Guys over 30 who got married young, do you regret it?

[WeightLossBurn]

Not only do you have to meet the right one, but you have to act that part yourself. Wife's not perfect, neither am I. If you have good self-realization than you will be fine.

But please don't watch a porn movie and think that's what married life is going to be like. Maybe check out the show "Scared Straight".

 

[JMpMasterSteve]

Fuck yeah you regret it Dick face. Why settle for one gash when you can have them all.

 

[MFAAS]

Fuck yeah you regret it Dick face. Why settle for one gash when you can have them all.

I'm sorry but gash is the absolute most disgusting word for vagins I have ever heard. Like wtf I don't get why anyone would use that term. Do you not think it sounds gross? Genuinely curious.

 

[JMpMasterSteve]

I'm sorry but gash is the absolute most disgusting word for vagins I have ever heard. Like wtf I don't get why anyone would use that term. Do you not think it sounds gross? Genuinely curious.

I don’t think it’s the worst out there. When someone says “vajayjay” I give them the side eye…

 

[MFAAS]

I don’t think it’s the worst out there. When someone says “vajayjay” I give them the side eye…

Yeah that sounds really dumb but it definitely isn't gross. It doesn't conjur images of nasty open wounds in the mind lol. I will take stupid/dumb over nasty/gross any day!

 

[WeightLossBurn]

Yeah that sounds really dumb but it definitely isn't gross. It doesn't conjur images of nasty open wounds in the mind lol. I will take stupid/dumb over nasty/gross any day!

Have you experienced trauma going down there on the wrong day? Your reaction to gash sounds like PTSD.

 

[Bottom_Feeder]

Your forum picture has a girl on all fours wearing hardly anything. Was that picture approved by the wife? Is that the wife? I'm struggling to look at that picture and take your heart felt emotions seriously.

Approved by wife? Kinda confused here, it's extremely rare that I seek approval for anything. Do you ask your wife to masterbate?

no that is not a picture of my wife. Similar but no

You don't have to take what I said seriously, it don't really care. I'm honestly confused as to what you mean. The profile pic is of a beautiful woman. As far as my original post on this thread, I stand by it. If you have a better question I'd be willing to answer it.

 

[Bottom_Feeder]

Interesting...

The only thing I feel you are incorrect on is... letting a woman talk your ear off. I tell my woman... "When you are talking you are not thinking!"

I fully believe women are meant to be looked at, not listened to. A womans breasts should speak for themselves!

I get it... agreed.

 

[may2021]

Have you experienced trauma going down there on the wrong day? Your reaction to gash sounds like PTSD.

After one chick in my 20's... I was hallucinating for several hours. It's literally trench warfare out there, pal. If there was ever a need for testing... pussy is it.

 

[BBC3]

Delay it as long as possible. Make MONEY!
In my 50's I've got 20 and 30 YOs hitting on me constantly.

That's a double edged sword.. The making money thing and all. Cause sooner or later one is gonna get ya - AND THEN SHE GETS HALF... Might almost be better to be poor..

On the second hand, I am not sure that procreating at a young age does not just create a clone of the young morons we are. There is a reason sperm are created daily which is to represent the CURRENT genetic makeup. You want to get some experience, grow a few new brain cells, and perhaps incur some hyperplasia to pass on..

Lastly, had I got married early, there is NO QUESTION I would be in prison for beating her stupid cheating ho ass constantly...

 

[WeightLossBurn]

Approved by wife? Kinda confused here, it's extremely rare that I seek approval for anything. Do you ask your wife to masterbate?

no that is not a picture of my wife. Similar but no

You don't have to take what I said seriously, it don't really care. I'm honestly confused as to what you mean. The profile pic is of a beautiful woman. As far as my original post on this thread, I stand by it. If you have a better question I'd be willing to answer it.

I've seriously considered asking my wife if I can rub one out. When she pulls that I'm tired shit on me. But instead of phrasing at as a question, I would just nonchalantly request her to pass over since tissues.

