Being a Man and the Temptation temptress

[Big_paul]

Is seem like every where you go these days ass is in you face. In the Gym, IG Facebook. TV ads. It's seem now that I'm older that it just falls on my lap and I have to sorry Girl Im married. Is it because I'm married? maybe better looking or is it just that dam easy these days? It seems to such a hard struggle not to be tempted to cross that line.I never have but when it falls in your lap How do you guys that are married deal with that struggle?

Stay with the ass that cares about you. The hard part is knowing if she cares. I take care of number one and that is me. She has to prove to me she is worth caring about.

 

[mt666rm]

Try to get your wife to pick up some chicks for both of you. It may take years of manipulation but eventually she might come around to the idea.

As "dear penthouse" of a moment that would be, I dont have the sexual competency to please more than one woman at a time. I wish it was not the case. I can do a good job with my wife, and thats it. Good on you guys that can handle more

My wife always says she wants to see me try to pick up another girl so she can film it and watch it whenever she needs a good laugh. Id totally crash and burn!

 

[Sk8man101]

As "dear penthouse" of a moment that would be, I dont have the sexual competency to please more than one woman at a time. I wish it was not the case. I can do a good job with my wife, and thats it. Good on you guys that can handle more

My wife always says she wants to see me try to pick up another girl so she can film it and watch it whenever she needs a good laugh. Id totally crash and burn!

Get your shit together man!
If not for you, do it for us!

And take lots of pictures, Ok lets see your ladies!!!

 

[Wes G]

Yes pictures !! Lol

 

[mt666rm]

When it happens it will be well documented. Its gonna take a lot Tequila and Tren for it to happen though...

I wish i could post pics of her here, but she'd kill me. Picture this: she's an X-Olympian asian amputee below the knee on one leg, so she has the carbon blade leg, among others, and hotter than hell!

I have no f-ing clue how i landed her, seriously...

 

[Wes G]

Ikr !!! I feel same sometimes lol I will look at the wife and think really ?? She could do so much better lol then i take her in the bed room and thank her proper !!

 

[MaxVolume]

Is seem like every where you go these days ass is in you face. In the Gym, IG Facebook. TV ads. It's seem now that I'm older that it just falls on my lap and I have to sorry Girl Im married. Is it because I'm married? maybe better looking or is it just that dam easy these days? It seems to such a hard struggle not to be tempted to cross that line.I never have but when it falls in your lap How do you guys that are married deal with that struggle?

It's everywhere and can be that easy. And social media is a death knell for marriage (and committed relationships). Trust me, I know from experience, although I've never actually been married.

 

[manafest]

It's everywhere and can be that easy. And social media is a death knell for marriage (and committed relationships). Trust me, I know from experience, although I've never actually been married.

My advice is don't get married if you feel you will end up cheating.(go with instinct you can tell if you're ready).I cheated quite alot before i was married but justified it by saying o well im not commited..Then along came this girl who i thought changed me but few years down the road i realized i had Not changed at all and slept with a friend of hers that couldn't wait to throw it at her no less..Even then i tried to justify things so i didnt feel as bad..The worst i've felt was when quite a few of her friends had told me many many times she has made comments about if we lost everything we had nothing i would be happy to follow him to a cardboard box...

 

[penche]

Thank you. you defintly understand what I'm trying to talk about
. Its not that ever would(But I would like it to be most avoided that it never happens or put in a situation that it does come close). But I try my best to avoid it ever happening in the first place. and yes i tend to be too nice which can send off wrong messages. I defintly agree with your advice focus avoid, and let my wife know if i feel uncomfortable in a situation. Thank you so much.
It also puts me at ease that it's ok for some one else's to be attactive. And that's fine to think that but that's it! I believe that is some of the root of this this guilt I have that you can find some one else attactive other than you partner. BUT IT SHOULD STOP THERE.
I appreciate your response and really understanding what I was talking about mind wise. Thank you

Its difficult especially if you're a nice talkative guy. Best thing is too cut it short and don't cross that bridge. Once you cross it and that conscience starts to dwindle, it's game over. Game over meaning, you'll be knee deep in some strange vagina. Wish you the best be safe.

