Band shirts. Yea or nah for men in 40s?

[bjjgear]

But, if you want to get laid... dress accordingly.

Can't put everyone under the same tent bro. But, this is where I don't give an F what people think. You can think I have CC debt all day if it makes you feel better.

Here I kind of agree. But, that guy working 60 hours may find that challenging and rewarding, right? He might not be blowing his boss all day, but blowing away his opp... and enjoying it. Why do we keep going to the gym, diet, and put the time to learn more?

Some people love their job, some people love the gym, some people love grunge-ass rocker shirts. I say do what you want. Just keep in mind the poon factor.

We are generally in agreement on these points. Clearly this all shifts a little bit with where we stand in our lives. I'm semi-retired in my 40's with a family so the poon factor is a solved problem (more or less ). I've been through a fashion phase of my own and have a closet full of fancy clothes, shoes and watches I never wear anymore. That stuff used to feel important, and maybe it was at the time.