Any1 else pay child support?

I Feel For You Guys, I Really Do..... I Must Be Shootin Blanks Or All The Women Are On Some Good Shit!!!! But Here You Go, I'm Sure You All Will Appreciate This.......
 
Sorry to hear these horror stories. The worst are the bitches that don't give the money to the kids. If u have one like that u might as well spend the money on a lawyer and sue for custody. Sucks that most of these laws are so outdated. They are still geared towards the stay at home mom even though it is easier for a woman to get a good job. Really sucks
 
tommy w. said:
i am a construction worker
we do shut downs at plants every couple of months
we work 7days 14-18 hours a day for one maybe two weeks
her lawyer used that
the judge inturn after i explained how that worked said
"i have the potential to make more money"
what do they want me to do pull the jobs out of my ass
so i am screwed
mich is the worst state for men and child support
Amen bro!! Michigan sucks... My ex.pulled me in front of the judge for 3 months no support due to the fact my job was dissolved due to 9-11. The bitch judge said I should have got a job quicker($2900.00 today or jail) I pulled out my wallet and said charge it and tossed her the card. That got me a weekend in county. She can HUG MY NUTS!!
 
Bob Smith said:
Not at all. The women usually try to totally f*ck up the guys life, even if he was a good guy and good father. The system is HEAVILY biased towards the women.

Maybe this is one instance where we should move towards a Middle Eastern system. If the wife wants a divorce, she gets stoned to death instead. ;)


My neighbours wife ran off with a younger man - a gypsy who is a small time criminal. She has broken into his house, garage and yard many times, each time claiming she is entitled to everything, the police used to be roundevery couple of weeks and I had to keep an eye for her and call his cellphone if she showed up. The guy also had a Range Rover a pretty expensive car and she took that and sold it. She had a breakdown after post natal depression and is truly nuts now. He has 3 all lads from 5-10 and who drive motorcross and she was trying to get a hold of the bikes too. The judges are hardly doing a thing
 
Bob Smith said:
Not at all. The women usually try to totally f*ck up the guys life, even if he was a good guy and good father. The system is HEAVILY biased towards the women.

Maybe this is one instance where we should move towards a Middle Eastern system. If the wife wants a divorce, she gets stoned to death instead. ;)


The courts lean towards the parent that is the care taker of the kid/s. Its usually the women however if a man is the one takeing care of the kid/s. Than the woman now is the one paying child support.
In reality most men do not want to be the primary care taker or just cant. The courts arent out to reward women or punish men. They want to make sure the kid/s are financially taken care of. The problem lies in the fact that a lot of men feel that the child support they are paying is also being used by their kid/s mother on herself rather than what its intended for.
My brother in law is a lawyer in Florida he used to do just divorces.Biggest child support case he ever had was a woman who owned 2 hotels with her dad.
She got divorced ex-husband got custody of the daughter because she worked long days and a monster of a child support. The man hit the lottery and is a stay at home dad now with a monthly child support that allows him to live like a king in a nice house,car,etc.
Darter
 
For some reason I have a hard time working up much sympathy for men who are held accountable for paying for their OWN children. I don't know, I must be a heartless bastard. For some reason, I think that people should be responsible for paying for their OWN children.
 
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yha i support my daughter also.Pay about 580 month,in canada,laws are fucked here to.Talked to a lawyer about stop paying cause she wants to move out.She tells me we can cancell it but if she goes back home youll be paying a jump of 200 bucks a month fuck!!!i said.Now i ask the lawyer if your x wins the lottery,you still have to pay her the same amount she says yes!!!I said shit if a guy is paying 2 or 3 kids and walks around with bumb clothes and nothing to eat,she wins the lottery and you still owe the same,and hes in the poor house!!And a while back i got at tax time a refund for support,now the goverment stoped that a few years back,fuck i was getting a couple of grand back which was nice.My thoughts to you is if your married with young kids its not worth the agony of support,stay with the cunt till there older.The system will bring us men down.
 
This is true, Rod. However, most times the money is used for that dumb bitch to buy a car or pay her mortgage or whatever. I dated a girl/lady who had 2 kids. She received ZERO child support and yet the kids were taken care of just fine. Sure, they probably could have had more, but she did alright with the money she was making. She even had a new car and a decent apartment.
 
I don't care if the mother can do well on her own without child support, I still think that the father should contribute something to the care of his own children (as meager as it may be).
 
I can agree with that. But, it should be somewhat left up to his discretion. The kids need new clothes? Hey, son, let's go shopping.

It shouldn't be let me mail away 400 bucks to that ho who will turn it into party money.

I don't know how to make the system work fairly, but, as it stands, it's a bunch of bullshit.

Let's look at one of it's failures. The formerly mentioned girl/lady was divorced. Her ex started working as a tow truck driver. Tow guys get paid bullshit hourly wages, but they make plenty of money raping stranded motorists in the form of cash. So, he came to court showing some bullshit 200 dollar check.

Well, the court said he then owed 40 bucks a month or some bullshit like that when he was really pulling in 800 a week.

See? It's bullshit no matter how you slice the system.
 
Grizzly said:
I can agree with that. But, it should be somewhat left up to his discretion. The kids need new clothes? Hey, son, let's go shopping.

It shouldn't be let me mail away 400 bucks to that ho who will turn it into party money.

I don't know how to make the system work fairly, but, as it stands, it's a bunch of bullshit.

Let's look at one of it's failures. The formerly mentioned girl/lady was divorced. Her ex started working as a tow truck driver. Tow guys get paid bullshit hourly wages, but they make plenty of money raping stranded motorists in the form of cash. So, he came to court showing some bullshit 200 dollar check.