 

[Nutz4butts]

Before I started my first cycle I would get unwanted attention from women in the gym very rarely. About 3 cycles in now and my god it's non stop women coming up to me in the gym hitting on me/asking for advice. The funny part is my wife trains with me about 90% of the time so most of the time she is there when it happens. She has told a few of them to fuck off and I can't help but laugh. I love my wife and kids and would never do anything to hurt them. At the same time what in the fuck is wrong with women these days? Anyone can clearly tell my wife and I are a couple at the gym or anywhere else for that matter and they don't care.

 

[Beano223]

Dbol makes me way Hornier then I expected. I catch myself thinking about fuckin the shit out of random chicks to the point I have to wack it but that's as close to cheating as I'll get. The wife lets me get it when I need it so I'm good there

 

[heady muscle]

Is seem like every where you go these days ass is in you face. In the Gym, IG Facebook. TV ads. It's seem now that I'm older that it just falls on my lap and I have to sorry Girl Im married. Is it because I'm married? maybe better looking or is it just that dam easy these days? It seems to such a hard struggle not to be tempted to cross that line.I never have but when it falls in your lap How do you guys that are married deal with that struggle?

I always crave the strange, especially during these warm summer days. It is always tempting to cross the line and it always will be that way. I don't think humans like many other mammals are supposed to stay with the same partner for life. It's unnatural. But I've been with the same woman for twenty years.

 

[HIGHRISK]

There's many ways to look at it I guess. But damn we get one chance at this game called life. It takes a special person"s" to stay committed to one partner for your adult life so that is a true feat in itself. On the other hand you do only get chance why not try everything on the buffet? I'm still confused after 20 yrs with my wife.

 

[John Daley]

At 26 years old, I admit I can not resist temptation.. admittedly by the way a lot of guys talk on this forum, I assume there are more than a few older than me, so I suppose this is aimed at the younger guys maybe 35 and less..?

2 years ago I cheated for the 1st time, I simply don't want to resist temptation, why would I resist? It is a primitive instinct that I dont believe should be denied. I dont want to break another heart, so I deleted the problem..and chose to live the life of someone who can do what he wants, when he wants. I am single and I think I will be for a very long time, probably forever.

Lucky for me I do not have kids, been accidentally close.. not proud of it.

I don't believe in love, I believe that you meet someone your very compatible with, but then there will always be someone one day that you meet who is even more compatible.

Some think I am a pessimist, others see life how I am (I know only a handful who are on my wavelength).

Easy way around this aspect of life (If you are single currently), just find like minded women who have the same thoughts as you in terms of commitment.

All the benefits (Sex, Hugs at night, Cooking together & whatever else a relationship consists of), but at the end of the day, you can send her home... go for a piss up with the boys and drown in whatever Pussy you fancy with no hard feelings!

 

[PIZZABOY]

Women are attracted to the forbidden fruit, the allure of fantasy, revenge, or whatever silly notion in their mind. Have you seen some of the dirtbags out there? There are more women than nice guys. Of course they want you. Be smart. I would tap that shit.and keep my mouth shut

 

[johntt44]

Women are attracted to the forbidden fruit, the allure of fantasy, revenge, or whatever silly notion in their mind. Have you seen some of the dirtbags out there? There are more women than nice guys. Of course they want you. Be smart. I would tap that shit.and keep my mouth shut

Not all women like bad boys. I'm an easy going, nice person. I've told big tattooed guys to fuck off and didn't hear a peep back. You're not a bad boy if you back down, you're a poser with an attitude. A lot of military guys on here are bad asses but not bad boys.

 

[PIZZABOY]

Not all women like bad boys. I'm an easy going, nice person. I've told big tattooed guys to fuck off and didn't hear a peep back. You're not a bad boy if you back down, you're a poser with an attitude. A lot of military guys on here are bad asses but not bad boys.

What i meant was most women are attracted to maturity, and guys that have their head on straight. Money sure doesnt hurt.