getting something off my chest

ickyrica

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I don't have many outlets in life to vent, especially at work. I am using Meso to vent. If you work in a very professional environment you understand my frustration there.

Well, I was "assaulted" at work. The crux here is the assailant is female and slightly autistic(Asperger syndrome I think?). I reprimanded her for spraying a heavy duty cleaner at people in the office and acting unprofessional which in turn became slander on social media and she threw bodily fluid soaked paper towel at me. Needless to say she isn't welcome in the building anymore. She is a neighbor of an office girl and we gave her a job to be nice basically.

I'm almost positive the fluid was pee. That's what I want to believe the worst case scenario to be anyway. The slander revolves around a mountain of Facebook posts that are riddled with lies about me. A good amount of people are commenting about it. I have been threatened by some people. I have been told that I am not deserving to have my job or any kids, etc. This situation is crazy!

I have been employed at the same place for almost a decade and they are very familiar with the girl in question. There were plenty of witnesses to see and hear what happened so I am not worried about anything there. It's just a mess to have a million people texting me telling me about the shit she is posting.

Now, where do I go from here? Considering the issues at hand are truly laughable to any normal, sane individual should I just let things run wild and let it die down? Should I find away to repress the posts? I work in educational facilities, state and federal buildings, police stations etc. This could really put a hurting on my career if it gets any further out of hand. Is it bad form to actively go after someone with mental issues?

This was such a fucked up thing...
 
It may be easier said than done, but I would try to do nothing. It will go away.

If you feel the need to address it, a single post on your Facebook page or something with your side of the interaction is all that you can do.

You did the correct thing and you know that, hiring family or friends to be kind has never once worked out in my experience.
 
I don't have many outlets in life to vent, especially at work. I am using Meso to vent. If you work in a very professional environment you understand my frustration there.

Well, I was "assaulted" at work. The crux here is the assailant is female and slightly autistic(Asperger syndrome I think?). I reprimanded her for spraying a heavy duty cleaner at people in the office and acting unprofessional which in turn became slander on social media and she threw bodily fluid soaked paper towel at me. Needless to say she isn't welcome in the building anymore. She is a neighbor of an office girl and we gave her a job to be nice basically.

I'm almost positive the fluid was pee. That's what I want to believe the worst case scenario to be anyway. The slander revolves around a mountain of Facebook posts that are riddled with lies about me. A good amount of people are commenting about it. I have been threatened by some people. I have been told that I am not deserving to have my job or any kids, etc. This situation is crazy!

I have been employed at the same place for almost a decade and they are very familiar with the girl in question. There were plenty of witnesses to see and hear what happened so I am not worried about anything there. It's just a mess to have a million people texting me telling me about the shit she is posting.

Now, where do I go from here? Considering the issues at hand are truly laughable to any normal, sane individual should I just let things run wild and let it die down? Should I find away to repress the posts? I work in educational facilities, state and federal buildings, police stations etc. This could really put a hurting on my career if it gets any further out of hand. Is it bad form to actively go after someone with mental issues?

This was such a fucked up thing...


I worked for a military contractor(aerospace) about 10yrs ago. My boss brings in a co-op/intern from the local college to shadow me for a while. The man was one of the most intelligent people I've ever met but he had bad aspbergers or autism and his name was Raymond(Rainman) . I shit you not! He was with me for about 2 mos. but they let him go because he would uncontrollably moan at the women and it made most uncomfortable. It was such a shame because he was so bright!
 
It hasn't gone defcon status as of yet. I'm afraid none the less. I think she is lashing out at me on social media because she was let go. Obviously I'm to blame in her mind.

Everything is documented very well and my work is in lock step with me thankfully. It could be a very different situation of nobody else was present. Luckily I wasn't alone.

Thanks for the feed back gents. I don't really have people to talk w on my end. It helps.
 
You handled the incident quite well in my opinion including documenting what happened as well as keeping a lid on your own emotions.

This girl sounds like a wack job and her fb posts reflect that. If this escalates get advice.

Hopefully things will quiet down soon.
 
What I thought everybody's had a towel soaked in piss thrown at them at least a couple times in their life
 
I'm without a doubt never speaking publicly about this unless addessed, with Meso being about the only exception.
Behind closed doors is a much different story. It's a giant gaff in reality but can make life a little more intense while it's happening. Counting my lucky stars that I was with coworkers!

Time for a beer :)
 
That was first item on my dance card once I was left work! Straight up hippie salad lol.

Fwiw I'm not on facebook. No social media at all except for Meso essentially. I was inundated by co-workers loosing their shit reading her FB posts. She made a meme about me!
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Wtf is wrong with people lol I just deleted my Facebook yesterday :D

You can do that now. Permanent deletion.
Permanently delete you FB account? Didn't realize you can do that. I have FB but only use it to keep in touch with my family and HS/college chums. Some years back it was hacked but I was able to rebuild it with help of FB admins.

FB seems to be a platform for hate and BS...that's why I am careful who I add or what groups I join.
 
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