Good experiences with women. Do they exist?

[trtbuilder]

I raised my 3 sons on my own. I didn't allow any woman to really take the place of mom step-mom whatever. I don't like to rely on anyone because it makes you complacent then they let you down. I do 95% of all the cooking, we do our own laundry and hers, she doesn't have to work anymore because I make a killing, and my boys are about to graduate high school the rest they are mostly self sufficient. Every once in a while she will run an errand for me and she does take care of our dogs. But other than that she just works out and gets her nails/hair done, massages, pussy waxed and tries to live her best life. She does have bad anxiety and it is hard for me to connect with that because I big dick everything and solve everything.

I respect the hustle but you kind of make yourself sound like an insane control freak... hard to have room for respecting anyone else's contributions when you forcefully do everything yourself.

 

[fike]

It took me 32 years, but I found a fucking spectacular specimen of a female and she LOVES Mr. Fike and I love her too. Shes absolutely gorgeous dude. 115 lbs at most with a smoking hot body, 34 DDs, 5’2”, tan as fuck with almost q black hair and big dark eyes (she’s Peruvian), she cooks, cleans, is a freak in bed and wants to do it WHENEVER I do. Shes an excellent mother to our children, she’s caring and thoughtful, hard working, funny as hell, tough as a man (she survived an abusive childhood and then continued that legacy by entering into a severely abusive relationship towards her and the kids for 10 years believing it was normal and she faced all those demons and got herself right with God and herself) and she is just such a remarkable woman, bro. I’m so so so grateful to have her as my wife and I’m infinitely proud of her for doing all the work on herself.

Yes, we fight and argue at times like every couple on earth, but we don’t go anywhere and we always make up, kiss, and have sex before we go to bed and talk calmly about whatever happened. I wouldn’t trade her for anybody in this world. The woman would kill for me and she is my partner in crime. I get a little emotional when I think about her like this because I love her so. bro. This type of love doesn’t come around often and I don’t think people find it a lot of times until they get a little older and have gathered some good, joyful, bad, and tragic experiences. We both knew suffering and we both embrace it so that drew us to each other.

Don’t give up or get frustrated, man. I just about gave up and she came into my life at the exact right time. Amor Fati. Keep an eye out for women you aren’t looking at on a phone or computer screen and just be yourself. Be who you are and be confident, but not cocky. Be a fucking sweetheart dude and look for a sweetheart, not an instagram queen.

Sorry for the book, but I want to tell you my experience, because I love my wife and she loves me and we are happy most of the time and we get through the times we aren’t with the help of each other. Keep your eyes open and have the discipline to make yourself go for it.

 

[RedXXSouth]

I respect the hustle but you kind of make yourself sound like an insane control freak... hard to have room for respecting anyone else's contributions when you forcefully do everything yourself.

Yeah kind of in aspects but I'm definitely not a controlling partner. My wife does as she pleases, I don't do jealousy or going through phones type of stuff. The philosophy I live by, built on the way my dad and grandpa raised me, dictates that you must do everything you are capable of. I don't put responsibility nor expectations on others so I don't get disappointed.
I do appreciate what my wife does but if I was reliant on her it would be difficult to lose her. Must accept all things as they are. This thread is making me second guess myself in one manner. I don't want to make someone else feel bad

 

[RedXXSouth]

It took me 32 years, but I found a fucking spectacular specimen of a female and she LOVES Mr. Fike and I love her too. Shes absolutely gorgeous dude. 115 lbs at most with a smoking hot body, 34 DDs, 5’2”, tan as fuck with almost q black hair and big dark eyes (she’s Peruvian), she cooks, cleans, is a freak in bed and wants to do it WHENEVER I do. Shes an excellent mother to our children, she’s caring and thoughtful, hard working, funny as hell, tough as a man (she survived an abusive childhood and then continued that legacy by entering into a severely abusive relationship towards her and the kids for 10 years believing it was normal and she faced all those demons and got herself right with God and herself) and she is just such a remarkable woman, bro. I’m so so so grateful to have her as my wife and I’m infinitely proud of her for doing all the work on herself.

Yes, we fight and argue at times like every couple on earth, but we don’t go anywhere and we always make up, kiss, and have sex before we go to bed and talk calmly about whatever happened. I wouldn’t trade her for anybody in this world. The woman would kill for me and she is my partner in crime. I get a little emotional when I think about her like this because I love her so. bro. This type of love doesn’t come around often and I don’t think people find it a lot of times until they get a little older and have gathered some good, joyful, bad, and tragic experiences. We both knew suffering and we both embrace it so that drew us to each other.

Don’t give up or get frustrated, man. I just about gave up and she came into my life at the exact right time. Amor Fati. Keep an eye out for women you aren’t looking at on a phone or computer screen and just be yourself. Be who you are and be confident, but not cocky. Be a fucking sweetheart dude and look for a sweetheart, not an instagram queen.

Sorry for the book, but I want to tell you my experience, because I love my wife and she loves me and we are happy most of the time and we get through the times we aren’t with the help of each other. Keep your eyes open and have the discipline to make yourself go for it.