I just find some humor in your emotional post with respect to your wife, while having some scantily clad beauty on all fours, tongue out, ready to fuck as your picture.

 

[Bottom_Feeder]

I've seriously considered asking my wife if I can rub one out. When she pulls that I'm tired shit on me. But instead of phrasing at as a question, I would just nonchalantly request her to pass over since tissues.

I just find some humor in your emotional post with respect to your wife, while having some scantily clad beauty on all fours, tongue out, ready to fuck as your picture.

Your attempting to insult me... I think? If you think my wife has not looked at me very similar to that picture, recently, you would be mistaken. I am pretty open with my sexuality. Yea I'm kinda bonded to my wife, she is... my wife. I fuckin showed her that picture a few weeks ago. It's fairly normal for men to be attracted to pretty girls. It's not normal to beg your wife for permission to beat off.

Not only do you have to meet the right one, but you have to act that part yourself. Wife's not perfect, neither am I. If you have good self-realization than you will be fine.

But please don't watch a porn movie and think that's what married life is going to be like. Maybe check out the show "Scared Straight".

The first paragraph here makes sense. As far as your second paragraph, it's more common than you may believe to have porn style sex. If you know how to lead a woman she would absolutely love it. Most all women I have met have a strict societal barrier placed around their sexuality. Only good girls do this or that. It's common, as a man, to open that barrier. It's primal and masculine too. There is a reason 50 shades of grey was a best seller for along while. You should read it, have your wife read it too. Explore and have fun. Turn it into a thing, have some great sex. Lead her to the book

 

[Ferret]

Your attempting to insult me... I think? If you think my wife has not looked at me very similar to that picture, recently, you would be mistaken. I am pretty open with my sexuality. Yea I'm kinda bonded to my wife, she is... my wife. I fuckin showed her that picture a few weeks ago. It's fairly normal for men to be attracted to pretty girls. It's not normal to beg your wife for permission to beat off.



The first paragraph here makes sense. As far as your second paragraph, it's more common than you may believe to have porn style sex. If you know how to lead a woman she would absolutely love it. Most all women I have met have a strict societal barrier placed around their sexuality. Only good girls do this or that. It's common, as a man, to open that barrier. It's primal and masculine too. There is a reason 50 shades of grey was a best seller for along while. You should read it, have your wife read it too. Explore and have fun. Turn it into a thing, have some great sex. Lead her to the book

Last person I would want to have fun with would be someone I live with, wife, etc.

There are so many adventurous 20 year old women out there!

Use the wife for menial chores, cleaning, cooking, etc! And have her give you a good massage after you come back doing the workout with the 20 year old!

 

[CoffeeZombie]

Humans are not monagamous creatures. Ask anyone who has been divorced, or had a long term relationship end if they once believed it would last forever! Then ask them how much they lost via a divorce or child support. It's your choice, look at life pragmatically, or be a fool and be treated like one by women.

I do not quite agree that the division is only in the context of pragmatism or as a woman). We are all different and we all have our own stories, both successful and negative. But this does not mean that marriage is always bad.

 

[CoffeeZombie]

My first girlfriend I met at 15. We dated until I was 28. She too was my best friend. By then we had grown into different people but I don't regret the experience. Nor am I implying people shouldn't try, just maybe avoid the marriage part due to statistics.

I nearly had the whole marriage experience but instead of divorce we broke up and she moved out lol.

Then I spent 28-32 being a fuckboy with excess money due to a union trade and now I'm 33 settled with another 'ride or die' girl who I also am not gonna marry.

Most women just want the wedding not the marriage. I've learned to train them(and myself) into what i want. My current girlfriend took up my motorcycle hobby, got her license and I picked up a baby kawasaki ninja as a 2nd bike for her to use, she also learned to swim, and accepted my firearms/redpilled herself.

