Cheating

[Bob Smith]

but from the college girls I know...cheating isnt about needs being met, it is about being a fucking slut...
[MK]

That accurately describes about 90% of the girls I went to college with. And youd think it might be better at a private Catholic college (Im not Cath.) as compared to a state or secular school. It wasnt. Hundreds of dirty whores just waiting to be picked up every night from Wednesday to Saturday.

 

[da game]

Listen, I cheat for one reason and one reason only. Its the thrill and excitement of banging a lot of beautiful women. Don't get me wrong, I feel guilty that I cheat on my wife. Its real hard for men to turn down a beautiful peace of ass. I guess another reson guys cheat is an ego thing, not to mention if you're in the middle of a cycle. I know I'm going to get criticized for this, but I'm just being honest.

 

[Southernjuice]

Shit, we totally hijacked TNH's thread guys...

Lets remember why we are here, sorry TNH...

[MK]

P.S. My GF is mad I didnt include her in my trust list, but hey, "trust is earned, not given."

Oh yeah right , back to that....there are women that will love you for the rest of your life and never look at another man bro. It's not about right or wrong and has nothing to do with morals. It's about both of you giving each other 100%. Satisfy each other completly in every way, learn to give to recieve...there are alot of very special women out there. Keep your heart open and they will find you....don't give up. PEACE

 

[Southernjuice]

Listen, I cheat for one reason and one reason only. Its the thrill and excitement of banging a lot of beautiful women. Don't get me wrong, I feel guilty that I cheat on my wife. Its real hard for men to turn down a beautiful peace of ass. I guess another reson guys cheat is an ego thing, not to mention if you're in the middle of a cycle. I know I'm going to get criticized for this, but I'm just being honest.

Ok Bob I cleaned up my act Now let this guy have it!!

 

[occam]

THN, I wish I could help now.....but time will take care of you quite well. If you don't let this define for you what women are or are capable of, you sound like you could be one of the lucky ones. You can have what your looking for, but in all honesty PROBABLY not as, or with a, 22yr old.

With regard to the rest of what this thread has become......

One of the big reasons I don't cheat is the big mirror in my bathroom. I need that guy to respect me........

I am not the person I want to be, I've let myself down.....hard......so I am no ones judge. I have had a hand in the development of some of those sluts being discussed. There was even a girl that thought I was the one, as foolish and naive as that was for either of us. I broke her.........and it kills me still.
She went on to become a cynical, insecure, promiscuous.......yep.....CHEATER..... herself.

To those who are married, who witnessed your vows? I would guess the people you love and respect most.....the people you most want to love and respect you. How often do all those people come together? TO hear and see what YOU want them to see and hear..........Do you want to make those words a lie?

Everyday you live that lie........you lose faith in your own word. They are YOUR commitments, YOUR honor is at stake.

What would you do to someone who hurt your loved one as much as your betrayal would? I bet some of you would seek blood.....I would.


All is never lost .my father told me once that you can be better....for having been worse.

Relationships can get double fucked quickly, I know......but you can be a better man by trying to find a graceful way through it........change is possible... ..self reformation is a theme of great men.

Regarding hot girls wanting you...........sure it's tempting, but is it worth your sense of self.....your honor? It's you deciding, right then and there, what you are.

There are those of us who can have it when they want it, and do.
Then there are those who take it where they can get it because they can't get it when they want.

 

[ramboj70]

I see a lot of posts on here about cheating on wives or gf's. The shit I read here and the shit I see and hear when I go out makes me feel like humans are pieces of crap.
I'm 22, been in love with my girl for 1.5 years. She had to move a couple months ago and we tried long distance until I was going to be able to meet up with her permanently in two weeks. Unfortunately for me, she cheated on me before I got there. Breaks my fucking heart, which sounds gay, but what the fuck, that is the way I am feeling.
I used to fuck everyone, never gave a shit about anyone, and always wanted to be single.....until I met her. This was one of my only real relationships, I truly loved her, and I was always faithful to her. I don't want to go back to the old ways, I really liked being with one person I cared about.

I just feel like shit, kind of lost faith in women. Is there anyone out there worth trusting? I've never really felt like this before, not sure if it's normal or not....sucks ass though.

TNH I am sorry to hear that bro, what I am going to do for you is set you up with my neighbor, Kidding bro hang in there, women are a dime a dozen

 

[sweettart29]

TNH this is gonna probably sound silly but I'm gonna say it, your 22 you have go so much more in your life that to do and so many more people to meet before u settle down with one person.....When I was 22 I had been married/divorced/remarried and had three kids.....I met my first husband when I was 16 and I got pregnant when I was 18 three months after I graduated, so I thought I had to get married to this asshole...The reason I say he was an asshole is becuz he decided I was going to be his personal punching bag....and he cheated on me many times a couple was with my bestfriend at a party we had, and there were others.....I was faithful to him until the night before I left him....I knew that the only way he was going to let the relastionship end was if I cheated on him, so I did.....My second husband, he was just a prick. He ignored me, and enjoyed making me look like an idiot, I am far from that. I gave him eight years of my life....almost nine. I'm 29 now and I have 4 kids....I am going back to school finally.....There are women out there that r looking for the whole two story house with the white picket fence u just have to make sure u r lookin in the right places for them. You also have to make sure u r ready for that type of relationship. I had alot of growing up to do and it had to be done damn fast.....I guess what I am trying to tell u is that u need to make sure u do everything in your life that you want to do before u decided that you want the whole we thing and not the me thing....becuz no matter how hard u try to make it work chances r its not going too.......And believe me I have tried twice.