That's very cool man. Don't apologize for nothing. Everyone took it as I was kinda bashing women or that I personally have a bad relationship. I don't, I don't quite have what you are describing because I have become a little more apathetic. I had it before though, we both messed it up. Me as much as her. I'm happy with my wife. She is deeply in love with me and a better person than the one I loved like that. I changed what I saw i did wrong.
I hope everyone is right.

 

[rokkrul3r]

Some of us are just cursed, luck is a normal distribution like anything else, so it's expected.

My last experience I decided to take it easy, not fuck in the first date, take it easy to see if it was worth. In the end bitch tells me her exbf is returning from another country and she wants to be with him...

So yeah, just keep living life the way you want. There's nothing you can actually do to have what other people have, it's better to just do what you please and let the chips fall where they may.

 

[juicebro]

I think it has more to do with the kind of guy you are yourself. Some guys always get cheated on. Some guys always get cheated with. Same woman two completely different experiences. That woman could be loyal to the right guy but doesn't think twice about cheating on you because your game sucks or you are just not valuable enough to her.

 

[ハカク]

Nowadays it looks like they have become even worse.

you can blame social media for this. idc what anyone says, most of these girls now a days are not worth it, especially when it comes to marriage and having kids.

imho, marriage is a joke, it’s no different from dating, tax benefits and the possibility of losing half your shit or dealing with divorce (lawyers etc) even with a prenup, it’s not worth it.

and having a family isn’t worth it either because people who have kids are miserable deep down for some fucking reason and they end up splitting up, you see it on social media all the time, especially reddit.

 

[Myrongainesworth]

My wife is amazing. I don't deserve her. My last ex was an amazing woman and she'll make a great partner for the right guy. My first relationship was really bad and instead of projecting that onto all women I set better standards for myself.

I don't fuck women who don't have careers and/or ambition. I dont care if she's a social worker making 30k or a lawyer making 300k as long as she's passionate about it. That rule has never done me wrong. Almost everyone I met when I was single was a winner it was just about goals and personalities aligning from there.

 

[WeightLossBurn]

The problem is you. And I don't mean that in a bad way. Because when I realized the problem was me, things started getting better for me. The way you treat people will reflect the way they treat you. That's why I enjoyed reading UncleBuns comment. By reading it you can tell he's humble and recognizes when he's wrong. And in doing so his relationship is good.

 

[RedXXSouth]

The problem is you. And I don't mean that in a bad way. Because when I realized the problem was me, things started getting better for me. The way you treat people will reflect the way they treat you. That's why I enjoyed reading UncleBuns comment. By reading it you can tell he's humble and recognizes when he's wrong. And in doing so his relationship is good.

I had to go back and read it again. So, most people skimmed over the fact that I am in a good relationship, I just don't expect anything to last. I have thought about it quite a bit since I made the post. A few people did make some good points, especially a women being a reflection of the way you make them feel. That makes sense. But the more I thought about it the more I realized that many of these responses just haven't been broken enough yet or got to this place. Give it time. Society has warped women and their perspective on men. The bear thing really illustrates this. Delusions abound. Men are trying to find their way in that either by pushing back with rationale or by succumbing to the disingenuous nature of woman hood itself. If you take a stoic view of all of these things, women have to base their reality in dishonesty just to survive in society. All of it is based on good times and how far technology has brought us. But the moment that blips out, no more internet, then all of that comes crashing down. I'm just paraphrasing my own thoughts because there are a lot of arguments no one is ready for if they are locked into the system, the internet, society, or ideologies.

 

[Myrongainesworth]

I had to go back and read it again. So, most people skimmed over the fact that I am in a good relationship, I just don't expect anything to last. I have thought about it quite a bit since I made the post. A few people did make some good points, especially a women being a reflection of the way you make them feel. That makes sense. But the more I thought about it the more I realized that many of these responses just haven't been broken enough yet or got to this place. Give it time. Society has warped women and their perspective on men. The bear thing really illustrates this. Delusions abound. Men are trying to find their way in that either by pushing back with rationale or by succumbing to the disingenuous nature of woman hood itself. If you take a stoic view of all of these things, women have to base their reality in dishonesty just to survive in society. All of it is based on good times and how far technology has brought us. But the moment that blips out, no more internet, then all of that comes crashing down. I'm just paraphrasing my own thoughts because there are a lot of arguments no one is ready for if they are locked into the system, the internet, society, or ideologies.

It doesn't sound like you are in a good relationship from the whole "i don't expect it to work out. All women are awful" part. Everything else you're typing reads like an incel mass shooters 4chan post. Either that or you're fighting an inner hunger for cock?

 

[RedXXSouth]

It doesn't sound like you are in a good relationship from the whole "i don't expect it to work out. All women are awful" part. Everything else you're typing reads like an incel mass shooters 4chan post. Either that or you're fighting an inner hunger for cock?

I can explain it concisely with irrefutable logic and truth. But you only know how to uphold the system that controls you. Judgment and ego don't really affect me much. It does read very similar to that, but some things are true no matter how much they would hurt your feelings or negate the view of the world you have been forced to take on. Doesn't really matter either way, just a topic I was curious about.

