Breaking Up...

[guyzcool]

I recently (like Sunday the 11th) broke up with my long term girlfriend. We had been dating for a year and 9 months, its the longest relationship I had ever had! The thing was, with the start of this semester (3 months ago), I started a new job. I was training 64 hours a week and taking a full class load. I was in school from 8am-3pm, sleeping from 3pm-10pm, and working from 11am-7am. That was my entire life. Had time for MAYBE one 1 hour workout a day. And at the start me and my girl started growing apart. She goes to school for nursing, this is a different school than I am going to. I am going to school as pre-med hoping to make it as a DR. and eventually a surgeon. Well, as time went on I started growing apart, not being able to see her.. and fuck her brains out . It took its toll on me. I talked to her about 3 weeks ago about how I was feeling, it ended with her crying and begging me to stay. I caved like the pussy I was. Then about a week later I was feeling the same way... So I talked to her again, this time breaking up with her. I feel as though I did it as humanely as possible. I had only been in one previous relationship. I thought I would give everyone a heads up, these are the reasons (work/school/life), why I became very inactive. Hopefully I will be around more now

 

[DedLift]

I recently (like Sunday the 11th) broke up with my long term girlfriend. We had been dating for a year and 9 months, its the longest relationship I had ever had! The thing was, with the start of this semester (3 months ago), I started a new job. I was training 64 hours a week and taking a full class load. I was in school from 8am-3pm, sleeping from 3pm-10pm, and working from 11am-7am. That was my entire life. Had time for MAYBE one 1 hour workout a day. And at the start me and my girl started growing apart. She goes to school for nursing, this is a different school than I am going to. I am going to school as pre-med hoping to make it as a DR. and eventually a surgeon. Well, as time went on I started growing apart, not being able to see her.. and fuck her brains out . It took its toll on me. I talked to her about 3 weeks ago about how I was feeling, it ended with her crying and begging me to stay. I caved like the pussy I was. Then about a week later I was feeling the same way... So I talked to her again, this time breaking up with her. I feel as though I did it as humanely as possible. I had only been in one previous relationship. I thought I would give everyone a heads up, these are the reasons (work/school/life), why I became very inactive. Hopefully I will be around more now

Life happens brother. I've been on hiatus as well. Any idea how crazy difficult and expensive PA makes it to build a house? Well, there's a reason not many even try. I've paid over 7,000$ cash so far just for permits and other specialists like septic engineer, perk test, lot division and many more who just want to dive into my pocketbook and make themselves at home. I still have to buy the building permit before my contractor can start. Another $1000. Makes me want to choke out whoever is responsible for all the red tape.

 

[guyzcool]

Life happens brother. I've been on hiatus as well. Any idea how crazy difficult and expensive PA makes it to build a house? Well, there's a reason not many even try. I've paid over 7,000$ cash so far just for permits and other specialists like septic engineer, perk test, lot division and many more who just want to dive into my pocketbook and make themselves at home. I still have to buy the building permit before my contractor can start. Another $1000. Makes me want to choke out whoever is responsible for all the red tape.

Fuck all this shit! I need a heavy dosage of freedom. It's final weeks right now, I'm not too stressed but I am going to the range on Thursday with some Tannerite!

 

[Ozzy619]

I recently (like Sunday the 11th) broke up with my long term girlfriend. We had been dating for a year and 9 months, its the longest relationship I had ever had! The thing was, with the start of this semester (3 months ago), I started a new job. I was training 64 hours a week and taking a full class load. I was in school from 8am-3pm, sleeping from 3pm-10pm, and working from 11am-7am. That was my entire life. Had time for MAYBE one 1 hour workout a day. And at the start me and my girl started growing apart. She goes to school for nursing, this is a different school than I am going to. I am going to school as pre-med hoping to make it as a DR. and eventually a surgeon. Well, as time went on I started growing apart, not being able to see her.. and fuck her brains out . It took its toll on me. I talked to her about 3 weeks ago about how I was feeling, it ended with her crying and begging me to stay. I caved like the pussy I was. Then about a week later I was feeling the same way... So I talked to her again, this time breaking up with her. I feel as though I did it as humanely as possible. I had only been in one previous relationship. I thought I would give everyone a heads up, these are the reasons (work/school/life), why I became very inactive. Hopefully I will be around more now

Girls come and go. Handle your business while you're young and have the ability to. I didn't settle till I was over 30 and owned my home and cars out right. While you're in school it's all about fwb.

 

[ickyrica]

Life happens brother. I've been on hiatus as well. Any idea how crazy difficult and expensive PA makes it to build a house? Well, there's a reason not many even try. I've paid over 7,000$ cash so far just for permits and other specialists like septic engineer, perk test, lot division and many more who just want to dive into my pocketbook and make themselves at home. I still have to buy the building permit before my contractor can start. Another $1000. Makes me want to choke out whoever is responsible for all the red tape.

same process for me right now. it's like an open vien squirting cash. fml!! lol.

 

[Big_paul]

You did what you felt was best. I think you are right. You will not have the time to invest in a relationship for a few more years. You did her a favor. She will find someone who has the time to spend with her. You both have a full plate, and now isn't the time to become involved in a long term relationship.

In 6 months you will be a distant memory and she will have moved on, and you will continue working on the future you want for yourself.

 

[Boston1977]

Keep your chin up bro, you have your whole life to worry about chicks, focus on you and your goals. Like @Big_paul said you both have full plates, your way to young to be bringing yourself down over shit like this. Get the education, then get the job, then the money and the girls will continue to come.

 

[Sk8man101]

Breakups always suck man.
Just keep lifting and hustling your dream job.