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bigpmp

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Mom's stroke - guys i need to vent, sorry.

Bro's,

My mom had a stroke yesterday morning. She suffered some paralysis on her left side, and they told us yesterday that chances are she will have another. She has high blood pressure, and is a diabetic. Any prayers you could throw up for her would be greatly appreciated.
 
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bigpmp said:
Bro's,

My mom had a stroke yesterday morning. She suffered some paralysis on her left side, and they told us yesterday that chances are she will have another. She has high blood pressure, and is a diabetic. Any prayers you could throw up for her would be greatly appreciated.
wow bro, really sorry to hear that about your mom, she will be in my prayers, tell your mom the boys from meso wish her a speedy recovery, hang in there bro things do get better.
 
ramboj70 said:
wow bro, really sorry to hear that about your mom, she will be in my prayers, tell your mom the boys from meso wish her a speedy recovery, hang in there bro things do get better.

Prayers and a speedy and healthy recovery.
 
ramboj70 said:
wow bro, really sorry to hear that about your mom, she will be in my prayers, tell your mom the boys from meso wish her a speedy recovery, hang in there bro things do get better.

I keep trying to believe that, but in the last two years i have, divorced and gone through a custody battle (which i won), lost my grand mother, lost my grand father 12 months later, remarried to have my new wife sent to germany for the war effort for a year, had my dad admitted into the hospital for pancreatitis, lost my coaching position because I happened to be on staff when the head coach was caught in an affair so they ran all of us off, and now my mom has a stroke. I am waiting for the sun to break the clouds. It is becoming more and more difficult to keep from becoming bitter. If not for you guys, I think it would be much harder. I never imagined the support I would get when I jouned this site. You are truly Bro's.
 
dolfe1 said:
big pmp, are you currently married?

Yes, my wife and I were married upon her return from germany. I know where you are going, and I have not seen the stripper since my wifes return and our marriage. I am a devoted father and husband with a son on the way.
 
i wish your mother the best. my grandmother passed away last november, she had diabetes most of her adult life and i know what its like. it is managable but only with meticulous care and family who are willing to help out. good luck to your mother bro, she will be in my prayers.
 
bigpmp said:
Bro's,

My mom had a stroke yesterday morning. She suffered some paralysis on her left side, and they told us yesterday that chances are she will have another. She has high blood pressure, and is a diabetic. Any prayers you could throw up for her would be greatly appreciated.

Sorry to here that bro, hang in there and i wish you and her well.
 
bigpmp said:
Yes, my wife and I were married upon her return from germany. I know where you are going, and I have not seen the stripper since my wifes return and our marriage. I am a devoted father and husband with a son on the way.
bro you know we have things in common, ever since I got out of the Marine Corps my luck sucks, you have a family they need you, is your wife back from overseas? now what keeps me going is that I can motovate myself, I never show weakness around my wife and kids, meaning I dont cry, get nervous, scared, etc; this helps me support them 100% and they can always count on me, Your a good man if you got custody of the kids, so you are a strong person, these problems do and will go away at somepoint, its hard being away from family, my wife hated it when I got orders anad shipped overseas somewhere and she had no idea if I was dead or alive, she is now been out of town for about 5 months now helping out her mom and grandma, she is only 2 hrs away, it sucks big time, its just me and the damn dog, I guess what I am trying to say is keep up the work and hang in there bro, I tell you that meso is always there when your down and feeling sad, PM me if you need anything
 
ramboj70 said:
bro you know we have things in common, ever since I got out of the Marine Corps my luck sucks, you have a family they need you, is your wife back from overseas? now what keeps me going is that I can motovate myself, I never show weakness around my wife and kids, meaning I dont cry, get nervous, scared, etc; this helps me support them 100% and they can always count on me, Your a good man if you got custody of the kids, so you are a strong person, these problems do and will go away at somepoint, its hard being away from family, my wife hated it when I got orders anad shipped overseas somewhere and she had no idea if I was dead or alive, she is now been out of town for about 5 months now helping out her mom and grandma, she is only 2 hrs away, it sucks big time, its just me and the damn dog, I guess what I am trying to say is keep up the work and hang in there bro, I tell you that meso is always there when your down and feeling sad, PM me if you need anything