She started working out more, brought her camping/kayaking. Now she's like a proud outdoorsy chick who can kinda swing an axe and park in the lines now. It's pretty cool, work in progress. I adopted all kinds of Asian culture. Going to temple to eat is legit af.

True remark, many want a wedding, but not a relationship in marriage. Since this is a lot of work, where you need to be able to find compromises and get out of a difficult situation. And, of course, it is based on friendship and respect. And the correct remark should not be regretted. After all, this is an experience, emotions, and at some moments you were happy))

 

[MetalAsh]

Not 30+.

I agree with posters saying to start building capital and / or skills in your 20's. It's really nice to be in your 30's and have a degree (preferably masters or higher). You simply don't have time or the drive to achieve this when you're older, following strict orders from a prof to do nonsensical assignments is not something you should be looking forward to doing when you're 30+. Of course not everyone is capable of or aspires to do university. In that case it is important you find an industry you're comfortable working in that allows you to both build some capital as well as allows you to expand your skills (for example through certifications). These steps are far more important to your overall well being.

A marriage / relationship can cost you a lot of time. It's important to prioritize your education / career above your relationship at this stage. That doesn't mean that you should neglect your relationship, but it means that sometimes it might be smart to skip contact / meeting up for a bit since you need to allocate time elsewhere. Marriage is very difficult before 30 especially during the 18-25 stage, I don't think most people have business getting married at this age. Simply because at this age most are too busy getting into a career, completing education and are also quite immature when it comes to dating and expectations.

 

[Bigskip]

I'm just wondering. I'm 23 and leaning towards just banging hos and having a gf at the most at least for the long forseeable future. What do you guys think about this topic? My dad was divorced twice and my mom is on her fourth marriage so at least what I've seen marriage isnt smart.

If you’re actually wondering I would advise to dig a little deeper on what you want out of life, your spirituality, integrity, character, goals, value system etc… and not rely on most Meso replies to play a part in steering or driving such life questions as this.
Good place for a lot… for this question nah.
Compartmentalize where you look for answers.

 

[Ferret]

I'm just wondering. I'm 23 and leaning towards just banging hos and having a gf at the most at least for the long forseeable future. What do you guys think about this topic? My dad was divorced twice and my mom is on her fourth marriage so at least what I've seen marriage isnt smart.

Go find 5 attractive women... look at their tits, then look at their ass. Do you only want to fuck one of them? Or all 5? There in lays your answer my son!

 

[CoffeeZombie]

If you’re actually wondering I would advise to dig a little deeper on what you want out of life, your spirituality, integrity, character, goals, value system etc… and not rely on most Meso replies to play a part in steering or driving such life questions as this.
Good place for a lot… for this question nah.
Compartmentalize where you look for answers.

In general, sometimes it is necessary and important to analyze your values, which is important. What is important is not only material benefits, but also spirituality, mentality and what makes us human.

 

[DannZ]

Not 30+.

I agree with posters saying to start building capital and / or skills in your 20's. It's really nice to be in your 30's and have a degree (preferably masters or higher). You simply don't have time or the drive to achieve this when you're older, following strict orders from a prof to do nonsensical assignments is not something you should be looking forward to doing when you're 30+. Of course not everyone is capable of or aspires to do university. In that case it is important you find an industry you're comfortable working in that allows you to both build some capital as well as allows you to expand your skills (for example through certifications). These steps are far more important to your overall well being.

A marriage / relationship can cost you a lot of time. It's important to prioritize your education / career above your relationship at this stage. That doesn't mean that you should neglect your relationship, but it means that sometimes it might be smart to skip contact / meeting up for a bit since you need to allocate time elsewhere. Marriage is very difficult before 30 especially during the 18-25 stage, I don't think most people have business getting married at this age. Simply because at this age most are too busy getting into a career, completing education and are also quite immature when it comes to dating and expectations.

If you have any type of normal sex drive you best have a relationship when you’re young tbh. Without consistent condom free sex you’re gonna feel very lost and it’s going to hurt your career. I know I did in my earlier 20s