Well, the court said he then owed 40 bucks a month or some bullshit like that when he was really pulling in 800 a week.

See? It's bullshit no matter how you slice the system.
Fast food I would bang the lady in the picture you posted, no wonder she has 3 kids and one on the way! and she is a hard core smoker too. Think of the guys who pay all that child support and can not even see there child because the ex is a fucking bitch. That is how it was with me! but I went to court many times about that and things got better. listen if you are a lady reading this and are getting child support dont fuck with the guy! he's paying you so let him see his kid!
 
Rod said:
For some reason I have a hard time working up much sympathy for men who are held accountable for paying for their OWN children. I don't know, I must be a heartless bastard. For some reason, I think that people should be responsible for paying for their OWN children.


Although I do not have children and dont have to pay for shit, I do have to say that sometimes people make mistakes Rod. Guys don't plan on hooking up with crazy bitches, they let them fuck a few times, get hitched or not (it doesnt matter) then lie sometimes too and say they are on birth control, whatever! They start off normal and sweet and all that shit, then their real, hidden personalities come out and they are crazier than michael jackson being straight, or rambo in loose jeans! ;) My uncle has kids and he has them probably 26 days out of the month and he still pays a butt load. Where is the fairness in that? Just cause his salary is more than hers??? She married a real estate agent who pulls in no less than 200 K a year, and he has a house payment, grocerys, and everything else for those kids. Then when his ex wife gives those kids a christmas to die for, he has to try to compete with his own self basically cause the child support goes straight to presents. Is it heartless that he doesnt want to pay anything for them? I dont think so. Women can be some real annoying bitches sometimes! Hence most recieve a thumb in the bum from time to time!

~~Master Thumbs~~
 
"I do have to say that sometimes people make mistakes Rod."

Yes, I agree that people sometimes do make mistakes. But even the "mistakes" have to eat. The fact is that children require real resources even if one of the parents denies responsibility for that childs existence.

Every asshole that I have ever heard bitch about paying child support says the same thing: The mother is always a crazy slut. She purposely got impregnated only stick it too the poor innocent father . The sluty mother is always living the high life on the coin of the poor innocent father. Blah, blah, blah.
 
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Green Darter said:
The courts lean towards the parent that is the care taker of the kid/s. Its usually the women however if a man is the one takeing care of the kid/s. Than the woman now is the one paying child support.
In reality most men do not want to be the primary care taker or just cant.


Bullshit....the courts lean toward the women, at least in my state. When I was married to my ex-wife I got our son up in the morning...fed him breakfast...took him to daycare...picked him up from daycare...fed him dinner....bathed him and put him to bed at night. She only worked 16 hours a week, but didn't want to have the burden of caring for a child while she was busy shopping or watching soap opera's or whatever she was doing. She also went out partying with friends 3-4 nights per week while I stayed home and took care of my son and stepdaughter.
When she was caught having an affair she decided that she wanted a divorce. I was without a doubt the primary caregiver of our son as well as her daughter. Obviously I was not going to get custody of her daughter because I was not her biological father.
The judge ruled in her favor because according to him she was obviously the primary caregiver ( despite the evidence and witnesses pointing to the contrary ) if she was only working 16 hours per week and that there was no way that he was going to seperate children.

From what I've been told by my congressman the judges look at what will cost the state the least amount of money. If they had given me custody of my son my ex would have most likely went on welfare. To alleviate this they awarded her custody and made sure that I pay as much child support as possible.

I am grateful for one thing. I was awarded very extensive visitation. I have my son overnight almost half of the year, but the fact is... I proved that I was the primary caregiver while we were together. I should have custody of my son.

As far as your comment about most men not wanting custody of their kids...some men don't want it, some women don't want it. The fact of the matter is that the courts allow the women to force men out of their children's lives. If a man tries to fight for his rights it just costs him a lot of money and the judge will tell the women not to do that anymore. When it happens again the man gets to spend a ton of money and the judge just tells her the same thing again....they will never do anything to help the man out unless he can prove that the women is completely unfit as a parent.
 
Rod said:
Every asshole that I have ever heard bitch about paying child support says the same thing: The mother is always a crazy slut. She purposely got impregnated only stick it too the poor innocent father . The sluty mother is always living the high life on the coin of the poor innocent father. Blah, blah, blah.


I was very close to the same situation as Alpineslide. Rod you may not have had the pleasure of a crazy bitch yet but I think we all get them eventually. As for your comment about them getting pregnant on purpose, my ex admitted it to my mother while we were at my grandmothers funeral. I spent over $10K on my divorce, only asking for custody of kids. Her own mother said the kids should be with me. My son can't stand his mother. I haven't heard him cry since he was a baby until last weekend when he called saying, "Dad there is too much going on in my life right now, please get me out of here. I don't know how much more of this I can take. Please make her let me come live with you." Try swallowing that when your son is only 10 years old and there is not a DAMN thing you can do about it. She lives with another guy and unless I buy my son clothes, she sends him out in some ragged hand-me-downs that are from her live-in boyfriend's son, yet she rides around in a new Navigator. So now you tell me where the Child Support goes.
 
it is all bullshit and definitely geared towards women. Our fathers used to support all the kids and wife on his own. Don't tell me it is that hard for a lady to support the kid if she wants custody so bad. Alot of the time the woman doesn't care about custody but is more concerned w/ how others will look at her for not having the kids. Fucking single mothers are a huge problem with kids today. They can't handle them. Until you are in the situation your comments dont mean shit
 
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