Whichever guy who has a better lifestyle/gives image of more money.
A lot of younger women *think* they want the feminine guy. He's non-threatening, they've been conditioned to prefer feminine men. Once they get a taste of masculinity, not abusive, just strong, confident, assertive, protective, provides, if they ever end up back with the indecisive soft spoken wuss, she'll always hold him in contempt, and he'll always know he's settling for some man's leftovers. In those relationships her voice drops an octave because she becomes her own strong man.