men psychologically are not deterred by pain if there is a reward whereas women over compensate when something REDUCES pain. That's why there are so many women absolutely out of their minds on head meds, pain killers and addicted to food. Men just smoke meth, get blackout drunk or snort coke.

This is a great non political playlist covering the issues women face. It's pretty dark shit.

Edit: I forgot my last point. Women are highly secretive. Not being sneaky or whatever but as I said above it's about avoiding rejection, shame or criticism . Usually it's hard for them to seperate a critism of behaviour from a critism of their entity as a person.


View: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLV0KZkVDyoOFsLut87G11ZfOcUK3yqEoc&si=fsx1k-r4Se2mZTAk
 
Everyone has more baggage as they get older, including men. And the men who make that argument about women only are usually the worst offenders. But like I mentioned previously I'm with a 22 year old angel. :p
This is the play. I'm with an amazing woman, she's fantastic. However if we were to split, I'd date in the 22-27 year old range. Wayyyy less baggage, I've got enough of my own
 
i have had incredible "luck" with women. granted i know i am lucky based on how my body is set up, my face is probably the most complimented thing about me, and I'm naturally extroverted.

how the fuck ever. while fat af and unemployed, i still had no issues.

i also have an unfair standard for the women im interested in. they were all good looking and sane women.

i FULLY understand the whole "some are dying of thirst while others drown" and that im objectively lucky etc etc. but 99% of these types of posts, attitudes, and dudes are just existing in a thick, bubbly ocean of disdain-fueled cope.

women are just dudes with vaginas and a brain that changes slightly every few weeks. same fucking setup every where else. treating them like anything else is going to put them off. they're biologically wired to sniff out bullshit and danger, and if there's even a small hint of that...you're out 9 times out of 10.

i promise there are MOSTLY good ones out there. yes outliers exist, but the chances that ALL of the ones youve run into are a part of that small group of genuine basket cases are equivalent to the chances of someone doing a single steroid cycle and being so satisfied they hop off forever.

"treating women like human beings is probably more useful than a hammer to orbital but I know that is asking for a lot"

-Slowww
 
I think the issue with women at the moment is the epidemic of mental health issues. I'm not saying men are in a better shape mentally.

I am also not saying women are mental either... But there is a mental health crisis amongst women and it drives a LOT of the bad behaviour.

My own experience of being absolutely sauced to the gills is it makes it impossible to think logically.

Also women gossip, chat and vent a lot with each other. However they take their real issues to the grave. That shit never comes out. So atleast with men you know they bury shit.... Women are seen as more open or emotionally intelligent. So the deep dark issues can be hidden better. Usually shame or a fear of rejection/humiliation drives the behaviour.

Last point. There is a LOT of drug abuse amoungst women. Usually men psychologically are not deterred by pain if there is a reward whereas women over compensate when something REDUCES pain. That's why there are so many women absolutely out of their minds on head meds, pain killers and addicted to food. Men just smoke meth, get blackout drunk or snort coke.

This is a great non political playlist covering the issues women face. It's pretty dark shit.

Edit: I forgot my last point. Women are highly secretive. Not being sneaky or whatever but as I said above it's about avoiding rejection, shame or criticism . Usually it's hard for them to seperate a critism of behaviour from a critism of their entity as a person.


View: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLV0KZkVDyoOFsLut87G11ZfOcUK3yqEoc&si=fsx1k-r4Se2mZTAk

Men have higher rates of drug and alcohol usage and men are four times more likely to commit suicide than women... so yeah, no.
 
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