Cheating

great point about the guy knowing b/c of their supposed friend only relationship. I agree completely
Mark Kerr said:
I dont hit women, so... However, if she told the guy she didnt have a BF, then I wouldnt blame the guy. There is no way he could know. But in my experience, most people cheat with someone close (co-worker, friends, neighbors, etc.) So, statistically, he would know she was my GF.

[MK]
 
thick said:
great point about the guy knowing b/c of their supposed friend only relationship. I agree completely

Yeah but on the bright side he found out before she went out and fucked every other tom, dick and Ron Jermey. But ya never know about ol Ron he coulda done hit it. LoL
 
Bob Smith said:
Sorry to hear about the loss of your gf. Not all women are that...Ill be nice.

I find it disgusting reading through the board and seeing how people are bragging about tagging the girl at the bar while their wife sits home taking care of the kids or other such stories. Apparently a large percentage of men and women really are dirty scumbags who place no value in the sanctity of marriage or even a bf/gf relationship. To me, there is nothing honorable in cheating on a spouse. It makes you a loser, a total dirtbag.
From a guys perspective it's simple to me. Guys need to stop trying to find a 'nice' girl and then go fuck 'sluts' that will do the nasty stuff-cum on their face,anal, have a 3 way with another girl.ect.
If you like that kind of stuff (and I do) then it is only right for someone like me to find a girl that is liberal sexually. Just because she does this shit doesn't mean she is easy or a pig. As long as she is loyal and cares for you fuck what someone says.
 
yes

Bob Smith said:
Sorry to hear about the loss of your gf. Not all women are that...Ill be nice.

I find it disgusting reading through the board and seeing how people are bragging about tagging the girl at the bar while their wife sits home taking care of the kids or other such stories. Apparently a large percentage of men and women really are dirty scumbags who place no value in the sanctity of marriage or even a bf/gf relationship. To me, there is nothing honorable in cheating on a spouse. It makes you a loser, a total dirtbag.
I agree with both of you, I used to fuck everything in site and be proud of it. I met this wonderfulg irl who is a woman and sh was/stil hopefully is the one.. I get about 6 calls from eses everyday and It doesn't matter because i wilh it was here calling me the whole time. Yes I a sensitive person. But once you find the right one and she leaves you become a new man. Stay that way, do not go back to your old dirty ways. I know you want too. take it as a loss and work on some things for yourself. Oh and good luck you have a ot of brothers to lean on here.
 
After reading this thread, there are many comments that I could say, but will refrain from making them.

I'm just going to say this... In my family (both mother's and father's side, including aunts and uncles) there has only been one divorce. My parents... 27 years, grandparents ~55 years, and from my knowledge there has not been one instance of cheating. And I have never cheated on anyone in any relationship.

Now I know that this is odd nowadays but it just proves the point that relationships can and do work, but that THEY REQUIRE WORK! I think that anyone who cheats is taking the easy way out. If you can't control yourself and are looking somewhere else, then end it first before you get together with anyone else. At least show the person that you're with that much respect and consideration. No excuses. No BS. If you cheat on someone, you simply are not showing them the respect and consideration that they deserve.

And to those of you who have been the cheated... there are good ones out there. It just takes time and patience to find them. My family is proof of that :)
 
Yeah but they are all taken. that is cool about your family though.
Jewel said:
After reading this thread, there are many comments that I could say, but will refrain from making them.

I'm just going to say this... In my family (both mother's and father's side, including aunts and uncles) there has only been one divorce. My parents... 27 years, grandparents ~55 years, and from my knowledge there has not been one instance of cheating. And I have never cheated on anyone in any relationship.

Now I know that this is odd nowadays but it just proves the point that relationships can and do work, but that THEY REQUIRE WORK! I think that anyone who cheats is taking the easy way out. If you can't control yourself and are looking somewhere else, then end it first before you get together with anyone else. At least show the person that you're with that much respect and consideration. No excuses. No BS. If you cheat on someone, you simply are not showing them the respect and consideration that they deserve.

And to those of you who have been the cheated... there are good ones out there. It just takes time and patience to find them. My family is proof of that :)
 
Not trying to be a jackass but women hit that middle of the month and their minds start doing cartwheels. They don't know what the fuck they want. According to the psychology of behavior if there is one difference between a male and a female it is that women are susseptable to CHANGE. Whether it is change in bed, or a new pair of fucking highheels they are going to have alterations in thought. And always remember don't trust anything that bleeds once a month and doesn't die.
 
Jewel said:
If you cheat on someone, you simply are not showing them the respect and consideration that they deserve.
I cheated on everyone of my girlfriends and i still showed them respect... Yeah,.... Forget it. I'm going to show you some respect and not say it,but my girlfriends didn't deserve respect. I basically used them during my party days,and then i found the women of my dreams. Of course,i knew her most of my life,we just didn't hit it off right away. She liked me and i liked her,but besides some hanky panky every now and again,we never really went out. Well,we've been together for 8yrs now and married for 1. It takes a loooooong time to really get to know someone. You never know how someone is going to react in a certain situation,until they are in it. I'm glad i found my special someone.
 
Congrats MANWHORE on your marriage and finding the right person.

IMO, there are many many ways that you show respect to a person and, yes, you could have been very respectful and considerate in many many ways to your exs, but if you cheated on them then THAT act isn't respectful, no matter how much you think that they deserved it.

I'm not talking about the other ways that you showed them respect and I'm not saying that you aren't a good guy or respectful of women. You said yourself that "my girlfriends didn't deserve respect." You obviously didn't respect them enough to not cheat and IMO you should have let them go before you cheated on them, not after. That's all, IMHO.

Again congrats on finding your special someone.
 

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