Bro.
Taking gear makes the gym HARDER. It's not some magically sauce that makes all the hard work go away.
Males reside in a competence hierarchy. It doesn't matter how fat, ugly or mean you are if you're good at your job.
This is such a female view of the world you have. If women gave as much of a fuck about looks as you think the male species would be the better looking one (like birds for example).
Just as no man gives a shit about a female's profession, no female gives a damn about a man's looks. Looks at the WW2 German troops. They would deliberately engage in sword fights and get scars which disfigured their faces.
Why? It was a sign of masculinity.
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Why don't you learn about real science?
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Sexual selection, including mate choice and intrasexual competition, is responsible for the evolution of some of the most elaborated and sexually dimorphic traits in animals. Although there is sexual dimorphism in the shape of human faces, it is not clear whether this is similarly due to mate...
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Humans (especially Europeans) are a highly sexually dimorphic species that engage in tournament mating. Being attractive is not as important as feats of strength, competence and social standing.
Females are the ones that compete over looks.