Thanks Bro,

Yes, the wife is back. We were not actually married when she left. Once she returned we sealed the deal. It sucked while she was gone, because we had been dating a while and she was really close to my daughter, so once she left it was just me and my little girl for 12 months. There were times when my duaghter even blamed me for her leaving. It was hard to explain to a 3 year old. Now she is back and our marriage is great and we have a son on the way. So there are bright spots, it is just hard to see them some times. If not for the weights I would have lost my mind a long time ago.
 
bigpmp said:
Thanks Bro,

Yes, the wife is back. We were not actually married when she left. Once she returned we sealed the deal. It sucked while she was gone, because we had been dating a while and she was really close to my daughter, so once she left it was just me and my little girl for 12 months. There were times when my duaghter even blamed me for her leaving. It was hard to explain to a 3 year old. Now she is back and our marriage is great and we have a son on the way. So there are bright spots, it is just hard to see them some times. If not for the weights I would have lost my mind a long time ago.
true daat bro, take one day at a time, and now focus most of your attention to your mom,
 
i will keep you and your family im my prayers....hang in there bro...let us know how shes doing.

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Bigpmp,
Bro sorry about the run of bad luck. You and yours will be in my prayers
If you ever get out to west texas and need anything shoot me a PM
Stncld
 
STNCLD said:
Bigpmp,
Bro sorry about the run of bad luck. You and yours will be in my prayers
If you ever get out to west texas and need anything shoot me a PM
Stncld

Thanks Bro,

That goes both ways. If you ever find yourself in East Texas let me know.
 
Ok, I got to get this out. I had to find out about my mom from an attorney from the Texas Classroom Teachers Association. I filed a grievance against the school for cutting my salary. Once I did that, the superintendent issued an email that said there would be no administrator internships in the district next year. She did this because she knows if I don't do my internship next year I will loose 4 years of Masters work. Well, the TCTA attorney filed against her for retaliation. Then I find out that I am the only one that the email pertained to becasue she is allowing a female teacher to do her internship next year, just not me. Once again the TCTA attorney files for discrimination with the EEOC. When the bitch get the news of my mothers stroke, she does not tell me. She calls the schools attorney to let him know that he can probablly get the hearing pushed back now because of my mom's health. So I find out when the TCTA attorney calls to ask me about my mom. She had the stroke around 6 am and the superintendent found out about it around 7:30 am and I had to find out from my attorney at 12:30 with 4th hand info that he got from the schools attorney. I have never felt so much hate for anyone in my life. How can someone be so cold. She did not even let me know about my mom. Then she has the nerve to come up to me this morning in front of everyone in the office at school and ask how my mom is. It was all I could do to just walk away. Sorry for the rant Bro's, just had to get that off my chest and let you guys know how fucked up this bitch is.
 
bigpmp said:
Ok, I got to get this out. I had to find out about my mom from an attorney from the Texas Classroom Teachers Association. I filed a grievance against the school for cutting my salary. Once I did that, the superintendent issued an email that said there would be no administrator internships in the district next year. She did this because she knows if I don't do my internship next year I will loose 4 years of Masters work. Well, the TCTA attorney filed against her for retaliation. Then I find out that I am the only one that the email pertained to becasue she is allowing a female teacher to do her internship next year, just not me. Once again the TCTA attorney files for discrimination with the EEOC. When the bitch get the news of my mothers stroke, she does not tell me. She calls the schools attorney to let him know that he can probablly get the hearing pushed back now because of my mom's health. So I find out when the TCTA attorney calls to ask me about my mom. She had the stroke around 6 am and the superintendent found out about it around 7:30 am and I had to find out from my attorney at 12:30 with 4th hand info that he got from the schools attorney. I have never felt so much hate for anyone in my life. How can someone be so cold. She did not even let me know about my mom. Then she has the nerve to come up to me this morning in front of everyone in the office at school and ask how my mom is. It was all I could do to just walk away. Sorry for the rant Bro's, just had to get that off my chest and let you guys know how fucked up this bitch is.
fuck her bro, dont stress that cunt, you have other worries that need attending to.
 
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