 

[Spideog]

Maybe my perspectives is skewed or I just need to meet more people. But in all my life I have never had a consistently good experience with women. I dont want to be a misogynist but it sure seems like facts support that perspective.
I have never been cheated on but trying to help, love, save, or just be friends with a woman has always been the catalyst for my life falling apart.
Nowadays it looks like they have become even worse. I have as good a wife as you can get and I still don't see it lasting. I have never met a single woman that didn't tell me how their ex was a narcissist. Never met a single woman that didn't cheat, lie, manipulate, and be fake asf. So post your good experiences and I will tell you how it is all gonna fall apart lol.

Personality beats hotness. Can’t make smoke without fire.

 

[TopDawg]

I'm in my late 30s and have been with the same woman since 22 years (and I'm super happy, lol). I basically have no experience with other women, and why would I need to? Her sister, on the other hand... is the complete opposite. Annoying, pushy, just plain awful, haha.

 

[Sector]

My experiences lately have been piss poor

The 3 most recent chicks:

-First chick was literally psychotic (but the sex was fire), bur she was playing multiple dudes, telling all the guys the same thing (and we found out and they actually messages me with screenshot showing she was sending the same nudes to everyone, telling everyone how perfect they were, even going as far as to saying "I love you" to multiple people), pure manipulation. I wasn't emotionally invested, was just in it for the fire sex because of all the red flags, but it was still disappointing

-Second girl tells me she was divorced last year, wants a relationship, eventually kids, we date for a little bit, sleepovers, sex, etc. Things are going really well, I actually genuinely like this chick. She's ambitious, smart, has a good career, things seem to be going well. Find out she's still actually married, and even worse, her husband is a cop. Exited that fast. Was emotionally invested too, so that really sucked a bit

-third girl -- were still kind of new to dating, same story of saying they want a relationship, showing interest, but still seeking attention from multiple dudes and having sex with multiple people and all that bulls**t

So done with these dating apps man. These girls just want to have sex with multiple dudes, nobody wants to settle down, chicks with husband's sleeping around lying about it. I'm just so f***ING done with people

I guess I just need to play the game and just start fu***ING anything that moves while claiming I want something serious. That seems to be the new standard of dating

/rant

 

[jJjburton]

I think it has more to do with the kind of guy you are yourself. Some guys always get cheated on. Some guys always get cheated with. Same woman two completely different experiences. That woman could be loyal to the right guy but doesn't think twice about cheating on you because your game sucks or you are just not valuable enough to her.

But that woman should morally end what they are in first. Or man. Not go behind the persons back and lie. So it kind of just makes them crappy or make crappy choices. There is no reason to cheat. End what you have first then go do what you want. This is men or women.

 

[laclark89]

I've been with my wife 16 years. Had lots of girlfriends prior. I have never had a bad experience with a woman, most problems arguments are or were 9/10 my fault just me being a asshole or dumbass.

A good woman is truly a gift from above.

 

[RaddishPork]

The harder you try, the less you will succeed. Women can smell desperation. They don’t want to be seen as a “potential partner,” they want to be seen as a human being just like you. Times have changed and a lot of younger women don’t want a man to be their leader, they want a life partner who is an equal. Then down they road they usually submit and realize they don’t wanna be the boss of a household working 50 hours a week forever.

My relationship was garbage for the last 2 years. We finalized the divorce a little over a month ago. I lost my job, and then I lost my family and basically everything I had to my name. And I am having more success with women now than I have in the last 5 years. I’ve stopped setting expectations and go with the flow. I am the real life meme about a bummy guy who somehow gets more luck than the 6 figure Chad.

There are pros and cons to every type of girl. You can’t say you want wifey material and expect her to be a freak in the sheets. And you can’t fuck a girl on the first night and get upset because she wasn’t the innocent sweetheart you were looking for.

The internet has really fucked up dating because of how fast we can move now. We used to spend weeks or months getting to know someone as friends and then we’d decide if we’re compatible or not. Now we just message them online and we’re fucking within 48 hours. Living together within a month. It’s all too fast now.

 

[lukiss96]

I think in reality everyone gets roller coaster experience with women. Sometimes it's luck, sometimes it's all good and sometimes it just straight up sucks and you need to take a break. I doubt anyone who brags they have it all perfectly with women are saying the truth, sounds to me like their ego is fragile and they can't admit and man up about the rejection they got. Life is just like that.

 

[skinnyfatboy]

Maybe my perspectives is skewed or I just need to meet more people. But in all my life I have never had a consistently good experience with women. I dont want to be a misogynist but it sure seems like facts support that perspective.
I have never been cheated on but trying to help, love, save, or just be friends with a woman has always been the catalyst for my life falling apart.
Nowadays it looks like they have become even worse. I have as good a wife as you can get and I still don't see it lasting. I have never met a single woman that didn't tell me how their ex was a narcissist. Never met a single woman that didn't cheat, lie, manipulate, and be fake asf. So post your good experiences and I will tell you how it is all gonna fall apart lol.

There's nothing consistent in life except death and taxes my dude.
There is plenty of good women out there it just takes time to find em, sounds like your watching to many MGTOW videos showcasing the worst women in society.