Oh and one more thing There r girls out there that will b faithful no questions asked. You just have to make sure that not only r u ready for that type of relationship, but she is too....you'll find it may not b today may not b tomorrow but its out there

 

[pgjy]

There is no excuse for cheating....period. Be faithful to your love, wife, gf, whatever the case may be. Cheating is the devils way bros.

I was married at 26, had two boys from her and she was cheating the whole dam
time I was home taking care of the kids. How I found out, she came home from work one day crying, telling me that the coach doesn't want her any more....
WTF. Needless to say divorce.

Now I'm 41 and have a fantastic wife / marriage / relationship with her. No way I could do that to someone.

hell w/ the hotties at the gym, makes me feel good that they check me out, but
I have what I need at home.

my 2 cents.

 

[Bob Smith]

Ok Bob I cleaned up my act Now let this guy have it!!

Based on some of the turns this thread has taken, Ive decided to keep all comments to myself.

Ok, one more...Occam, good post.

 

[crewboss]

wow this thread hits home. TNH bro, I'm really sorry for what happened to you. The way you feel now is the way I felt not too long ago. My story may sound a lot like the others, but it's true how karma comes around to kick you square in the teeth.

I think there are a lot of dudes on this board who can relate to this. Growing up I felt like I could land any chick I laid my eyes on, and for the most part, I did. From when I was 15-25 I had 3 long term relationships, all lasting 3 years or more. I cheated on those three girls more than I can even recall, treated them well at times and treated them unfairly a lot of the time. All three tried over and over to get me to level with them, but at the time I could give a shit what I was doing, living in the moment and toying with emotions without a second thought. All three today are happily married with kids..

And then I met the one I wanted to spend my life with.. When I met her I knew immediately she had a way about her that would be the end of me lol. She was beautiful, brilliant, humble, virtuous, she was my fucking dream bro.. I would have done anything for her, to me she personified everything that was beautiful, I respected her, treated her with dignity, and of course, never so much as looked at another girl.

You can guess the rest. I got my ass handed to me and it basicly destroyed me for a long time. I'm not afraid to say I can remember crying myself to sleep some nights. Yeah i realize that makes me sound like a skirt, but hey it happened. I'd go so far as to say I'm still not over it - I went back to banging everything I saw. I keep women at arm's length, and I most definitely compare every chick I meet to the one that dropped me, which I realize gets you nowhere.. But the point is this. The karma is going to come around and bite your chick on the ass one day, just as it did me...the laundry gets clean one way or another.

My advice to you is to be cautious about which one you fall for, but don't let this experience blind you into thinking they're all evil bitches. Yeah, it seems like a lot of them are, but that shouldn't dissuade you from finding one that will make it all worth it. Trust me, those who have found that one person understand life like the rest of us wish we could. Sucks to hear @ this point, but the best thing to do is acknowledge and move on...good luck crew.

 

[dolfe1]

Man who fish in other man's well often catch crabs.

 

[thick]

sorry about your misfortune TNH. I really have doubts about Mark's assertion that 50% are cheaters. From my experience it would be closer to 70-80 %. PRetty pathetic. I had a gf cheat on me once in jr. high and it didnt feel too damn good even though I didn't even care about her. I wouldnt do that to someone I care about.

 

[Bob Smith]

I remember reading a study (dont think it was scientific, couldve come from Maxim) that about 60-65% of women cheat on their bf/husband and men cheat about 50%. Surprising that women cheat more, but each poll or study Ive read about the subject concludes the samething - women actually cheat more than men.

 

[crewboss]

I remember reading a study (dont think it was scientific, couldve come from Maxim) that about 60-65% of women cheat on their bf/husband and men cheat about 50%. Surprising that women cheat more, but each poll or study Ive read about the subject concludes the samething - women actually cheat more than men.

I've heard that over and over too. Hard to believe they can out-dirtbag us though...

 

[Mark Kerr]

The study I read was from Cosmo...shut up! I was at a womens clothing store and that is all they had...shut up! I was with my GF...

[MK]

 

[nickw]

I know how you feel bro my girlftiend cheated on me after four years together! I really wanted to marry her. It sucks.

 

[thick]

OMFG COSMO LMFAO

The study I read was from Cosmo...shut up! I was at a womens clothing store and that is all they had...shut up! I was with my GF...

[MK]

 

[peytonpaw]

married to the same woman for 18 years 4 kids and I am 38 years old...I'm sorry could someone fill me in on what another woman feels like...does masturbation count

 

[Bob Smith]

married to the same woman for 18 years 4 kids and I am 38 years old...I'm sorry could someone fill me in on what another woman feels like...does masturbation count

Only if your hand is asleep. Great job, Peyton, youre a good man.

 

[peytonpaw]

Thanks Bob....I will tell you, looking at all this porn has helped...